Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

johnsonmartina6:
nobody way no like sex,, if she is not getting it from her husband,, she dey bang somewhere

johnsonmartina6:
nobody way no like sex,, if she is not getting it from her husband,, she dey bang somewhere

ukaface:
I wan ask question o
Please at what stage do men stop being sex starved?

zeb04:
does it really work? I wanted to buy sometime ago but I changed my mind.
Have uou used it?

Chiomahelen17:
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Yes it really worked, I used it and still using it now.

Remag666:
Have you done DNA test to even know maybe you're raising another man(s) children

The way i see it you already know what needs to be done cause I'm sure she didn't start denying you sex today it has been happening since but you're now fed up after realising she won't change.

Get a sidechick or continue pampering your

wife

Chiomahelen17:
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Yes it really worked, I used it and still using it now.

kingsceemark:



Send me the wife number make I talk some senses into her head

Stargurl20:

Mitchewww

Deicide:
Men always remember that a woman can get married to someone she doesn't even love! Just because she chose to marry you doesn't mean you are or where her first choice. To them it is nothing.

Gadafii:
Divorce her asap or Make u find one small banny wey go fuccck ur essence off, gobble down your mamba with joy, life is too short to put a woman under your roof, provide and protect for her, clothes her, then she turn around to deny you sexx, she dey ment


What else she has to offer you

Ashinze:
Point of correction , Nigeria women not africa women

Kobojunkie:
Was any of that in bold listed?

African women are not trained to be resistant to sex. Nigerian women are women and they all deal with stress even of the marital kind like women everywhere. Instead of making marriage about you and your dk, learn how to be better husbands/lovers.

ukaface:
Do men actually understand that they can't compare their libido to females?
Some females after first childbirth,will have a decreased sex libido
Menopause introduces low libido too.

Just because you feel the urge all the time, doesn't mean your wife must feel same.
Understand the female body, understand your wife. Everything is not sex biko.

The society has made it worse for women already to always open leg once the man ask for it, neglecting to know how the female body works or what is actually wrong with the woman

Abeg, make all of una getat

UyaiIncomparabl:


You're truly a psycho as your signature implies.

KiNg0G:
divorce or get a second wife.



na we men dey make matter look complicated.




all this kind topic dey always make me vex, it be like make i beat sense enter the poster brain.

chaseblack:



You want the man to be considerate that pregnancy has reduced the wife's libido, but it should ho side ways, let the woman also be considerate that the husband who hasn't been pregnant is still NATURALLY REQUIRED equipped with high libido.
If she is a good person, that is where compromise comes into place.
You shouldn't starve the other because you are not interested!
Sacrifice and Compromise makes a healthy marriage

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

johnsonmartina6:
nobody way no like sex,, if she is not getting it from her husband,, she dey bang somewhere