Well, your uncle is a very discipline man,

Wahala

He has spiritual problem,but he's ignorant of it so he will think he's right, until he discovered it himself and source for solution

Your uncle is nothing but a no nonsense man who doesn't take shiit from daughters of Jezebel.

Not all men like "women's drama" e.g me.. My peace of mind is very important to me..

BigYash:
Not all men like "women's drama" e.g me.. My peace of mind is very important to me..

Then why marry at all?

Isn't it foolishness of the highest order to continue to engage that which you know you are not cut out for?

yuping:
your uncle don't tolerate nonsense, as long as he is happy with is decision let him be.

That's selfish thinking. How about the "okaness" of the women a d the children.
We shouldn't make decisions just based on us, we should consider others. The world will be a lot better this way

Kobojunkie:
Then why marry at all?

Why should women come with drama at all?

theForth:
Why should women come with drama at all?

Why can't they? It is there life and there drama.

Isn't it foolishness of the highest order on your part to continue to engage that which you know you are not cut out for?

Kobojunkie:
Then why marry at all?

Isn't it foolishness of the highest order to continue to engage that which you know you are not cut out for?

Probably he wants kids,or people like op are on his head to get married..
Imagine the first wife,went eating with another man in a restaurant. Before you will know,they are in hotel. Not all men are fools..

Kobojunkie:
Why can't they? It is there life and there drama.

Isn't it foolishness of the highest order on your part to continue to engage that which you know you are not cut out for?

Probably why he divorced them, so I don't get why you're allover the place crying.

What was somebody's wife doing in a restaurant with another man

How do you expect a sensible man to stay with a wife that doesn't listen to instructions

As for the third wife,

BigYash:
Probably he wants kids,or people like op are on his head to get married..
Imagine the first wife,went eating with another man in a restaurant. Before you will know,they are in hotel. Not all men are fools..

None of that is good enough reason for this man's behavior. Imagine the mental condition of any child being raised in such a household. Better yet, Imagine your own father had ripped the carpet from under you like that several times as a kid. It is a terrible way to deal with life.

As for the comment about the first wife, we don't have the details of what happened, so I think it is silly to react without having the facts to work with.

Your uncle must be UBUNJA

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Kobojunkie:
Obviously your uncle is the problem here.

The other issue is the women he keeps engaging aren't educated on their rights as individuals even in marriage. If the first and second wife had processed the divorce from him in the courts as it should be, your uncle may have been forced to tackle maturity since then.

[/s] always commenting nonsense.
You're lucky this is a faceless forum cos na slap you for the collect everytime you post trash.
By now you for don get sense sef

Op your uncle is right for that first marriage, but for that second one he should have exercise a little patience,


He is right for that first one, na so e dey start from restaurant they will graduate to hotel.

Ayanwukoma:
The first wife he married didn't last a year he fired her, just because he saw her with another man at a restaurant eating.


the second wife, is presently in her father's house, because he says she doesn't listen to instructions, since 2012.



just this evening, a group of elder men from his third wife family came visiting my father to talk to his brother....I knew they must have been another issue...


so this left me asking is he the problem or his wives?
lalasticlala

Ur Ankle is the problem. He is too tempered and judgemental. And he isn't tolerant or accomodative. The reason he could be acting that way could be because he has money. Aside that, his case could be Spiritual. Perhaps, he has been spiritually programmed not to be stable in marriage or with any woman.

theForth:
Probably why he divorced them, so I don't get why you're allover the place crying.

Your comment makes no sense!

... women and dramatic, according to the other, goes hand in hand .... so why marry in the first place.

MufasaLion:
Seems your uncle easily jumps into marriage without proper courting. He should take things slow and steady.

Funny enough 'courting' as we know it today of familiarity & long months is quite a new concept.

Long ago people married without any protracted 'courtships', and those marriages lasted longer on the average.

Wow.

Kobojunkie:
Your comment makes no sense!

... women and dramatic, according to the other, goes hand in hand .... so why marry in the first place.

Madam I don't argue with women, have a nice day!!

HEBEI:
What was somebody's wife doing in a restaurant with another man

How do you expect a sensible man to stay with a wife that doesn't listen to instructions

As for the third wife,

So wife's can't eat in are restaurant with another man? The kain mentality many of you get where marriage dey, .....

theForth:
Madam I don't argue with women, have a nice day!!

Oh, when caught in your own foolishness you declare me a woman... **shudders**

Probably your uncle might not be the cause nither his wives.

There must be someone in your family who didn't stick to one wife.
Maybe ur greatest grandfather did it or the great grandfather to ur greatest grandfather.
I hope u gad my points?

Even in my family, my grandfather didn't marry one wife it was about 9 or 8 according to the history but I witness only 3of his wives aline.

And my uncle who is the eldest brother to my father has continue frm there
And the numbers of his wives that I can recall now are only 5.
So my brother check ur family history from the start of ur Surname who bears it and what it means and why he was given such a name.
Thanks.

Ayanwukoma:
The first wife he married didn't last a year he fired her, just because he saw her with another man at a restaurant eating.


the second wife, is presently in her father's house, because he says she doesn't listen to instructions, since 2012.



just this evening, a group of elder men from his third wife family came visiting my father to talk to his brother....I knew they must have been another issue...


so this left me asking is he the problem or his wives?
lalasticlala

It is definitely your uncle.

Your uncle is not the problem but the money he thinks he has.

You will know that he is tolerance, patience and gentle the moment the money stops flowing.

By then he will be a liability looking for who to suffocate.

Some men are shit.

Asour:


Funny enough 'courting' as we know it today of familiarity & long months is quite a new concept.

Long ago people married without any protracted 'courtships', and those marriages lasted longer on the average.

Wow.

Civilisation is the reason things are like this today. I'm not condemning civilisation, but then it has affected many people negatively. Although, those that allowed it to affect them.

Your uncle is like me.I don't tolerate rubbish

I don't know if some people always feel that they are a problem

Kobojunkie:
So wife's can't eat in are restaurant with another man? The kain mentality many of you get where marriage dey, .....

After a good meal next thing na nacking

Kobojunkie:
So wife's can't eat in are restaurant with another man? The kain mentality many of you get where marriage dey, .....

Me, I can't tolerate my wife going to restaurant to with another man. Just like I can never be caught eating with another man's wife in a restaurant.
And that's me and not you.
You can do as you wish with your own wife. Keep your mentality to those that are ok with it.

Ayanwukoma:
The first wife he married didn't last a year he fired her, just because he saw her with another man at a restaurant eating.


the second wife, is presently in her father's house, because he says she doesn't listen to instructions, since 2012.



just this evening, a group of elder men from his third wife family came visiting my father to talk to his brother....I knew they must have been another issue...


so this left me asking is he the problem or his wives?
lalasticlala

Even at the third marriage, you are yet to understand that your uncle is a difficult man to live with

Let him continue marrying and sending his wives away

By old age, he will stay alone