vickydevoka:

90% Nigerian girls have mood disorder

So you've dated/been with 90% of Nigerian girls, that's around say, 30million girls.
Wow!

Fashionista01:

So want the person to marry such and be killed.
Let us be reasonable, how can put your life at risk in the name of marriage.

so people with anxiety disorders,mood disorders and
schizophrenia disorders are killers now? My God.

ASHTAROTH:


Have you heard of paranoid schizophrenia?
I will suggest you do your research before you make definitive or claim a statement as factual!

I know what schizophrenia is trust me. You're the confused one. What you wrote about your girl does not mean she has schizophrenia. You actually need to read more about it. I rest my case.

SugarGirl44:


Of course they can marry but they shouldn't be selfish to not seek professional help before settling down thereby bothering another person's child to be stressed for life.
Or their parents should do the needful to care for their problematic child before releasing to the public.
Life is hard enough, nobody needs to add another person's curable disorder to theirs.

this one must be a very wicked Lady. By their fruit we shall know them sha

SugarGirl44:


Of course they can marry but they shouldn't be selfish to not seek professional help before settling down thereby bothering another person's child to be stressed for life.
Or their parents should do the needful to care for their problematic child before releasing to the public.
Life is hard enough, nobody needs to add another person's curable disorder to theirs.

The irony here is that you're a woman,and women suffers from mental disorder more. Are you aware that 90 percent of woman suffers from psychological problems during their messes? Pray hard o.

safarigirl:


If you cannot handle the possibility of your partner having a mental health disorder before marriage, I can assure you that if it happens in marriage, you will run away from the marriage.

Imagine your wife has Post Partum Depression, how will you handle it, when you have decided to dedicate your life to avoiding mental health issues, rather than confronting them? What if you have a child that has to deal with anxiety? Will you say nobody should marry that child?

You don't even know if you have NPD, maybe that is why you think yourself too perfect for another person with mental health issues. You think it is all mental health issues that are blatant?

So, in summary, people should start settling for mentally unstable people in order to understand how to handle such in case it gets worse in the index relationship or subsequent ones
Please go back to your write up again?

Fashionista01:

So want the person to marry such and be killed.
Let us be reasonable, how can put your life at risk in the name of marriage.

The irony here is that you're a woman,and women suffers from mental disorder more. Are you aware that 90 percent of woman suffers from psychological problems during their messes? Pray hard o.

ASHTAROTH:


Have you heard of paranoid schizophrenia?
I will suggest you do your research before you make definitive or claim a statement as factual!

What meds was your girl on? How do you know she has schizophrenia?? For how long? When was she diagnosed? Your girl most probably had or has issues like most girls do. Someone who has schizophrenia does not act like that. She must have been suspecting you of being a cultist for a reason? As for Fighting her mum, most girls with issues fight everyone. Get used It. I hope she's well sorted now tho. Peace.

Help2020:

The irony here is that you're a woman,and women suffers from mental disorder more. Are you aware that 90 percent of woman suffers from psychological problems during their messes? Pray hard o.

never mind her. Maybe she's still a kid(mama's girl)

Tutu82:

Everyone deserves to be loved irrespective of their mental state.This can also be managed with medication,support from family and friends plus counselling.It is expensive and rare in Nigeria i agree but if you look for help then you will find it.

Would you be singing the same tune if it was a family member that had mental health issues?.

For the religious ones quoting mental health is for unbelievers priests rape young altar boys and pastors have raped choir members so i guess God went on holiday that period.
This article clearly shows more mental health awareness is needed in Nigeria.

We are all “mad” here some are just unable to handle their stress levels so same difference.

Love your Neigbour as yourself,cut people some slack and try to stay positive.

God bless you

Help2020:

The irony here is that you're a woman,and women suffers from mental disorder more. Are you aware that 90 percent of woman suffers from psychological problems during their messes? Pray hard o.

You're saying something entirely different here.
Hormonal changes and psychological/personality disorders are not in the same category at all.
Or have you heard of menstruating women misbehaving to the point of being violent on their partners?

Who here knows about maladaptive daydreaming?

TheFutureIsHere:
this one must be a very wicked Lady. By their fruit we shall know them sha

Lol. Nigerians sha!
So for advising someone to seek professional help for a disorder is now wickedness?
Wow!

Help2020:
so people with anxiety disorders,mood disorders and
schizophrenia disorders are killers now? My God.

Thabk you. My point exactly!!! Most people with these illnesses aren't even violent.

Dorime

OandA777:



I was diagnosed with schizophrenia last year. There's a difference between schizophrenia and paranoia or being insecure. My guy your girl was not really mad most girls are like that. I hope your post is true tho. Cause these days people post anything for clout.

There's a type of schizophrenia called paranoid schizophrenia.

TalkTalkTwins:
So what happens to unconditional love?
This post screams selfishness, selfishness, selfishness!


Anxiety, mood disorders and schizophrenia disorders happen to people, and they can be managed.
What if you were the one with any of the disorders?
Abeg make una getat

No vex abeg which of them is doin u?

SugarGirl44:

You're saying something entirely different here.
Hormonal changes and psychological/personality disorders are not in the same category at all.
Or have you heard of menstruating women misbehaving to the point of being violent on their partners?

Do you even know what hormones does? Lol..
And you're not even aware that hormonal imbalance are responsible for most of this conditions? So you don't knw menstruating women can become violent? No wonder you post that nonsense and still have the enfrontry to defend it.

TalkTalkTwins:
So what happens to unconditional love?
This post screams selfishness, selfishness, selfishness!


Anxiety, mood disorders and schizophrenia disorders happen to people, and they can be managed.
What if you were the one with any of the disorders?
Abeg make una getat

Don't you think checking that does not mean outright rejection but you as a partner knowing and helping your partner manage it and also to be safe in your own part?

Help2020:

The irony here is that you're a woman,and women suffers from mental disorder more. Are you aware that 90 percent of woman suffers from psychological problems during their messes? Pray hard o.

We can start by taking the statistics of how many mad women and men on the street. To be pretty sure of ur statement.

pulsa:


There's a type of schizophrenia called paranoid schizophrenia.

Agreed!

SugarGirl44:

Lol. Nigerians sha!
So for advising someone to seek professional help for a disorder is now wickedness?
Wow!

don't you know menstruation causes madness in women. you must not know everything. that's why we have Devine doctors, not quack doctors oo. If you lack medical knowledge, meet a divine doctor to help out. Many of us are here on Nairaland

Fashionista01:

We can start by taking the statistics of how many mad women and men on the street. To be pretty sure of ur statement.

So this one is categorizing all mental disorder as madness. Sorry you have won. I ought to know better

Help2020:

Do you even know what hormones does? Lol..
And you're not even aware that hormonal imbalance are responsible for most of this conditions? So you don't knw menstruating women can become violent? No wonder you post that nonsense and still have the enfrontry to defend it.

You're the one spilling trash here.
So menstruation has now been added to the list of psychological disorders according to you.
So each time your wife and sisters menstruate, they slap you? You even need the slap sef.
You really need help as your name implies.
Go get it fast.

TheFutureIsHere:
don't you know menstruation causes madness in women. you must not know everything. that's why we have Devine doctors, not quack doctors oo. If you lack medical knowledge, meet a divine doctor to help out. Many of us are here on Nairaland

Same thing I told her. She is clearly not aware that they(women) suffers more mental disorder than men.

TheFutureIsHere:
don't you know menstruation causes madness in women. you must not know everything. that's why we have Devine doctors, not quack doctors oo. If you lack medical knowledge, meet a divine doctor to help out. Many of us are here on Nairaland

You really need to see a doctor.

SugarGirl44:

You really need to see a doctor.

how can a doctor see a doctor who does that

TheABOMINATION:
This should serve as a lesson to Nigerian girls that insist on dating a muscled guy instead of a man with big stomach, you will have to take the good with the bad that accompanies it.

a muscled man is less mentally healthy than a pot bellied man??

TalkTalkTwins:
So what happens to unconditional love?
This post screams selfishness, selfishness, selfishness!


Anxiety, mood disorders and schizophrenia disorders happen to people, and they can be managed.
What if you were the one with any of the disorders?
Abeg make una getat

you really can stay with a schizophrenic lady? Make you jam the one wey get catatonic or hebephrenic schizophrenia.
It's not selfishness, you're simply looking out for yourself.
It's not easy managing schizophrenia.

Ignorance is bliss.

Its better to be aware and confirm if the person with the mental disorder is going through therapy.

You’d be damned if you chose to be foolish and be deceived by the term "unconditional love" without doing your due diligence.



quote author=TalkTalkTwins post=110096228]So what happens to unconditional love?
This post screams selfishness, selfishness, selfishness!


Anxiety, mood disorders and schizophrenia disorders happen to people, and they can be managed.
What if you were the one with any of the disorders?
Abeg make una getat[/quote]

Help2020:

Same thing I told her. She is clearly not aware that they(women) suffers more mental disorder than men.

women are psychologically Mad. If you see what my Sister is doing at home, you'll have mercy on Ladies

MALIGNANTGuest:

So, in summary, people should start settling for mentally unstable people in order to understand how to handle such in case it gets worse in the index relationship or subsequent ones
Please go back to your write up again?

You would not know a mentally unstable person if you saw them.

Honest question, if you meet someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, how would you know? If you meet someone with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, how would you know?

I am genuinely curious, based on your research, can you spot someone with ADHD? And would you be able to tell the difference between OCD and NPD?