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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by emmanuelbrown26: 9:06pm On Feb 20, 2022
Religious folks, u all are needed here
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Lamasta(m): 9:07pm On Feb 20, 2022
Junior pastor should only report to senior pastor and not the wife cos it wasn't the wife that was ordained but the pastor so if the pastor is not around then the junior pastor should take on the mantle with the support of the wife of the senior pastor
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Mrbenny001: 9:08pm On Feb 20, 2022
Wow..oga o... You said someone was even supporting the pastor's wife... The wife can only take charge if has been made as co- CEO/ Director or officially assistant to the husband...if not by default the assistant pastor is the next oga after pastor, if the president or chairman of country or organization is going to be off..does the wife takes charge or the vice? Certainly its the vice, unless it's has been officially designated otherwise

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Gkemz: 9:08pm On Feb 20, 2022
The senior pastors wife is the assistant to the senior pastor and should act in absence of the senior pastor.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:09pm On Feb 20, 2022
If the junior pastor is not comfortable, then let him resign, not a big deal after all there are so many pastors already. He can join another ministry where his excesses will be condoned.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by MrMcJay(m): 9:09pm On Feb 20, 2022
When God called the husband, did he call the wife too?
"First lady of the church". Spiritual blockheads everywhere.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by PHIPEX(m): 9:09pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:
Different pentecostal churches have different doctrines and most of the pentecostal churches survive on wrong interpretations of the Bible. Therefore, your question is unnecessary and has no answer. If your question is about the Catholic, Catholic doctrines can be followed to answer the question.

Logically, a pastor's wife is not a pastor. She should be respected but any treatment or task that is specifically for pastors should not be given to her. The wife of a medical doctor can have knowledge of the husband's work but it does not make her a medical doctor. The wife of a lawyer is not a lawyer just because she knows most of her husband's legal activities.

Biblically, one may ask what if the pastor's wife is also a pastor. To answer that question, does the Bible permit women to be pastors? (1 Corinthians 14:34) is even a new testament passage. Do you now understand why I said many pentecostal churches survive on biblical deviations? Catholic doctrines do not permit women ( even Reverend sisters) to lead the church. A catholic parish will not even let the parish priest miss the Holy Mass when there is no catechist or another priest to stand in for the parish priest.
Am yet to find a Bible passage that supports Pastor Mrs position in our churches today. It is more of a rationalised position/doctrine. Even Peter who was the head of the church never brought his wife into the picture let alone other disciples.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Lamasta(m): 9:10pm On Feb 20, 2022
LilMissFavvy:
If the junior pastor is not comfortable, then let him resign, not a big deal after all there are so many pastors already. He can join another ministry where his excesses will be condoned.

The wife was not called or ordained so she has no anointing to lead the church

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by dalass(f): 9:11pm On Feb 20, 2022
Barrister026:
Pastors wife wants the junior pastor to be reporting to her if her husband is not around or any issue at all during church service.

She try as much to be in charge when her husband is off in another Church to minister.

This nearly caused a problem in the church today, while I was going home surprisingly a friend of mine supported the pastor's wife.. that she's the first lady of the church of God if her husband is not around.
she can represent him anytime to coordinate like most churches

What's your take on this issue is it right?

It is disrespectful for junior pastor to believe that the woman he met in the church as a Pastor Mrs will seat down while he calls the shots.

In the bible, Deborah was a Prophetess who was appointed by God and controlled the whole nation of Israel including the army before Paul's era.

Aquila and priscilla were both in the ministry and they taught Apollos better in the word. So it is wrong to believe because one is female, she has no business in the affairs of the church!

Most Nigerian men are chauvinistic and that's why the society is this horrible. Zero respect for women. It is too glaring on NL self

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by IPIGSRHYPO: 9:11pm On Feb 20, 2022
It's a business venture hence the Pastor's wife has the right to make sure that church business is well handled.
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by phemmyfour: 9:13pm On Feb 20, 2022
Barrister026:
Pastors wife wants the junior pastor to be reporting to her if her husband is not around or any issue at all during church service.

She try as much to be in charge when her husband is off in another Church to minister.

This nearly caused a problem in the church today, while I was going home surprisingly a friend of mine supported the pastor's wife.. that she's the first lady of the church of God if her husband is not around.
she can represent him anytime to coordinate like most churches

What's your take on this issue is it right?
No such word as church first lady, Her husband was called not her. Elijah didn't handover to his wife when leaving, Elisha, his assistant took over
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:13pm On Feb 20, 2022
Barrister026:
Pastors wife wants the junior pastor to be reporting to her if her husband is not around or any issue at all during church service.

She try as much to be in charge when her husband is off in another Church to minister.

This nearly caused a problem in the church today, while I was going home surprisingly a friend of mine supported the pastor's wife.. that she's the first lady of the church of God if her husband is not around.
she can represent him anytime to coordinate like most churches

What's your take on this issue is it right?

Most new churches are run like a family home, if daddy is not around mum is in charge

you find that if husband is a prophet wife becames a prophetess, its like a sexual transitted disease that can passed on by the virtue of being the wife of prophet

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Awoleesu(m): 9:14pm On Feb 20, 2022
The main pastor is to blame.
Lack of clear organizational structure and line of power will always result in clash of hierarchy in any human organization.

If he was to step out temporarily or permanently, there should have been a subsisting rule on who takes over either as his delegate or his successor.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by PHIPEX(m): 9:14pm On Feb 20, 2022
dalass:


It is disrespectful for junior pastor to believe that the woman he met in the church as a Pastor Mrs will seat down while he calls the shots.

In the bible, Deborah was a Prophetess who was appointed by God and controlled the whole nation of Israel including the army before Paul's era.

Aquila and priscilla were both in the ministry and they taught Apollos better in the word. So it is wrong to believe because one is female, she has no business in the affairs of the church!

Most Nigerian men are chauvinistic and that's why the society is this horrible. Zero respect for women. It is too glaring on NL self
What if the wife met the assistant in the church, will it change your perspective? It's like saying Aisha Buhari should stand in for Buhari in the presence of Osinbajo.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Lamasta(m): 9:15pm On Feb 20, 2022
dalass:


It is disrespectful for junior pastor to believe that the woman he met in the church as a Pastor Mrs will seat down while he calls the shots.

In the bible, Deborah was a Prophetess who was appointed by God and controlled the whole nation of Israel including the army before Paul's era.

Aquila and priscilla were both in the ministry and they taught Apollos better in the word. So it is wrong to believe because one is female, she has no business in the affairs of the church!
You are even contradicting yourself here, firstly the woman was not the ordained one but her husband so if the pastor is not around the next anointed one which is the junior pastor takes over without fear or intimidation from the wife of the senior pastor, this is the church of God and not the family business

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by snipernigga(m): 9:16pm On Feb 20, 2022
Jesus Christ should be in charge
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by stagger: 9:16pm On Feb 20, 2022
This is what you see when people call themselves to ministry and turn it into family business.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by 2special(m): 9:16pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:
Different pentecostal churches have different doctrines and most of the pentecostal churches survive on wrong interpretations of the Bible. Therefore, your question is unnecessary and has no answer. If your question is about the Catholic, Catholic doctrines can be followed to answer the question.

Logically, a pastor's wife is not a pastor. She should be respected but any treatment or task that is specifically for pastors should not be given to her. The wife of a medical doctor can have knowledge of the husband's work but it does not make her a medical doctor. The wife of a lawyer is not a lawyer just because she knows most of her husband's legal activities.

Biblically, one may ask what if the pastor's wife is also a pastor. To answer that question, does the Bible permit women to be pastors? (1 Corinthians 14:34) is even a new testament passage. Do you now understand why I said many pentecostal churches survive on biblical deviations? Catholic doctrines do not permit women ( even Reverend sisters) to lead the church. A catholic parish will not even let the parish priest miss the Holy Mass when there is no catechist or another priest to stand in for the parish priest.
you need to unlearn most of your beliefs,to say Pentecostal survive on wrong doctrine is wrong, how will you feel if someone says the Catholic survive on wrong doctrines....it's convenient for you cuz you attend a Catholic church....
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Enemyofpeace: 9:16pm On Feb 20, 2022
Boat of them can be in charge
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Lamasta(m): 9:17pm On Feb 20, 2022
Awoleesu:
The main pastor is to blame.
Lack of clear organizational structure and line of power will always result in clash of hierarchy in any human organization.

If he was to step out temporarily or permanently, there should have been a subsisting rule on who takes over either as his delegate or his successor.

The rule is clear here when the pastor is not around the junior or assistant takes over that's how its suppose to be and not the other way....
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:17pm On Feb 20, 2022
Do you know her personally to know she isn't anointed or ordained? I say so because most of these pastors wife, usually tab from their husbands grace/anointing after being married for a while. Also, some pastors do not marry just any woman, they take time to chose gifted women.
Lamasta:


The wife was not called or ordained so she has no anointing to lead the church

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Benitoh: 9:18pm On Feb 20, 2022
The Pentecostals think Jesus did not marry for a reason. I give it to the Catholics on this aspect.

If you're proud to be a Catholic gather here to laugh at hypocritical Pentecostals.
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Originalsly: 9:18pm On Feb 20, 2022
I do agree 100% with immoralcrown and the examples to support his opinion. But his view is based on a real church . If this church is a true church then I'll say it is dead wrong for the wife to take control when the husband is not there. If it is a business... she has all rights to take control. For you OP... as a member... her action should tell you the church you're attending is a business.... the junior pastor is just an employee ... a houseboy.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by styless(f): 9:18pm On Feb 20, 2022
grin
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by immortalcrown(m): 9:20pm On Feb 20, 2022
2special:
you need to unlearn most of your beliefs,to say Pentecostal survive on wrong doctrine is wrong, how will you feel if someone says the Catholic survive on wrong doctrines....it's convenient for you cuz you attend a Catholic church....
I am not defending Catholic. I only pointed out the fact that apart from the Bible, Catholic has doctrines that can be followed to judge what happens in Catholic. Apart from the Bible, no doctrine can be used to judge pentecostal churches. And I used the Bible to judge the case highlighted in the post. I am right about saying pentecostals survive on biblical deviations. Making women pastors is a proof.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by stephenponti(m): 9:21pm On Feb 20, 2022
Barrister026:
Pastors wife wants the junior pastor to be reporting to her if her husband is not around or any issue at all during church service.

She try as much to be in charge when her husband is off in another Church to minister.

This nearly caused a problem in the church today, while I was going home surprisingly a friend of mine supported the pastor's wife.. that she's the first lady of the church of God if her husband is not around.
she can represent him anytime to coordinate like most churches

What's your take on this issue is it right?

Is the church registered with CAC, is the wife name there or the junior pastor. there lies the answer you seek.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by ParrotGirls360(f): 9:22pm On Feb 20, 2022
Tell your Pastor to draw an organogram for his church else he will settle conflicts till his old age in ministry. And when he is gone, the Church may fall.

When a church doesn't have a structure of how information signal flows, it will give room for things like this. As for Pastor's wife, she should stop looking down on the junior pastor who is probably next to her hubby by ranking. She shouldn't let the Pastor(Mrs.) title enter her head too much.

Her hubby should engage her with some responsibility other than just having her manage women's forum. She should also officiate like other pastors and deacons. This will help her respect other offices reflexly.
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by 99thEnemy(m): 9:22pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:
Different pentecostal churches have different doctrines and most of the pentecostal churches survive on wrong interpretations of the Bible. Therefore, your question is unnecessary and has no answer. If your question is about the Catholic, Catholic doctrines can be followed to answer the question.

Logically, a pastor's wife is not a pastor. She should be respected but any treatment or task that is specifically for pastors should not be given to her. The wife of a medical doctor can have knowledge of the husband's work but it does not make her a medical doctor. The wife of a lawyer is not a lawyer just because she knows most of her husband's legal activities.

Biblically, one may ask what if the pastor's wife is also a pastor. To answer that question, does the Bible permit women to be pastors? (1 Corinthians 14:34) is even a new testament passage. Do you now understand why I said many pentecostal churches survive on biblical deviations? Catholic doctrines do not permit women ( even Reverend sisters) to lead the church. A catholic parish will not even let the parish priest miss the Holy Mass when there is no catechist or another priest to stand in for the parish priest.

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