wallrichy:
Life bring surprises everyday. Come to think of it. Reverse this issue and let's debate if the husband would have volunteer to donate one of his own kidney for her. I guess it would have been the same brick wall from the man's family if at all the man is willing.

Life is highly unfair and I advise that people should live life as it comes, be happy, have fun, love without care and take care of your health.

Wife can let you down any gademn time and also husband can do the same. Even children that you practically lived for can let you down big time. Only God wouldn't let you down. Nothing and nobody is dependable in this life and that doesn't mean the good and dependable ones aren't available, but how do we recognise them when they come our way other than trial and error and ofcourse God's guidance and direction.

Everybody should love himself or herself first before loving any other person. It's important. Love yourself , look good, take care of your health, eat well, go to gym and have that dream body and also stay healthy. Then you can love others.......trust nobody, don't think anybody got your back except God.

Love is rare and scarce in Nigeria, mostly interest, prospects, connections, mistakes, opportunities and wealth is what makes most people in Nigeria to say they are in love and wants to marry. Bad economy has deprived love to exist in Nigeria relationships. No Joy in most Nigeria Marriages.

Emmanuel30a:
You could have simply put that love exist not in humanity. So, what would you say about someone who get a gun to fight claiming he was going to defend his country in an ongoing war?

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

Rubyjade:
Why get married?

Hamachi:
is there no match in the man's family?

Do you know during pregnancy both kidney needs to function properly?

futurism:


If you like make you no learn from this. Any man who thinks a woman can really love him is fooling himself.

Women will only love you for what you bring to the table... they don't love carelessly as men do. Men are the foolish ones in this dating pool and the only person that can genuinely love a man is his mother, no one else.

kay29000:


This is so true...But, there are still some rare women out there who can truly love genuinely, but I don't think they are up to one percent of Naija female population.

Rubyjade:

Nonexisting:
Thank you for being honest and unbiased and from today, you'll have my respect in this forum. Unconditional love doesn't exist anymore. People especially women marry for some reasons and when those reasons stop existing, their love disappears like the midnight stars. I don't believe in love anymore and if I will ever give it a chance maybe in my next world, I'll make sure the girl hates me first before loving me. That way, she will have no single reason to love me and we may wing it from there.

Tannhauser:


Nonsense.
This is why i laugh when i see people saying don't marry for love, marry for money, status, trophy wife/ husband etc. When the chips are down, its just you and your spouse.
I can happily say that the wife i am married to would've donated her kidney long before any other person (her family or even mine) heard about it.
Make una continue to dey marry for nonsense reasons.

I come in peace, selah.

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Nonexisting:
My brother, those that haven't experienced their wickedness and betrayal first hand will not understand you. I am a living witness to that. I loved a woman to the extent that people around us kept saying that she could be my sister in our previous world but what did I get out of it? She is alive today and still begging me for her evils but I've kept telling her that forgiveness is of God. Nemesis has somehow caught up with her now but I told her it must be from another evil she did elsewhere because I have no grudges against her.

finishmatter:
I always know women are selfish and gold diggers.

But you surprise me with your words.
Thanks for sharing

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

fabiano09:
Humans are quite cold ,wow, this is the worst thing I've read this year

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

Biglittlelois:



Use your head, he has his family, they should do it, the marriage is months old, I'm pretty sure they've not had kids, Google the complications of a woman with one kidney when pregnant, she can loose her life.

You guys should really use your head most times and stop being emotional.

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?