Rubyjade:
This is scary

luminouz:

*Sighs*

You no dey tire?

Everywhere chochocho like abakaliki parrot!!!

Surely, my response is clear enough.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg carry your nonsense retort wake pass!

Shegzdave:

You don’t need to honor her with a response.
She loves baseless arguments.

OreoPaschal:


Yeah! It was a heartbreaking moment for her! I can still picture how broken she was, the day he broke the news to her.

I have grown to understand that in life, you live for the moment and you prioritize your happiness before others.

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

luminouz:

Noted for next time chief.
That geh is in serious psychological trauma

Tannhauser:


Nonsense.
This is why i laugh when i see people saying don't marry for love, marry for money, status, trophy wife/ husband etc. When the chips are down, its just you and your spouse.
I can happily say that the wife i am married to would've donated her kidney long before any other person (her family or even mine) heard about it.
Make una continue to dey marry for nonsense reasons.

I come in peace, selah.

Shegzdave:

It’s always best to ignore her mentions for one’s sake

Munzy14:

For better for worse in the mud...

I wonder where them the meet these kind partners...

Ndi Ara!.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


How did they not know about his kidney failure before marriage .
I know the optimistic part of me would really want to give that kidney to my husband but the logical side of me would not support that decision , marriage is not a do or die affair in my opinion since it's a new marriage and there's no child involved it's okay to leave if she feels pressured , it's not wickedness , the man could do same to her if she were to find herself in an unfortunate circumstance , I mean we see it everyday where the women can't have a child and the man ends up marrying someone else or having children in secret , and some will cheat on their wives because she's no longer pretty after 5 kids and is worn out from her very demanding job

The stories I see of this marriage thing is making me doubt that I will even marry who I love , in the selfish world the selfish succeed , you can't force someone to drink medicine for another person's sickness , if she offers to help willingly it's different but saying she has to because he's her husband is ridiculous , it basically means that she has no say in the matter , it's a very toxic type of entitlement

Kobojunkie:
Says who?.

lahizak:

Me. D only reason I will want to marry is because I love the girl so freaking much and would want to spend d rest of my life with her. Any other things, I can get without marriage

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Verysmart101:


This ur comment is just ridiculous.Pray u Don't fall into the man's situation like this mmm

Kobojunkie:
You know say love no dey inside legal definition of marriage, right?

So, don't expect every marriage to be like your own oo!

Also be sure to get a prenuptial agreement, to at least make sure your partner is on the same page as you love-wise.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
Now that it feels like life or death , people are busy shouting love love love , if it were the case of a barren woman the entire family would be suspicious , love no go dey again oh , it will be cases of shaky trust because oga will be like how many children did you abort before you married me , men are so self centered , someone posted a thread that he lost interest in his wife after child birth and people were advicing him to [/b] help her exercise , teach her how to dress , show her other women you want her to look like ,[b] noone cautioned him that he should've married who he loves unconditionally , some even came to advice women in general that they should stop letting themselves go after children so that their husbands won't [/b]stop loving them[b] mtcheeeeeeew

Mariangeles:


That is what happens when people don’t take their time to get to know each other, to fall in love.
They’re always in a hurry.

I feel sorry for this generation.

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
Meaning

Kobojunkie:
I laugh at the way love has suddenly taken centerstage in many of the comments here, just as you iterated, this word hardly ever mentioned in conjunction with marriage before this.....

I can even imagine what it is like to be mandated to give up a kidney barely a year into a marriage - why? Because some how the statement "for better or for worse" is being translated to mean I have you forfeit a kidney?

Mariangeles:
That is what happens when people don’t take their time to get to know each other, to fall in love.
They’re always in a hurry.

I feel sorry for this generation.

luminouz:


Was he mandated to donate his kidney or something or why the drastic decision to divorce your elder sister?

Munzy14:

As in eeh...That get to know eachother for a period of time is very important...

But, ndi a ma nu onwe ha, OP said he was part of the lady's training in school...I just don't like this...Because of some reasons.

I feel a man kwesiri I meet a lady nna ya zuchara, bia kwnayere ha ugwu....Ha gozie ya, ya kporo nwunye oma ya lawa..

Too many disappointments with all this I trained her school people...It will lead to marrying out of pity.. from both sides.

I si sorry for generation oma anyi a, o lee generation nke i no?

Honestly, can you do that for your husband? Sacrificing a kidney for him? Gwa m eziokwu o..

Kobojunkie:
Love has never been a mandated requirement in marriage.

In fact, during our parents times, we were constantly reminded of how love was a foreign concept to our culture. We even gulped down tales of how it is OK to marry first....love, we were told, develops overtime in marriage. So why require things be any much different now?

OreoPaschal:


No mandate! Emotional support was all she needed from him. I guess, he was scared of having the tag "Widower".

Mariangeles:
Love is very necessary in marriage.

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?