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Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Fortune118005(m): 2:38pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by bikefab(m): 2:39pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Don't waste your time always trying to be happy. Take the good with the bad and learn from it. You can't always be happy but you can always be growing. All you need is a change of perspectives and a strong will. |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by bluefilm: 2:39pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Kajaard: I taya for that guy, aswear |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Connected1: 2:40pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Betterprospect: In whatever you are trying to do, don't leave your job until you are have gotten a string foundation in your new found career. Bad/Wicked Bosses are everywhere, only the lucky ones get good bosses. |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Iamfrank(m): 2:40pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Sometimes I wonder how some nairalanders think. Someone has a problem with his job n career change and asked for an advice towards it, some person's began to insult him saying he is ungrateful and doesn't value what he has. The truth is that, there is a point in life, a person's deserves more on what he or she is getting. That is while we see footballers signing a new contract with higher pay or musicians leaving their record labels to start theirs. I believe the OP is at that stage of life because of his experience n his level of information has really expanded. I wanted opening d same topic coz am passing through exactly d same tin, but I have only saved 1.1m. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by bepositive11: 2:42pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Lots of great comments already. Just want to say make sure that you believe in yourself first In fact, first of all, what are your strengths and weaknesses? To thrive in tech, you need to be a very good problem solver and creative thinker You can start at any age, as long as you are a fast learner and dedicated, and your strengths align with tech You can also test some programming tutorials to see if you like it As for your current situation, you have no one to blame but yourself. Take responsibility and work towards improving your situation. Whether that means getting a new job or starting a new career or business Don't forget to think about your future plans. If you want to start a family soon, you'll be at a great disadvantage by starting from scratch it tech. It will take time for you to establish yourself and you may face some discrimination based on your older age. Your age mates would be far ahead than you in the tech industry and your tech boss may end up being someone younger than you. Just some other things to keep in mind Betterprospect: 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by kay29000(m): 2:42pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Exkandayee: Please what is "sk visa?" Thanks in advance. |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by LyfeJennings(m): 2:43pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Loewe: Don't mind the boy Life didn't start for me till 30 I am 37 now I'm still trying to figure it out 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by princeemmma(m): 2:43pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Rubbiish:the op think he is facing hardship.................... some people are facing terrorship, and they still keep there head up |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by princeemmma(m): 2:44pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Munzy14:abi wetin person go do, life no balance, op they complain, but some people no even get that kind of savings |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Betterprospect: 2:45pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Michealupdate43: Thanks. I will try this, but I just think going all in, and giving it my all will be better. Why give 2 hrs when you can actually give it 12 hrs .?? |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Kajaard: 2:47pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
princeemmma: Happy birthday bro (I see today is your birthday) But how do you survive on less than 50k monthly as a married man? Just keep pushing bro, something good will come out soon. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Exkandayee(m): 2:47pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
seanwilliam:I've sorted myself out bro,,, you can dig for Africa just to burst me,,,but I'm cool, that 2 milli is only cash with me then, later God is really a miracle working God, I don japa again and everything recoverd |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by princeemmma(m): 2:47pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
sammirano:we have to gamble, we don't know how much we have to live........... beside man are all born to work (feed them, care for them nurture them) for woman weather we like it or not, i got married to a woman and my first kid is a (girl) woman too, so i have to feed them and carter for them either i like it or not................ nothing concern them, especially that my daughter, she fit chop like 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Betterprospect: 2:48pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
christejames: My thoughts exactly. I dont see marriage as a problem for now, I stated it here as a criteria to consider while making my decision of quitting and starting from ground zero up. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by vikkogg: 2:49pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Betterprospect: Boss, give thanks to God for yours is still better. I'll be 33 years by June, I'm single and unemployed. I am a graduate of Statistics from U.I. I have no source of income whatsoever. No money to startup any business and I'm yet to get a job. But...I won't give up because I know God will remember me one day. Bro, just keep managing that your job till you get a better one. Stay blessed. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by dannex4adx(m): 2:49pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Betterprospect: Pray about it. |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by LashellBeazley: 2:50pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
If you are male and single in your 30s then it is not a big deal. Even it is not a problem to not marry at the age of 30s. The world has changed. Try to live with it. |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Betterprospect: 2:51pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Kobicove: Lols, how people reason this way eludes me. TRY TO KEEP AN OPEN MIND. the whole world is not out to get you. I'm trying to make a career change and somehow you think someone will invest in my career change, or in a business I said I don't like? |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by princeemmma(m): 2:52pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Kajaard:thank you my bro.............. i really appreciate your concern...... but what do i do, everything was going well when i got married...... so do i run out of the marriage? Nil............. i have to continue being like that |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Michealupdate43: 2:53pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Betterprospect: That's the spirit my friend |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Betterprospect: 2:55pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
IamDavid: Thanks. That's something worth thinking about. I know I am doing better than some. But the thought of regrets or miserable later on if I dont do this is getting in my head. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by BusinessDream: 2:55pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Fortune118005:You should see it bro. I think it is all tariff that gets it. A lot of people have it but they are not using it and it is just wasting away. Check your phone when u sub data... if you don't see it, let me know. |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Betterprospect: 2:56pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
ACRI: Thank you. I appreciate this |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by seanwilliam(m): 2:56pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Exkandayee:good on how you jumped from 2m to over 250m and back to the base you were deported in 3month . 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Truvelisback(m): 2:56pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Betterprospect:Bro, every big Breast u see today was once a Nipple, so don't give up in Life. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Rubbiish(m): 2:56pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
anewchapter:Why do a lot of people always say the bold |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Munzy14(m): 2:58pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Betterprospect:First, I see a low self esteem case in you.. Many people, even married people are in your condition...Doing the job for the bills...Nothing else.. Whoever employed and pay you, is like a god you have here....With the talk down on boss mentality, are you sure you can be a boss? I doubt. 2Million is meagre to you? Another case of lack of confidence in yourself..Some people who live in flats with a car, may not even have upto 100k in account...Just one shady deals to another but using packaging to mess your ego. You work 12hours, you still have time to engage in side hustles...Use it to test how hard it is to start and grow a business in out volatile Economy, then you will learn to appreciate your boss...You think it is easy employ just one person and you will know humans are the worst animal to control on earth. We are too stubborn. Lastly, the marriage talk @30 you are putting yourself under unnecessary pressure, mind you, depression is real.. Guys wise up, you must have that mental, psychological and a bit financial security before you will go and frustrate somebody's daughter. You might be a bit financial secured, but from your write up, you seem indicisive such men don't make good husband...I mean how you be soo scared of your little achievements and so unsure of yourself @30. As a man, life starts @30...Your life just started..Go and conquer your world...You started well and on a fair table. Your 2million should be saved in dollars If you are not using it in the next 5months...Or you go for a genuim landed property if you are not going to use the 2million in the next 2-3years..When the land appreciates you resell and take your capital and profit. At this stage, you must learn to move at your pace..the only competition you need is you, and yourself...Working smart to double whatever you have...And strive to marry at 35..... Remove yourself from peer pressure...you are now a man...How confident you are is a what makes you super attractive for the woman you are going to settle down with... No age is small to change career in tech world if it is your passion. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by qtguru(m): 2:59pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Rubbiish: We are in Nigeria, traditionally it's the man that provides for most, the financial burden is mostly on us, unless you are fortunate to meet a "help-mate" which is not rare, but the sentiments even on NL is that the man is the main provider. |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by lilvicky68(m): 3:00pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
From the look of things even if you have money you won't still be happy.. You just have to create your own happiness whether single or married, jobless or jobful 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by Betterprospect: 3:01pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
prophetic69: Baba I no dey ungrateful bro.. Na everybody get where the shoe dey pain am. Even billionaires |
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