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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 12:58pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
porthouse7: You have obviously been heavily brainwashed by women for a long time, hence your view. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by wallrichy: 12:58pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Well done and well written my brother. Men loses a lot in marriage while women of nowadays only swap to a man's surname to gain respect as a married woman but still retaining the personality of a hooker and a legal right to demand from the husband without limit. AfroKnight: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by sparko1(m): 12:58pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: The bolded should tell you something, hardly you find a MARRIED MAN OF 80Yrs, MOST MARRIED MEN DIE BEFORE THEIR 7OTH BIRTHDAY. But if you can make you 50s without trouble from a woman, there is a greater chance you will get to 80 before you kick the bucket, forget the stories of your children will be young at that age, because the truth is, if you don't have money to take care of your children, giving birth to them early just means, they get to dig your grave early, they will become trouble for your day and night and when on your dying bed, you will be surprised, you haven't lived a fulfilled life. So tell me, why do I a 32 year old man, should think of getting married? Have you ever thought about this, until a man is finicially capable of living an enjoyeable life, nobody talks about marriage, the moment, he's living a two bedroom flat, has a car, get to send money home, everyone wants him to get married, why? its seems the idea is this, a man is not supposed to he happy for too long, the moment he is happy for 1,2 years, they want him to add some suffering to his life, because it makes no sense for a man to be happy or maybe the society views the idea of a man being always happy as an issue that can propel him into greater things, and they just don't want that, they want him to come down to the level of everyday complain. Just my observation. 29 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Hassanmaye(m): 12:59pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Favfables1:Wow this is my Soul reason 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MansoryMX(m): 12:59pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Highlyrespected: I totally agree you! 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:00pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
porthouse7: What remains of him? Have you thought of "Control", "Easy Life" and "Fulfilment"? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Codeye(m): 1:00pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Major reason let me emphasize sex is extremely cheap unlike old times. I don't wish to get married but maybe I'll time will tell and I'm over 32 |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:01pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Gallistotle1: @porthouse7 Come and learn, young boy! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by lexy2014: 1:01pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
falcon01: How did u arrive at your conclusions? |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:02pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
MansoryMX: And you have never shagged another woman since you married her? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by nextlevel2020: 1:04pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
This is an interesting discussion that catches my urge to comment on. When I was 20s, I experienced a lot of rejections and humiliations from girls as results of my poor background. The condition was so terrible to the extent that, I needed to see myself through school from primary to the higher institution. During my school days I could remember that the girls in my class then used to tell me " Is your gari enough for you alone talk less of dating a woman ". To cut the story short, all these taunts and rejections spurred me into working harder and today God has answered my prayer and give me a job in a multinational company. Now, some of the girls that turned me down before are now showing interest in me and this scares me a lot to say yes for them. In addition to that, whenever I come across any woman and the first question she asks is what do you do for living, the fear grips my heart immediately and I would begin to reflect on my past experience. So in as much as I need a woman in my life, I'm also afraid of someone who will not value my background and I don't buy the idea of divorce at all. People like me who also believe in fruitful marriage are out there as a single. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Barbiturate(m): 1:04pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
porthouse7: Na lie. I am of that age. I am not married and I'm not lonely. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:04pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
jojo1415:Hahahahhahah please please ![]() |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Chiefecho(m): 1:05pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
lexy2014: Why do you feel such a conclusion should not be made ?? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by lexy2014: 1:05pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Minime10: Why is marriage not an achievement? What are those things that are achievements? |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:06pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Highlyrespected: Yeah, also change the mindset of having savings for tough times in Nigeria because "you are not praying to lose your job". The foolish things people say and they strongly think they are making sense. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by lexy2014: 1:06pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Chiefecho: How did u arrive at your conclusion that such conclusion should not be made? |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MansoryMX(m): 1:06pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Gamesmart: No. Satisfied? |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Chiefecho(m): 1:07pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
lexy2014:You have not answered my question 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:07pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Miarose: No wahala! Better than living a miserable life with a woman! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by lexy2014: 1:08pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Chiefecho: This question u say: How did u arrive at your conclusion that such conclusion should not be made? |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:08pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Czario: Gbam! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Benzemma(m): 1:09pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Rich4god: I don't even know the reason behind this Imo State high cost of marriage list. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:09pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Yamiriflathead: Exactly! ![]() ![]() ![]() I am waiting for him to answer o. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
AfroKnight:You better let's go and marry before you turn 60 and your potbelly begins to fall. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by okuta007: 1:11pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
AfroKnight: This must be archived in the Nairaland Hall of Fame as a very sensible post laced with undiluted wisdom - you too much abeg! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Emychina(m): 1:13pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Yamiriflathead:Am telling u bro.life shouldnt be destroyed by stress.my brother,abeg have u ever ask urself why men are dying early thereby leaving their wives behind.STRESS STRESS STRESS.Life aint fair for nigerian men atall and men need to think twice this time around. U will see a lady that look like chewing stick in her father's house, immediately she got married,she wil be like overbloated cow and d husband wil be running round like a fugitive in d name of hustling just to meet up for his family to avoid what d society will say.Bleep society. Nigerian men, abeg make una dey pity una selves abeg.make una see how oyibo men dey do am.50/50 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:14pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
ArewaTech1: That is the pro and con of your culture. 1. You get a girl of the right status that will have limited option but to be submissive and be subordinate. 2. You might not be completely compatible or attracted; but you get the benefit to try another with a second marriage. 3. You might get a girl who is not truly and completely happy with the arrangement, but is just bearing it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Highlyrespected(m): 1:14pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Gamesmart:OK You are right And can you please slide off of my mention. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by twosquare(m): 1:14pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
One word: economy. Forget those champions of "marriage is overrated" or baby mama group. They don't know what they are saying. Economy/financial strength... |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Obastick: 1:16pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Just as u realised ur friends are single@30, many of my friends and colleagues 30 and above are happily married. Could it be birds of same feathers? |
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