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I Need Your INPUTS On This by ILuvKIDS: 11:07am On Mar 26, 2022
... Is it a coincidence that same day my partner just anonymously requested for abortion pills from her pharmacy friend, is same day this TOPIC BELOW pops up on NL

https://www.nairaland.com/7046956/guys-ever-regretted-aborting-baby/3

A brief introduction :
I and my partner (gf) are not married yet, not even the traditional introduction and " we have an 11 months old daughter together, she will be 1 in a few weeks. She is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen as a kid ( this is no exaggeration, so much so her mom has prepped her for baby contests in the past).
When my gf was pregnant for this my now daughter, I was financially buoyant but she insisted back then she didn't want to keep the child.
I told her I am never in support of abortion, I already day dreamed of how my son ( I hoped the baby was a boy) would ride in my AC car and we would enjoy life together, so I told her if she knows the baby is mine, she should please keep it.
And that is how we had my first child.

Fast forward to Now (march 2022), we live together in my house ( I am a landlord) but that is all I own now, I lost all my money making ventures, sold my car, lost a lot financially. In fact as we speak I only have an income of 20,000 monthly and a bank savings of not more than 100,000. Things went from 100 to zero but my woman is still with me, her parents are not complaining "yet" because I'm yet to do the needful marriage wise. All my dreams of having fun with my kid, all pending. I know they aren't shattered.

So long story short, exactly 11 months later after my child was born, my woman starts feeling funny again. We tested and she's pregnant.
... She started with she's never keeping it, I did manage to setup a business for her, a business that demands 100% moving around, she says she wants to focus on her business career, I have never being in support of abortion BUT BRO CHECKOUT OUR Current CONDITION NOW undecided
( during my first child's pregnancy, we had a car to move around for checkups and nobody in my neighborhood new my gf was pregnant, we would just be in my tinted Jeep grin)

......,.............But if I keep this second child, it's a huge disrespect for my " potential in-laws", a second child when we are not married, no car, no income.

SO THE PILLS ARE JUST SITTING, WAITING TO BE USED embarassed

... I'm torn on this decision, if I keep reading some comments on the earlier topic on front page, I feel really bad, so bad I cant even share the page with my gf. I don't want her to feel like I do.

Cc: lalasticlala

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by joshmaster487: 11:10am On Mar 26, 2022
E be things, lemme book space and read with a chilled glass of odekwu.

Don't quote me

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by paul100(m): 11:11am On Mar 26, 2022
Elders in the house.You all are needed urgently.
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Cardealer2021(m): 11:11am On Mar 26, 2022
Try out misoprostol or Cytotec undecided
The former is more effective
Thank me later

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Cardealer2021(m): 11:16am On Mar 26, 2022
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by ILuvKIDS: 11:19am On Mar 26, 2022
Cardealer2021:
Try out misoprostol or Cytotec undecided
The former is more effective
Thank me later
Are you supporting an abortion in my case?

Even if I didn't want to abort my child, I should at least go pay my gf dowry ( I have no idea where to raise that money, I promised her last year Christmas, I must do it in jan2023 and now this happened cry )

Also the thought of having to transport my pregnant gf in crazy taxis and bike, leaves me in regret of my situation.

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Hezzyluv: 11:19am On Mar 26, 2022
This coincidence tight gan. So is not a coincidence, but a warning to you. No abort that baby. Who knows, You may even like that baby more then your daughter sef. Or, who knows she might be carrying the next Christiano Ronaldo or Leonel Messi.

Go pay your dowry.

Say no to abortion..!

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by ILuvKIDS: 11:21am On Mar 26, 2022
Hezzyluv:
This coincidence tight gan
So tight bro... I didn't sleep all night.

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Choilila: 11:21am On Mar 26, 2022
then why did you used a new moniker?

or
you are one of those scapegoats hiding, bashing women and men that are against their misconceptions? IF NOT COME OUT CLEAN! angry

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:23am On Mar 26, 2022
joshmaster487:
E be things, lemme book space and read with a chilled glass of odekwu.

Don't quote me
you can never escape the penalty of noise making.

Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Nobody: 11:23am On Mar 26, 2022
People just dy get bele anyhow and unmarried ooo.When you were buoyant you were doing "marriage na scam" but now your eyes av clear.Keep the baby
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:26am On Mar 26, 2022
Choilila:
then why did you used a new moniker?

or
you are one of those scapegoats hiding, bashing women and men that are against their misconceptions? IF NOT COME OUT CLEAN! angry
Give him ur own moniker nowangry.... kai! e be like say make i slap that useless noise that u made outtaf ur mouthangry.

Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Clinghton: 11:27am On Mar 26, 2022
You made the first mistake, didn't take correction what makes you think the third child won't come.

Sit down and decide what you want as a man before you lose more than what you already lost.
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by ILuvKIDS: 11:27am On Mar 26, 2022
Iyaebe:
People just dy get bele anyhow and unmarried ooo.When you were buoyant you were doing "marriage na scam" but now your eyes av clear.Keep the baby

You maybe right but I had plans to marry my gf but not at the time, because we were only 2yrs into the relationship when we had our first child.

I need to know her more, as a woman, a mother, I needed more time to know her in general. I was never in support of abortion, if I was financially buoyant now or can spring up some money now ( which I'm trying) , I would have this second child. I may still have this second child regardless but.....

( I even promised I would marry her in jan2023)
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Choilila: 11:27am On Mar 26, 2022
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ILuvKIDS:

Are you supporting an abortion in my case?

Even if I didn't want to abort my child, I should at least go pay my gf dowry ( I have no idea where to raise that money, I promised her last year Christmas, I must do it in jan2023 and now this happened cry )

Also the thought of having to transport my pregnant gf in crazy taxis and bike, leaves me in regret of my situation.
[/s]

no need just make her ur *BABY MAMA *
because she's a hoe, she is there because of ur materials..lolz

Men don't need women.
you are all doing her a favorgringringrin

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Choilila: 11:28am On Mar 26, 2022
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Suspect1:
Give him ur own moniker nowangry.... kai! e be like say make i slap that useless noise that u made outtaf ur mouthangry.
[/s]

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:29am On Mar 26, 2022
Hezzyluv:
This coincidence tight gan. So is not a coincidence, but a warning to you. No abort that baby. Who knows, You may even like that baby more then your daughter sef. Or, who knows she might be carrying the next Christiano Ronaldo or Leonel Messi.

Go pay your dowry.

Say no to abortion..!
noisy you, na like this shecow and buhari parents say,u no come see am??

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Cardealer2021(m): 11:29am On Mar 26, 2022
ILuvKIDS:

Are you supporting an abortion in my case?

Even if I didn't want to abort my child, I should at least go pay my gf dowry ( I have no idea where to raise that money, I promised her last year Christmas, I must do it in jan2023 and now this happened cry )

Also the thought of having to transport my pregnant gf in crazy taxis and bike, leaves me in regret of my situation.
I understand bro,
But pregnancy no dey run she can still conceive another time undecided
Just take a scenario, you used condoms are those not kids also cry

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by ILuvKIDS: 11:29am On Mar 26, 2022
Clinghton:
You made the first mistake, didn't take correction what makes you think the third child won't come.

Sit down and decide what you want as a man before you lose more than what you already lost.
Can you be more elaborate pls
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:30am On Mar 26, 2022
Choilila:
.
yes! Keep that yen yen yen of a mouth shut!

Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Hezzyluv: 11:31am On Mar 26, 2022
Suspect1:
noisy you, na like this shecow and buhari parents say,u no come see am??

Escapede on the beat lipsrsealed
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:31am On Mar 26, 2022
Iyaebe:
People just dy get bele anyhow and unmarried ooo.When you were buoyant you were doing "marriage na scam" but now your eyes av clear.Keep the baby
noise... And you know it.
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Choilila: 11:32am On Mar 26, 2022
[s]
Suspect1:
yes! Keep that yen yen yen of a mouth shut!
[/s]

angry

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Cardealer2021(m): 11:33am On Mar 26, 2022
ILuvKIDS:

Are you supporting an abortion in my case?

Even if I didn't want to abort my child, I should at least go pay my gf dowry ( I have no idea where to raise that money, I promised her last year Christmas, I must do it in jan2023 and now this happened cry )

Also the thought of having to transport my pregnant gf in crazy taxis and bike, leaves me in regret of my situation.
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:33am On Mar 26, 2022
Hezzyluv:

Escapede on the beat lipsrsealed
yes keep it shut!cheesy
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Hezzyluv: 11:34am On Mar 26, 2022
ILuvKIDS:

So tight bro... I didn't sleep all night.

Don't let her do abortion.
Some people case worse pass your own, them keep the baby and the world no crumble. No listen to anybody wey go advice you to abort the baby.

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Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 26, 2022
Suspect1:
yes! Keep that yen yen yen of a mouth shut!
Kolo mental grin
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:37am On Mar 26, 2022
Choilila:
.

angry
[s]lol i got an antidote for itgrin noise maker? Oya recancle this one again now[/s].

Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by ILuvKIDS: 11:37am On Mar 26, 2022
Cardealer2021:

I understand bro,
But pregnancy no dey run she can still conceive another time undecided
Just take a scenario, you used condoms are those not kids also cry

embarassed hmmm am also scared of any implication of all this on my first child
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Cardealer2021(m): 11:38am On Mar 26, 2022
ILuvKIDS:


embarassed hmmm
I'm in same scenario bro but my case I don't want the baby, undecided the mum (my ex ) is trying to get back at me with pregnancy.
I'm trying to persuade her to get rid of it but she insisting she must keep it,
NOTE: money is not the issue in my case,
She is not type of girl I wish to start a family with
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:38am On Mar 26, 2022
SmellySperm:
Kolo mental grin
i no like noise at all, lie lie.
Re: I Need Your INPUTS On This by Suspect1: 11:38am On Mar 26, 2022

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