Oga since you called her Ex, better respect yourself and wife, stay clear.never you do what will jeopardize your marriage in future.. Case closed

This man mother may be struggling in the village.

I'm not against anyone extending a helping hand oo...but do net let the soft spot u have for her ruin your marriage.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

I just hope it's not ur feelings talking..

Well, there is nothing wrong in assisting her but you have to draw the line and it has to stay that way for the health of ur marriage.

Your help wud be so genuine and sincere if nothing is attached and you are not exoecting anything in return.

Oga direct your ex to your sister or someone else.

Layer that person in between you.

If you can afford it, please do. However, don't entertain any form of compensation from this act so as not to mess up your head and your home.

I believe getting her a house will bring back that intimate feelings between you both..maybe not to you, but the feelings in her might overpower you.

Her act of showing appreciation might end with a very good "Thank you" fuvk.

Tread carefully.

You are a very SIMPle man.

Mehn... The kind posts wey person dey see for this Nairaland Sha!!!

Lemme keep the vawulence in my mind for now!

Exes aren't always enemies, recall at some point you thought them good enough to be partners, as long as they have done something really bad to you asides moving on or not continuing the relationship, nothing stops you from still being friends with them, if you promise them help, do it and move on.

Redpills will come for you, shaa, but this life as you grow older you'd realize people's opinion means nothing , do what thou wilt and be your own captain, you'd sleep better trust me.

Se na u be her Papa abi her Mama? Both her parents are still alive & seperated but you cant convince me they have both abandoned her. Abi na you pay her school fees?

THE FACT IS YOU ARE STILL FANTASIZING AND INTERESTED IN FUCKING HER.

Stop deceiving yourself Ogbeni.

You want to benefit her to benefit you

Since you promised and you know what her background is, you can go ahead and help her.

Please after paying the rent and helping her, don't start branching there to cool off when you and madam at home quarrel and resume gbenshing o!

Remember, you saw the bad sides that made you leave her, now don't keep a woman at home and from helping you goal be benching ex in the disguise of you going to check up on her because u paid her rent.

You can send the money to her account, and don't bother about knowing where she stays if not, na trouble you dey find so o.

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Whatever you do, make sure to carry your wife along. She may understandably raise objections, help her to see that you're just being altruistic and keeping a promise you made. I hope that's what it is too.

Tell your wife about it, and render the help to her in her presence.

Best wishes

Allow her to suffer.

You're very stupid

Help do it because of God, but no go de check how the house take fit her o

Tell your wife and get her opinion.

your bigotry stinks! if it were to be a lady, would you have given this advise? inane thwart!

Iyaebe:
You already promised her,so fulfill your promise and you shall be rewarded for it.Please her in every way you can

I hope u are ready to keep paying the house rent for her till she settles down


I know you planned to marry her,she entered school and started fucking carelessly without thinking about her family background,do you owl her NO.. but u can help her most girls are foolish

I hope u are ready to keep paying the house rent for her till she settles down


I know you planned to marry her,she entered school and started fucking carelessly without thinking about her family background,do you owl her NO.. but u can help her most girls are foolish

Iyaebe:
You already promised her,so fulfill your promise and you shall be rewarded for it.Please her in every way you can

Rewarded by who? Please help if you are comfortable with it and never because of reward. Help is help, not a business deal.

Hope ur aren't a simp

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

u go dey pay yearly shey.

girl enter sch, show u are character.
sorry but u need deliverance

Help her out if you have the resources man

how many of your male friends have you helped? anything you do for a woman is as good as nothing. help your fellow man instead.

Remember why she exed you