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Am I Insecure?! by Ezendimmuo: 1:08pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Good day people.. I called my girlfriend this afternoon... While we were talking..I heard music playing in the background.. I asked her who was with her... She said it's a friend in the lodge I asked her who it was because I know everyone I her lodge She started asking me why I was asking her all the questions... There is this guy in her lodge she told me she was attracted to while we were having an argument (she wished she hadn't said that) The Truth is that this girl has cheated on me in the past twice(those I know of)...I found out when i was with her phone... Tbh...I don't trust her anymore.. Anytime she says she is somewhere...a part of me says it's a lie.. I know she loves me..at the same time she is confused.. My question is this ... Is it a bad thing to call my girlfriend and ask her who she is wit or where she is?? Does that make me insecure?? Its a LDR...she is in Enugu..I am in Lagos |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Zonefree(m): 1:09pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
You have every reason to be insecure as long as your girlfriend is a Nigerian. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Like if you believe the op is insecured,share if you think he is not. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by JUMO95: 1:16pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Judging by her past antecedent, you have asked a good question. always make sure you ask them questions whenever you mind directs you to also its high time you start shopping for her replacement, dont let her know tho 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by jimmyolasun: 1:19pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Simp! So it was you calling her while I was with her? Lol You this Igbo boy.. you go learn soon 1 Like |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Ezendimmuo: 1:24pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
JUMO95:Bro With the kinda pepper I have seen in this relationship...I no shop again I wan dey my dey |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Jennyclay(f): 1:24pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
You will just develop HBP for no reason. Both of you are just confused in the relationship. Is not as if you are planning to marry her, you're also in for sex. So why feeling insecure? Abi are you a monitoring spirit?? Leave her alone to enjoy her life while you find something very important to do with your own life. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Ezendimmuo: 1:24pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
jimmyolasun: Lol Yoruba boy Avoid me |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by TheWolfen(m): 1:27pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Long distance relationship? One chance
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Re: Am I Insecure?! by posty56: 1:28pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
you are not insecure your mind don't want to confirm the truth ,time will tell |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Ezendimmuo: 1:29pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Jennyclay: If it's about sex... I wouldn't be with her... There are a lot of options I can choose from... I had planned that she'd meet my mom I wan settle down with this babe But since she started showing me her true colors... I still dey observe am first |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by jimmyolasun: 1:29pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo: Avoid who? Wey I enter your territory take over everything. You dey her dey cry.. Oya beg me before I pass her toy brothers |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Jennyclay(f): 1:34pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:Story for the gods. That's what all you men do say. We're already used to that anthem. Well, I wish you all the best in your relationship, sha.. don't give yourself HBP. |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Ezendimmuo: 1:39pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
jimmyolasun:Bro She don cheat on me before na I think she got pregnant sef(she denied this though) My imagination has enacted every scene on pornhub when I think about how she screwed the other guy... Nothing fit surprise me again... Try your luck |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Blunttruth: 1:40pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:if you have cheated before don't ask us any question. Just enjoy each other. Two cheats. You are perfect match. |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Elmojiid(m): 1:47pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Na girlfriend not ur wife soo take things jeje 1 Like |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Truvelisback(m): 1:52pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:U are insecure. By the how do u know that she Loves u? U just said, she told u that she is attracted to a guy. |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Destiblack(m): 1:56pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo: Bro she is already bleeping that guy, I see no reason you should be worried. Mind you there is no confusion in true love, when some one truly love you he or she can never cheat on you no matter the condition and attraction of material things she is expose to. Save yourself stress and move on cos she moved on the day she told you she was attracted to someone else. Bleep whatever you think about me, always remember there is no competition in destiny. |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by jimmyolasun: 1:56pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo: And naa that Kain girl you carry him matter come here dey get hbp for??
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Re: Am I Insecure?! by Nobody: 2:06pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Zonefree: Spot on comrade! I owe you one chilled "odogwu bitters". |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Nobody: 2:09pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo: She's nuh yours sir, it's just ya turn... Know this, and know peace.... Adios mf! |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Camelot65: 2:47pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:I want to believe this story is not true. But if it is, read those bolded parts and tell me if you're not confused like this. |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Kiddogarcia(m): 2:56pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
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Re: Am I Insecure?! by Kobojunkiee: 3:01pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:The answer is simple. You are indeed insecure in the relationship, and you explained exactly why in your OP. So, now that you know you are, the more important thing is how do you intend to handle it. Do you abandon the girl or do you renew your vows with her, so to speak ? |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:04pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
should we tell him? |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by fran6co(m): 3:11pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
anthonyuncle:No let him eat breakfast first before u give him Rdp to stabilize him. |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by obinna58(m): 3:13pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
The moment you feel insecure and ask questions without no good answer Don't ask again, quietly leave the relationship but if you don't mind just keep digging coochie until you blast her of all her atrocities |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:20pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by Adsexpert: 3:22pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Leave that girl alone jor! Leave the hell and Bleep out the relationship.. if na ur pastor tell u sef make u forgive a cheating spouse especially a woman. Him go collect Men cheat for inside bible.. though |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by fran6co(m): 3:25pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
anthonyuncle:As them no want learn, they should go tru all the emotional janglover so that when red pill is admistered they will appreciate it. |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by shege45: 4:31pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:bro, person cheat , you forgive am, she still get mind dey as you dis question? Lol you dey take rubbish. She is doing it again |
Re: Am I Insecure?! by FaceTanke: 7:48pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
Fuckaniza: U will never know peace Oponu Omo ale Omo weyrey |
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