Iyaebe:
Men no do me anything for past Oga, I don't keep boyfriends , I'll keep only fiancée at the right time but that does not stop me from saying the truth all the time

I was even thinking this one don born pikin finish for her husband's house.
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So, you're blatantly single and self-servicing..
And you're here confusing fellow ladies on relationship matters??

You see am?! Here it is clear as day. Compare what you just wrote here to “I don’t believe women can be sexually abused. If it is abuse, why was she moaning and why did she cum.” Ehen...

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

Iyaebe:
Men no do me anything for past Oga, I don't keep boyfriends , I'll keep only fiancée at the right time but that does not stop me from saying the truth all the time

And by fiancee you mean a lady like you ,cos it will b a great shame to you to marry a man after you had wished that God ended d gender called men...you are so pained ...

GenBuhari:
But that is just a dream, its not real so why you so hung up about it? If you love puna there is no real harm done. You are old enough to rationalize your dreams so I still cannot figure out why you still feel pained by the experience, which after all must have been pleasurable for you at the time.

Why do some human beings think like this?

How do y'all relate sexual assault to pleasure (on a young boy for that matter)? Do you think with your phallus or something?

Missionaire:


It is just like saying that if a lady was raped and if it was an abuse, why did the lady moan or even experience orgasm?
Oga, rape is wrong. It is bad.

I can understand molesting little children that don't know much. Raping a grown man? Your penis won't get an erection if you're experiencing some emotions - nervousness, fear, anger, pain, stress, etc. Man and woman biology no be the same. Seduction though? That's another matter.

melodyogonna:

I can understand molesting little children that don't know much. Raping a grown man? Your penis won't get an erection if you're experiencing some emotions - nervousness, fear, anger, pain, stress, etc. Man and woman biology no be the same. Seduction though? That's another matter.

1. How many guys here have said that there were sexually abused as adults? Most of us here were sexually abused as kids.
2. Pray you don't find yourself in a situation where you are drugged and raped by a lady or even a bunch of ladies.
3. Would you say that if you are asleep, your penis would not experience erection when it is being massaged by a lady?
4. If you can sustain erection while asleep and experience wet dreams, how is it now impossible for a man to be drugged and experience erection while being raped?
5. Sexual abuse is not just about being forced to receive, but also about being forced to give. When you as a grown man have to be threatened with your life and forced to give head, lick anus and do other nasty things to a bunch of ladies, do you know how traumatic that experience is?
6. If you grow up in the Southern part of Nigeria especially the SS, you will not be saying all these. Female cultists can waylay a guy and gangrape him. You think it is joke right?
7. Have you ever heard of the word "forced"? Why do you think ladies bleed when raped even if they aren't virgins? Isn't it because someone forced his or her way through? Does that stop the lady from moaning or even experiencing orgasm?
8. Are you unaware that a person's body can be forced to do things? How many times have you forced your body to do some certain things?
The body is built to initially resist force. But if force is sustained, the body would have to give way. A man's body would initially resist any forced sexual molestation by not responding but it can be forced to respond.
Ever heard of "Sexual Stimulation"?

Whether a rape victim's body responds to sexual stimulations or not does not matter.
What matters is that a rape victim was taken advantage of sexually when he or she was found in a vulnerable situation and against his or her will.

oyoofong:
It's only female that gets the headlines. I was sexually abuse by a neighbor until I got used to it unbeknown to my mum. Severally infected with STDS and family was wondering what could be the possibly cause as we leave in an unshared apartment. It was that bad. I was barely 5-7.By the time I was 10 years old, I'd already dating people older than myself .As a teenager I was going out with ladies and eventually end up marrying one of the ladies in my university.

Did your parents later found out the cause of your STD?

There was a case like that in Enugu several years ago. A 10 year old boy contracted STD and the parents were really surprised. After much pressure and threat the boy opened up it turned out that it was the mom's sister that was uni that have been molesting him and ended up infecting with him.

Missionaire:


1. How many guys here have said that there were sexually abused as adults? Most of us here were sexually abused as kids.
2. Pray you don't find yourself in a situation where you are drugged and raped by a lady or even a bunch of ladies.
3. Would you say that if you are asleep, your penis would not experience erection when it is being massaged by a lady?
4. If you can sustain erection while asleep and experience wet dreams, how is it now impossible for a man to be drugged and experience erection while being raped?
5. Sexual abuse is not just about being forced to receive, but also about being forced to give. When you as a grown man have to be threatened with your life and forced to give head, lick anus and do other nasty things to a bunch of ladies, do you know how traumatic that experience is?
6. If you grow up in the Southern part of Nigeria especially the SS, you will not be saying all these. Female cultists can waylay a guy and gangrape him. You think it is joke right?
7. Have you ever heard of the word "forced"? Why do you think ladies bleed when raped even if they aren't virgins? Isn't it because someone forced his or her way through? Does that stop the lady from moaning or even experiencing orgasm?
8. Are you unaware that a person's body can be forced to do things? How many times have you forced your body to do some certain things?
The body is built to initially resist force. But if force is sustained, the body would have to give way. A man's body would initially resist any forced sexual molestation by not responding but it can be forced to respond.
Ever heard of "Sexual Stimulation"?

Whether a rape victim's body responds to sexual stimulations or not does not matter.
What matters is that a rape victim was taken advantage of sexually when he or she was found in a vulnerable situation and against his or her will.

Chief, I'm not discounting the story, I'm just confused is all.

I didn't read what you posted sha, too long. Add a tl:dr

melodyogonna:

Chief, I'm not discounting the story, I'm just confused is all.

I didn't read what you posted sha, too long. Add a tl:dr

No vex baba.
I just type am like that.
But e no long like that na.

Stay blessed.

It made me a pervert for a long time I can't look at a woman without imagining having sex with her,those girls made me go into a deep porn addiction, mental health was completely destroyed,mind you what they were doing lasted for like 2 years,when I finally understand what they were doing to me,it felt soo weird ,it took years of self help and therapy, before I could balance myself

bepositive11:
How has that experience affected you?

delpee:


Please work on your mind and talk to a therapist. Prayers will help but it's wise to do the needful and move on to a better life. God will surely guide and help you.

will you say same thing if it was the other way round?

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

So if a woman is raped, why did she get wet?

I'm glad you're now in a better place and thanks for sharing your story

It's sad that there are grown adults putting young kids through such trauma at such a tender age

TheComicGuy:
It made me a pervert for a long time I can't look at a woman without imagining having sex with her,those girls made me go into a deep porn addiction, mental health was completely destroyed,mind you what they were doing lasted for like 2 years,when I finally understand what they were doing to me,it felt soo weird ,it took years of self help and therapy, before I could balance myself

Sureplug123:
will you say same thing if it was the other way round?

Why not? Holding on to grievances and hurts of any kind by anyone torments the mind which could ultimately affect the body. It's scientifically proven. That's why extreme sadness or disappointment could lead to depression if not well managed. One must always be mindful of the fact that being in control of one's mind helps to maintain mental balance.

You will overcome. Amen

I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

induced erection through abuse. poor things

Men no do me anything for past Oga, I don't keep boyfriends , I'll keep only fiancée at the right time but that does not stop me from saying the truth all the time

Sorry to say, you are a fullish full. True talk no be insult, take am like that.