Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

So it isn't rape if she's wet Abi? Makes sense.

My own abuse was older women allowing me to see their kpekus anyhow and be saying that i am still a kid. I can still remember one of the older ladies, we went to toilet together(she asked me to escort her) in the bush in the village. So when it was time for us to clean out butts she stood up and i was seeing her mighty hairy pussy(God damn it!!!!)
I asked my self, what kind of mighty organ is this?.
She said i should keep watching. Childhood was something unforgettable shaa

Brandonx:


You’re a very foolish man
Pathetic old man pretending to be a woman

lol ...

Dizzyyish:

Really? How does that work? I don't remember there being a phone number requirement when signing up..

Na so I see am. E shock you?

mariovito:

Though that helped just a little because till now, I'm so fixated on cuninglingus and anything sexual.

Who knows, if that house help never got me to lick her, maybe I wouldn't have towed that reckless path.

Most certainly. You wouldn't have

Kuriosmynd:

Go and ask Mohammed to buy food for u ...no body send u fast

He's not a Muslim and not fasting, if he was, he would have known where to go and who to approach. So, you can keep your insult

ednut1:
Had more than 8 different maids growing up. At one point we had two, aunty dupe from cotonou and aunty waliyat from village. None of them do me bad thing. Abi i no fine ni

You are a lucky kid, lucky man. Thank God that they didn't destroy your childhood and adulthood

heniford2:
am healed already but i usually see her in my dreams will be 30yrs this sptmber yet seeing her in my dreams use to be the worst day of my life anytime.

That you are still still seeing her in your dreams can only mean one thing. That event still has a spiritual hold on you.

If I were you I would not rest till I cut off every chord tying her to me, till all my dreams are completely free of her sinister darkness.

illicit:
What if u were indirectly abused by a sibling

Blood siblings in terms of cousins or wot?

VirileNelly2420:

Blood siblings in terms of cousins or wot?

Siblings

Blood

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

your comment shows that you grew up In an environment were you are sheltered from abuse, immediately I started remembering and know things I recall our househelps toying with my dick while washing me,that will be in primary one or two, before I reached primary 5 I have been seriously and comprehensively abused by this girls Patricia, Elizabeth and Theresa I will never forget their names,they made me suck their smelling pvssy with cane in their hand,the funny thing is that all three girls didn't know each of them are doing same thing,any time I am alone with each one it is torture,my cousins and aunties joined the gray and they will carry me naked on top of their body and use me like a Love Machine,we call it riding CG 125 that time,it is terrible for a young growing mind to be turned to such direction of early sex ,it is devastating and debilitating and the story of my sex life during my bachelor years is simply nothing to write home about,

soundOsonic:

You no get sense. No dey reply those people Fernandez iyaebe or so. They are jobless and they just enter Nairaland to seek attention and make their boring unfulfilled life interesting

Esp d Fernandez... He/she does sound like a myopic narcissist.

ntipro:
Men are hurting deeply from their past experience of sexual abuse with househelps, relatives and even their fellow man. Their cases are more difficult to prove and the society don't just give a damn when the male child is sexually abused. It looks the world is made only to hear the cry of women. They even say real men don't cry...

Anyways, have you had this experience? Freely share. It's part of the healing process and it will go a long in educating the public.

I remember being abused by our housemaid (less than 30yrs old then) when I was young, I was around 7/8 yrs old. It all started like a joke and I remember her giving me her large boobs to suck. She just closed her eyes and was enjoying it, meanwhile my prick never get network.

illicit:

Siblings

Blood

Unheard!

GenBuhari:
So there are this many sensitive men on NL ?

Maids are usually also children themselves. Most children do have sexual experimentation and curiosity it is natural. Oya go police station and report your maid for abuse.

When I was 6 I had a girl best friend who was about 8 and one day she got me to show her my privates and I did, my elder male cousin caught me laying between her legs and that was when me and her got separated by our respective families. I was teased about it in a congratulatory manner by all my older male cousins for a few years after that. To this day I recall it being even my idea to push into her.

As for me I still find hard to understand how these dudes consider themselves abused, sorry I cannot see it. I would like them to really explain it to me so I can understand.

I would understand the idea of females feeling abused more because usually it may feel more intrusive for females and also the stigma and shame of such incidents attract to females in our society would likely leave her feeling exploited and abused.

Most times we as adults forget children have sexual curiosity and you can not expect to have child maid bathing and dressing your children without that curiosity. This probably how these incidents could start.

Don't give your child maid the responsibility of bathing your children in your absence.

So in short i don't believe all these dudes claiming the feel abused and broken. Let somebody really explain it to me.

When both are children like in your own case, it can be viewed as curiosity and explore, no big deal. But it is a different case when it is between an adult female like 12 years and above and a male child 8 years and below.
It is a different case when a male kid has no idea of what is happening and still can't say no but just doing what is demanded of him.

I would understand the idea of females feeling abused more because usually it may feel more intrusive for females and also the stigma and shame of such incidents attract to females in our society would likely leave her feeling exploited and abused

And you're wrong here too because it is not about stigma and shame, it's about psychological damage caused to the victim.
You were not abused, you only explored with your age mate out of curiosity.

Loveit

heniford2:
mehn i love puna,but i can't still invade the psychology infect of her action sometimes when i dream about her i become a puppy she chokes me beats me up and i feel hopeless when i see her I'm so weak in my dreams hmm

You are a grown up man now. What have you done about those dreams? You need deliverance bro and it is only Jesus that can deliver you. Many people here I. This forum got a crazy childhood experience. Jesus heals all kinds of trauma! You need Him to save you and deliver u from all afflictions!

Me and my chidhood friend dey like 5 or 6 years old then, the stupid girl go use yam trick us, naked herself comot our clothes then carry us one after the other place for her body then, the thing went on for like a month, we dey too small to even know wetin dey happen then, na when we grow we come understand and since then we never see her, the thing messed me up

Rape is rape and is wrong. I am just saying that I sense some sort of agenda going on with the amount of men making this exact same point Really I am not buying a lot of this stories . What they are talking about is older children exploiting younger children. I feel boys are not as affected by these experiences as females.

Missionaire:


So because a lady moans or experiences orgasm during rape it then is no longer rape right?

May you not experience this and may those around you never. May you not and may they never.

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

A confusion I've shared as well

Redpillers thanks for all the insults but be rest assured that I’ll mess up your thread

2braithe:
Seems you don't know men sustain erection in sleep. Men sometimes get erection when dead.

Reflex man,reflex!

GenBuhari:
Rape is rape and is wrong. I am just saying that I sense some sort of agenda going on with the amount of men making this exact same point Really I am not buying a lot of this stories . What they are talking about is older children exploiting younger children. I feel boys are not as affected by these experiences as females.

No sir. Not older children exploiting younger children but stronger people exploiting weaker and vulnerable people sexually.
It doesn't matter if it is a male or female. Vulnerability is Vulnerability.
You have no evidence whatsoever that all the men sharing their experiences here are making it up.
Are you aware that a sexually molested child can grow up to become a sexually depraved and molesting adult?
Childhood represents any stage of vulnerability. A lady who is taken advantage of by a man she trusts or who shouldn't do a thing is going through that childhood phase of vulnerability.
The victim is stripped of his or her innocence and dignity and he or she begins to see the world from a very negative angle and through the lenses of negative past experiences.

If men begin to talk about their sexual molestation experiences, you would be shocked.
The thread was not even started by a male but a female.
To understand crime and the criminal, we must first understand the "why? "

This is what we do as Criminologists.

There will always be false cries. It happens with the female folks too.
But that does not mean that sexual molestation is not happening nor its terrible effects on the victim unreal and not genuine.

melodyogonna:

A confusion I've shared as well

It is just like saying that if a lady was raped and if it was an abuse, why did the lady moan or even experience orgasm?
Oga, rape is wrong. It is bad.

Englishisamust:



This man ennh!!!. If I see him near heaven??

No wonder one woman come save his phone number as ''hellfire'' Lol.

Englishisamust:



This man ennh!!!. If I see him near heaven??

No wonder one woman come save his phone number as ''hellfire'' Lol.

What's the truth you're saying here o jare?

Very many men has a lot to say about this..

I remembered I was a victim around age 5 or 6 or so, the difference is, I was molested by several gender as me. There's this girl of my age that lived in these houses as me back then, the guy(the molester) would forcefully ask me to suck the p*ssy of this girl and ask her to also repeat the same to me.

We didn't know what we were doing.., it was crazy..

GenBuhari:
Rape is rape and is wrong. I am just saying that I sense some sort of agenda going on with the amount of men making this exact same point Really I am not buying a lot of this stories . What they are talking about is older children exploiting younger children. I feel boys are not as affected by these experiences as females.

man u are crazy... i mean giving ur shitty opinion nd trying to be reasonable....

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

I just have few words for you, whether you're male or female, may your male child be molested n abused in his adolescent age and when he voice out, tell him what you said up there.

How has that experience affected you?

TheComicGuy:
When I was in primary school,it was a very small school and in my class I was the only boy with 4 girls,one day ,they all attacked innocent me,ask me to show them my dick and they started touching it and all kind of nonsense,I was like 7 at the time,and you know the weird thing I still saw one of these girls yesterday we still talk, another leaves near my house so I see her often but we don't talk,I wonder if they still think about that, cause I do something

ntipro:
Men are hurting deeply from their past experience of sexual abuse with househelps, relatives and even their fellow man. Their cases are more difficult to prove and the society don't just give a damn when the male child is sexually abused. It looks the world is made only to hear the cry of women. They even say real men don't cry...

Anyways, have you had this experience? Freely share. It's part of the healing process and it will go a long in educating the public.

Healing process??
I healed from it when I was still a kid.
It didn't affect my adult life any single bit

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

As you are now, go and suck and lick the small little prick of an 8yr old boy, and then, come back and tell us why it even got erect in the first place, even as little as it is.
(What is an 8yr old boy supposed to know sef?? Yet he got an erection)