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Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by itzmariam(f): 4:16pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
I cannot think of all the hard times and pains am facing taking care of this child on my own is a disaster, thinking about how the daddy ran away from us makes me want to drown this kid and end my own life. I bleeped up I know maybe it was my fate but we are hungry I can no longer take care of her. I guess I have to end this. |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:18pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
there are many factors involved....but technically you have to take 50% of the blame in this issue, as you are the one who spread your legs to this dude. if you can no longer take care of her, go seek help with your family, friends, acquaintances and/or his side of the family (parents siblings etc) as much as unforeseen accidents do happen, if you didnt have a set plan to care properly for that child (emtionally/physically/financially) for the next 18yrs, then you probably shouldnt have had that child. BT you've been begging for help on NL since 2020....i suggest you start taking responsibility for your own life AND/OR better care of yourself! itzmariam: itzmariam: |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by itzmariam(f): 4:26pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:do not judge others all those conditions led to this. |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by zexy2030(m): 4:27pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Don't blame yourself and avoid suicide but get a job and take care of your kid..try a cheap 2/3k creche, go get a job, or get a sibling to help u, or attach to a guy who can help, moreso, forgive yourself. Then grow with that babe. Just ensure for the child, no form of parenting is easy. Buy clothes instead of pampers or let the baby move around nude if he is guy. Improvise and survive that's motherhood. If u kill these one and die, you stop the purpose about your existence and the child. Some children are born for revenge while some are born for reconciliation, some are born as a reward. |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by Nonexisting: 4:30pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
You want to stylishly beg for money online and the only way you can think of is by castigating men? If I slap you ehh, your scamming head will reset. ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by Cardealer2021(m): 4:30pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by itzmariam(f): 4:31pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Nonexisting:is everything about begging to you? Move on if you don't understand this |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:31pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
itzmariam: i am not judging you, i am simply saying that if that is how your situation is since before 2020, then i suggest you look for OTHER WAYS to solve the issue, because it is obvious that begging total strangers for help online, doesnt work. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by itzmariam(f): 4:32pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:right but did you know everything happens for a reason? |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:34pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
itzmariam: if that is the case and this is how you feel, then dont seek for help online (in order to change your situation), just accept this as "the life you deserve" 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by LoveNbeloved(f): 4:35pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by Boogyman557: 4:40pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Holly Gram ![]() LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN! |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
It's now all man for himself. I won't lie many are from irresponsible father's left to fend off for themselves |
Re: Why Do Men Aboundoned Kids And Leave Us To Suffer Alone by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
First off.... Not all men abandon their kids, so this one you're saying isn't valid ![]() Secondly... Your life is a product of all the decisions you've made in the past, so take accountability for your life and stop crying "maybe it was my fate" or any of that nonsense... because "fate" is what you make of it... the decisions you made in the past, is what are gotten you to this point, so start being accountable! ![]() Thirdly... You're a coward ![]() So because a guy left you, you want to commit murder and sucide, likeeee.... You would rather end two lives than hit the streets to survive? You want to take the easy way out, rather than push yourself ahead? Indeed you're a COWARD ![]() Fourthly... You've been begging for about 2years now and that hasn't quite worked out for you, don't you think it's time to try something else? ![]() Finally... This life is tough for a very large majority of people, yet people still grind to survive... Even disabled fellows are not left out! So my dear... Stop all this begging and pity partying you're doing and go out there and grind! It won't be easy, but it'll definitely pay off in the long run... 1 Like 1 Share |
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