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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 7:43am On Apr 17, 2022
Unshackled:
2016? When did you join NL?

It's Sunday, we know God is absent from your soul but do not lie like a crazed wench.

I

Oga rest. They have heard you. Na you first get nude. Go and sell it on NFT na. One day hand go touch one of una. Werey olorin.

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 7:48am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


Oga rest. They have heard you. Na you first get nude. Go and sell it on NFT na. One day hand go touch one of una. Werey olorin.
they way you talk is that the same way you moan?
when a big fat dickc is in that borehole?

alot of guys are curious just as I am...
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by emmaodet: 7:49am On Apr 17, 2022
KingOfAllIgbos:


I can't even begin to imagine.

For them both to be squabbling over what they didn't work for.

The son inherited the shameless entitlement behaviour from the father.

I don't mind sounding harsh but it's the bitter truth.

If the son is truly self sufficient and successful, at least he would leave the father to be irresponsible?

Joining in the act is just as disgusting. I can imagine being called as a family friend to resolve this kind of issue..

Would recommend public flogging for them both.

grin
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 7:49am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:
they way you talk is that the same way you moan?
when a big fat dickc is in that borehole?

alot of guys are curious just as I am...

A lot of guys are as jobless as you are would have sufficed. Don’t assume sane men do not have better things that occupy their thoughts than the moaning of a random internet user.

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 7:53am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


A lot of guys are as jobless as you are would have sufficed. Don’t assume sane men do not have better things that occupy their thoughts than the moaning of a random internet user.
you call yourself random internet user?....I laugh in ghanish..


your a known retired prostitute, disturbing this forum since 8years ago up till this moment... you can never get married do you know why...the same foolishness you display here on this forum it's what driving those suitors away from you in real life.



elder dumped you for same reason, your the definition of a Old cargo ship...

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 7:54am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:
you call yourself random internet user?....I laugh in ghanish..


your a known retired prostitute, disturbing this forum since 10years ago up till this moment... you can never get married do you know why...the same foolishness you display here on this forum it's what driving those suitors away from you in real life.



elder dumped you for same reason, your the definition of a Old cargo ship...

Everybody knows this. What is new? This is 2022. grin grin grin

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 8:02am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:


Everybody knows this. What is new? This is 2022. grin grin grin
have cummed, left for the next person who might want to have a nut free of charge...
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 8:04am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:
disturbing this forum since 8years ago up till this moment...

Unshackled:
2016? When did you join NL?

It's Sunday, we know God is absent from your soul but do not lie like a crazed wench.

Maybe you guys should solve the word problem in your troll group. grin grin grin

KiNg0G:

have cummed, left for the next person who might want to have a nut free of charge...

No worry they have heard you ehn. Ironical you claim I am a known prostitute, yet you mention FREE OF CHARGE. Ashewo dey fck for free? You see why you should dedicate more time to building your intellect? cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 8:09am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:







No worry they have heard you ehn. Ironical you claim I am a known prostitute, yet you mention FREE OF CHARGE. Ashewo dey fck for free? You see why you should dedicate more time to building your intellect? cheesy cheesy

"Retired" prostitute... don't charge no more... because they are body worth nothing.

instead they open it free to air..... without a stipulated fee


guess your borehole needs a second round?
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 8:14am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:


"Retired" prostitute... don't charge no more... because they are body worth nothing.

instead they open it free to air..... without a stipulated fee. guess your borehole needs a second round?

Ashewo no dey retire o. And if you actually fcked a prostitute, it tells a lot about you than her. At least she is a prostitute. What do we call you? Nothing special about you my dear. You are just another man in the life of a prostitute. I bet if you pass one street at night, they would be calling you CUSTOMER! grin

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 8:20am On Apr 17, 2022
Who next?

Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by T0T0fucker: 8:26am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:

have cummed, left for the next person who might want to have a nut free of charge...


Savagery!!!!
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 8:27am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:
Who next?

Who is next to use protection and avoid birthing a son like you? You are not smart my dear and if the saying that children get intelligence from their mothers is anything to go by, I would blame your father for doing you this disservice. Intelligent women existed years ago…

Any small thing “prostitute”. Naso una come make that word lose its meaning. Ashewo done become compliment sef. Mtcheew!

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by wasi9ice: 8:31am On Apr 17, 2022
immortalcrown:
Your house is not in order, both left and right. Even your mother's siblings dragged her things with you. May God protect you. This is all I can say now.

But by right, your father is most entitled to your mother and her property, just as you will be most entitled to your wife and your wife's property.

I like your analysis
Shut up too. The father trying to sell the property is bad. But it does not make him less entitled to the property, as long as the property was acquired by his wife. Your logic is like telling a man to pack out of his own house because he keeps the house dirty. The man abusing his right as a husband and father does not justify the son depriving the father of the father's right. The poster himself should look forward to inheriting and managing his own wife's property. Your father is more entitled to your mother than you are to your mother. You are more entitled to your wife than your father is entitled to your wife. If the poster hates his father's behaviour, the poster should advise the father. If the father rejects the advice, the post should focus on himself and ensure he does not treat his own children the way his father treats him. Saying the poster has the right to drag the property with the father is like saying the poster has the right to beat up the father if the matter results in physical violence.


Did you read the post? Does any part of the post tell you the mother willed the property to the poster?
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by wasi9ice: 8:33am On Apr 17, 2022
immortalcrown:
Your house is not in order, both left and right. Even your mother's siblings dragged her things with you. May God protect you. This is all I can say now.

But by right, your father is most entitled to your mother and her property, just as you will be most entitled to your wife and your wife's propert
Shut up too. The father trying to sell the property is bad. But it does not make him less entitled to the property, as long as the property was acquired by his wife. Your logic is like telling a man to pack out of his own house because he keeps the house dirty. The man abusing his right as a husband and father does not justify the son depriving the father of the father's right. The poster himself should look forward to inheriting and managing his own wife's property. Your father is more entitled to your mother than you are to your mother. You are more entitled to your wife than your father is entitled to your wife. If the poster hates his father's behaviour, the poster should advise the father. If the father rejects the advice, the post should focus on himself and ensure he does not treat his own children the way his father treats him. Saying the poster has the right to drag the property with the father is like saying the poster has the right to beat up the father if the matter results in physical violence.


Did you read the post? Does any part of the post tell you the mother willed the property to the poster?
I like your analysis
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by phyl123: 8:36am On Apr 17, 2022
If your Mum gave them to you, then they are your properties. No sentiments .
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by phyl123: 8:38am On Apr 17, 2022
But if she didn’t then automatically they go to your Dad.
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by newdawn2017(f): 8:42am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:
if your daughter married in the future and after her
demise, her husband decides to sell the inheritance
you left her and just to flex anyhow without minding
your grandchildren u go like am?
some of you need sense refill
it's d husbands right still notwithstanding. Unless she signed over her inheritance to him or to be jointly owned with him. Or leaves a will to that effect. Else such a husband isn't less entitled to squander d wealth if that's how he wants it. So it's left for d daughter to choose her life partner wise, looking out for deal breakers with her head.
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by GloriousGbola: 8:48am On Apr 17, 2022
pocohantas:

I bet if you pass one street at night, they would be calling you CUSTOMER! grin

Poco poco poco!
Hian!
Your tongue has only gotten sharper with time!

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

That was meaaaaan!

I am entertained cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy!

Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by AMI3(m): 8:51am On Apr 17, 2022
Your papa no try at all,
Assuming u were not born? Will he be able to drag that property with your mum's relatives?
He is using u to cruise abeg.
Instead of him to have dialogue with he want to show body.

Just go and find one of your mother relatives and tell him they can change the narrative.

By calling to tell him that your mum confided with him that her properties is for her children and non should be sold without their consent

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 9:03am On Apr 17, 2022
GloriousGbola:


Poco poco poco!
Hian!
Your tongue has only gotten sharper with time!
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
That was meaaaaan!
I am entertained cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy!


I dey my own lane jeje, they will still come find me. Some are so obsessed they keep up with my online presence. When I am offline they feel lost. Once I am online and post one, they will jump out. Hopefully I get one someday. They would tell me the junction I stand to do this ashewo work.

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by DeAlphaMale(m): 9:12am On Apr 17, 2022
GraciousGod190:
As much as I hate bringing this here, I need advice on ways to go about this..is it right for a father to drag his wife wealth with his son, knowing fully well, the son is now a grown man.

My mom left us with lot of properties she acquired as inheritance from her father and mother side, been the only surviving child, while she was still around some relatives wanted to grab some of it...claiming she's a woman...but seeing she had a grown up son which was me they had to maintain and stay on their lane... besides my mom was never the sluggish type.

Now, my dad is trying to drag this property with me, saying he wants to sell some of the land without even informing me... he his claiming some of house rents and lavishing it on frivolities anyhow.

Yes he's my father, he trained me up to this stage that I am, but by right I thought Those properties are mine already.since it's inheritance that's supposed to be passed down to her offsprings.....if am wrong please someone should tell me.





I understand what you implied... But if those properties were not willed to you by ur mom... Then automatically belongs to ur dad

But in some areas and tribes maternal inheritance goes to the last born of the House check well... Do ur research well

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by DeAlphaMale(m): 9:15am On Apr 17, 2022
wirinet:

False. If your mother did not will her property to her husband, he cannot claim it.

A husband (as well as other members of the wife's family) can only fight for his wife's family if she died inter state. Then customs and traditions will come in to settle property sharing.

At OP.
If you don't want your father to exhibit any property you legally inherited from your mother, contact a competent lawyer. He will first issue a cease and desist letter to your father and if he does not obey, institute legal proceedings. But then, you should be prepared for the backlash from him and his side of the family. They will first blackmail you and then disown you.
Without any will the husband inherits the wife properties after death.... Unless the property was willed to the op the father is the rightful owner

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by BRATISLAVA: 9:35am On Apr 17, 2022
safarigirl:



According to which Nigerian laws?

Whoever is in the woman's records as Next of Kin is the owner of the property, and most women have their children listed as NoK

The father is just a shameless opportunist. He should go and find the property his own mother left for him.

Which records? The ones that the courts will overturn in favor of actual legal documentation?
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by BRATISLAVA: 9:39am On Apr 17, 2022
PeaceJoyLove:

You are not OK. which Nigerian law? Which lesson he wants to teach the useless man at his old age? Anyway, you are an illiterate, so igs not your fault.

It is you who is not okay. You are clearly an unwell idiot from your post.

Manners won't kill you, it's the absence of them that will.
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by BRATISLAVA: 9:41am On Apr 17, 2022
Angelfrost:


Which of the Nigerian laws?!!

If it is legally and rightfully bequeathed to him via inheritance, his father has no claim to it except it was stated in the Will!

Funny thing... Many of you guys castigating the Op would have said otherwise if it were reversed: if it were the mother dragging his inheritance with him!


Which will? Which inheritance? Which bequeathing?

Visit a court and stop your online outrage. The property is the fathers by law. Unless they are visiting a local chief, it is the fathers.
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Angelfrost(m): 9:46am On Apr 17, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


Which will? Which inheritance? Which bequeathing?

Visit a court and stop your online outrage. The property is the fathers by law. Unless they are visiting a local chief, it is the fathers.

In the absence of a will or bequeathal... Yes, it is the husband's by right!

Did you properly read my response?!!
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by BRATISLAVA: 9:46am On Apr 17, 2022
Owologbo:

how can the father own something the wife inherited from her parents?
imagine giving a land (for example) to ur daughter, who has right to the land between your grand children and the husband?

I've seen a case where a family member tried to sell a land that belongs to his late cousin brother (from the father side), he was asked to back off because the land does not come from their fathers side.
The mother inherited the properties from her parents, it's only the children that's entitled to such properties.
If the mother didn't give birth to the op or any other child for the husband, those properties will definitely go back to the woman's family.

Is that a local law? Like a law of the place they come from?
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by BRATISLAVA: 9:47am On Apr 17, 2022
Angelfrost:


In the absence of a will or bequeathal... Yes, it is the husband's by right!

Did you properly read my response?!!

He wouldn't have made the thread if she did any of that.

Did you read any of my earlier submissions?!!
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by freemi(m): 10:29am On Apr 17, 2022
KiNg0G:

if your daughter married in the future and after her demise, her husband decides to sell the inheritance you left her and just to flex anyhow without minding your grandchildren u go like am?

some of you need sense refill
w
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Owologbo(m): 10:55am On Apr 17, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


Is that a local law? Like a law of the place they come from?
From the op write up, the mom didn't will anything to anyone.
since there's no written will, it's only logical that the properties belong to the children.

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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 11:25am On Apr 17, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


[s]It is you who is not okay. You are clearly an unwell idiot from your post.

Manners won't kill you, it's the absence of them that will. [/s]


You need those 30 keys to destroy poverty in your miserable life. Poverty turns brain upside down. When you get cash, you will never in your miserable life go after your father inlaw's property.

Poverty must die in your miserable life so you can talk and write like person wey get sense. Poverty no get shame, so you are allowed to display your shameful act of dragging your father inlaw properties with your son.

Werey like you will send your sister inlaw and her kids out of her husband's house. Na still poverty. Werey.. cheesy

Na poverty. cheesy No be your fault.

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