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| Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by boobfan: 10:40am On Jul 07, 2011 |
Please I need your opinion on this;can you still go on with a relationship nurturing marriage in mind if you find out or your spouse confesses having a long time ailment that remained clinically incurable,for the sake of love or pity? This question was asked by my friend whose case I posted here in my last topic.Be blunt and frank! |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Mynd44: 11:20am On Jul 07, 2011 |
The biggest mistake people make when choosing a spouse remains GRATITUDE and/or PITY. you have to know withing you that you can live with that person no matter what 1 Like |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by sistajay(f): 11:23am On Jul 07, 2011 |
Never ever marry someone outta pity!! Yes you can care deeply for that person, marriage is a no no!! |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Ranoscky(m): 11:29am On Jul 07, 2011 |
OP, As you see me so, ehn. . .? I can marry a blind gal *real talk*. Long as I have been inlove with her *with plans of marraige in ma mind* the marraige WILL proceed *No goin back* !!! |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by boobfan: 11:34am On Jul 07, 2011 |
@Ranosky,physical disability is out of this.This is an inward health issue that may threaten the happiness of marriage or sometimes lives |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Nobody: 11:44am On Jul 07, 2011 |
I Wont Say Yes Or No!. . . I'll only relate a Firsthand Experience. . . I Cant remember the exact year of the plane crash, or the company, But it was the same one that killed a former minister of sports or something like that shaa(help me out). On this ill fated Flight was a Lady, an Air Hostess, just a week to her wedding, all other things were in place, venue and all the likes. Of the Four survivors of that crash, She was Among! But She had to undergo a surgery in Germany. Surgery was successful, lady was incomplete! Her left leg was a bit shorter than the right! Long Story Short, guy married her like that and they have 3 wonderful boys, but lady still walks with a limp. Couple are my friends so i know this! Your case may or may not be Similar. Where i'll have a yes/no Answer for you is if the Ailment is Terminal. If it is, then save ya sef ze hart akes anz movez onz wiz ur lyfz!  |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by MMM2(m): 12:13pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
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| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by multibabe(f): 1:04pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
yes if i loves him deeply and not out of PITY, love endures all |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Goldieluks: 1:11pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
Yes i would go ahead and marry him,except for one reason,that is if he got incurable sexually transmitted disease, apart from that,any goes for me,Love is all that matters. 1 Like |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Sijo01(f): 1:19pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
Dont know |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Ranoscky(m): 1:34pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
boobfan:I used that as an example, man. Unless you tellin me that she is HIV positive, then I'll say NO! Other than that, I WILL MARRY HER LIKE THAT !!! |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by boobfan: 2:03pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
I posted the case as a reply but it didn't go through.The case study lady has Staphilococus Aerus and doctors said her own type is incurable for some years.She feels pains in her bones everytime and develop lip blisters.She looks pale most times. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by MsPotato(f): 2:19pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
If I love him very much, I will marry him. I believe that miracles do happen and he might cure. But if he dont, I would still be happy cause I am with someone whom I really really love. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by shegosay: 2:22pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
[b][b][b]not in my entire world[ |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by iice(f): 2:53pm On Jul 07, 2011 |
Awww a walk to remember. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by no1madman(m): 9:47am On Jul 08, 2011 |
I fuckin will,if i truly love her. . .and if she dies,i'll fuckin marry her corpse. . . . |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Nobody: 11:12am On Jul 08, 2011 |
If I am the one with the health issue, I will not accept the marriage proposal. I rather choose to be alone coping with my sickness. I don’t want to be haunted by guilt feelings for involving someone by allowing him to take part of my pains and misery. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Mynd44: 12:12pm On Jul 08, 2011 |
^^^ Thats nice of you but what if the person insists on sharing the burden. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 08, 2011 |
Mynd_44: Call me selfish, but i won't share the burden while I still have the choice. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Cuddlemii: 12:35pm On Jul 08, 2011 |
Can you be more specific with clinically incurable ailment. This could be HIV/AIDs. If its this, never would I marry a man with AIDs even if he was destined for me, will rather serve warring nations with genocide instead. But if its something else then yes or maybe depending on how strong the love is. I would never marry out of pity though. But some sick people are so cute, deep and value every little gesture or moments shared with their loved ones. They easily reach out and communicate with the heart. They also have this laid back chilled lifestyle. So yes I can if the love is intense. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by dealordea(m): 1:42pm On Jul 08, 2011 |
OP, hmmmmmmmmm, Love is full of different stroke but when you find the real person that cares to spend the rest of his/her life with you, believe me, i don't see that as a burden because the person was not like that , i believe miracle happen. the unthinkable could happen within one secs |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Ranoscky(m): 7:08am On Jul 09, 2011 |
no1madman:Hahahaha. . . I dey feel u, man!  |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by BeautfulB(f): 12:46pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
Nay nay nay,i cant |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by leuelliot(m): 10:06pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
Would your spouse to be disease kill you or harm you in any way if yes then don't think about it |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Omolola1(f): 10:12pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
marrying sumone out of pity is the biggest mistake one can ever make. |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by leuelliot(m): 10:27pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
Omolola1: GBAM |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Mcleo007(m): 11:06pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
Mynd_44: True words! Its just so pathetic! |
| Re: Can You Go Ahead To Marry Him Or Her With This? by Mynd44: 8:48am On Jul 10, 2011 |
^^^ And I wonder why some people still do it |
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