A problem shared is half solved. I started masturbating when I was 13, soon after that I started experiencing wet dream. For more than 7 years I was wetting dreaming, sometimes I had wet dream twice in a night. I was so frustrated and felt dirty.

However in 2020 I decided to get a traction device with the aim of stretching my bent penis, but to my greatest suprise after I had used it for a month I descoverd that the wet dream has stopped I am now free from that. thank God you have stopped the bad habit .So I recommend traction device for you.

Hi I have read many posts on here of all sort. I am bothered to say some wet dreams are normal and some aren’t. Just like the man who is experiencing this, mine has been on for over 30 yrs. It started when I was 7 and knew nothing, I can still recall that dream and how my mom was badly worried and my grandma calmed her saying it’s puberty. Many on here say go and get married, I have. Before then I don’t fornicate and all my university and college friends credit me for that till date. I don’t maturbate or do pornography, my thought and imaginations don’t run wild when I see a pretty woman or lady. Matter of fact I have been able to master how to control my sexual urges or switch if you may call it so.. I can turn it off and on at will due to over 30 years of this ordeal. How do you explain wet dreams right beside your wife in bed and in the dream you hear “ we haven’t gotten something from you lately?” And it feels like a vacuum is trying to suck the semen out of you forcefully. I have prayed and fasted but to no avail, like Pray4meJC said. All my college mates and university courses mates and friends have gone decades ahead of me. Took me 17 years to gain an admission into university that finally stayed and 10 years to graduate, I’m not a dullard, I can tell you when there is a major progress coming this dream happens and the rest is history. This has led to countless attempts to gain university admissions in the past, even when I pass the marks my name mysteriously doesn’t appear on the list. When it does some thing happens I have to pull out of the admission.. until this last one I had to give it all It took. Lectures had to sit on my behalf to let me go, still a fight broke out that some probably got a bribe from me to stage the meeting meanwhile I didn’t even pay a dime or meet with any of them. Finally my results were thoroughly checked and they found I should have graduated 3 years ago, for reasons no one could explain. This dreams still happen, can’t secure a job, nothing is working, I practically live like a spectator while my mates are progressing. Though I’m still praying.

Pray4meJC:
Actually l'm not here to dwell in vain arguments. True Christians should not do that. According to you " because I'm not exposed and fornicating that is the reason for my suffering wet dreams" right? Secondly, will having a girlfriend also solve my financial burden and automatically restore back my losses?

I remember years doing building site work known in local parlance as "legbuke" a serving man mixing cement for the mason. Getting home after all these hardwork, stress & tiredness it didn't stop the wet dream.

We should stop coming online to form woke and "oyinbo wananbi". In the spiritual world nothing like civilisation and old school. The mandate of the devil is to kill, to steal, destroy and deceive. Stop dragging the naive into your so called "wokeness " in spiritual matters. Didn't envisaged that both teenagers and non christians will be commenting on this issue but again I realise this is a forum with varieties of people especially when the owners placed it on front page.

Great to announce the high blood pressure level of 200+ have dropped to normal. The doctors were shocked when I told them I didn't take the drugs they prescribed. It took three weeks of meditation and relaxing to do the trick. The exact stuff I did is a topic for another time so as not to derail this thread. The condition was not supposed to come up in the first place but I never knew the emotions resulting from debt / financial losses was heating and gathering momentum subliminally
thereby leading to terrible BP that almost took my life. I just pretend now that nothing happened.

Cont ......

You are on the right track man
Don't let those Churchians misinform you
Such things do happen but it will eventually stop as you grow in knowledge
Exercises and mediation can help you recover within some months.

Pray4meJC:


Very true confirmation at the bolded. Delays/stagnation is what brought about this whole story. Rising and falling is like moving in circular motion

Right now can no longer do any physical work as much as I used to like clearing, lifting blocks etc. for 5 minutes without my heart feeling like jumping out, drum beat while my ears oozes with heavy drum beating sounds on the inside. It wasn't so 2 months ago.

Life started for me like one of those brilliant youngsters out there but sooner was noticing memory losses in my 14th birthday slowly. I've not entangled myself then and my father didn't help matters either because he was always feeling & saying I wasn't serious with life and studies. In SS2, could no longer coped with STEM subjects and the rest became history. Not trying to compare my life and destiny with others but I'm decades behind most of my classmates doing well in Texas, Engineering, Education, Medicine, Science, Law, Business, Family, Finance, Software, Leadership.

Definitely will download all the videos tonight.

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I had the same memory loss issues which started 5 years after I left secondary school.. before that I noticed I was getting too bored in school when ever I gained admission everything in class irritates me.. the whole thing feels like “ what am I doing here?” and dropping out of every admission didn’t make matters easy. As a student well above average in my senior years in sec school, that’s when I noticed the signs, I fought so hard to remain above average. My Physics teacher gave us all individual topics to treat just before wassce as mock preparations. He was too shocked at what he saw me teach to the class, he couldn’t stop clapping hence the question “ what’s wrong with you on a regular so you are this good?” Same thing in my chemistry class in university jumped into the group of bright minds trying to solve a problem “ I took it and handled it like nothing” all these happens when I’m free from these cloudy fuzzy feel in my head coupled with extreme lack of concentration despite trying so hard. These students simply said “ so you are this good, you do need serious prayers” the battles was no joke. I still thank God I am out finally with a third class. My lecturer who called to notify me that I have been finally released after many efforts from lectures who had some idea what was happening. He said “a first class ability student with a third class , all is well”. All these wouldn’t have been this worse if my dad were to believe something was spiritually wrong, my mom did know and was working and praying fasting like seriously, but passed away few years after I left college. He only just realized just about 4 years ago, Now he’s praying so fervently on the subject matter at old age. I’m not saying all these just to waste my strength typing, I’m passing a message across “ don’t just monitor your kids physically do the same spiritually so you identify areas that needs most urgent attention, to save yourself tears at old age”.