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| If Not For Children: by mekaboy(m): 11:29pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
IF NOT FOR CHILDREN, DO U THINK GUYS WILL STILL WANT TO GET MARRIED IN TODAY'S WORLD? STILL WONDERING WHY A GUY WILL CHOOSE TO LIVE WITH ONE WOMAN FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. THE WISEST MAN ON EARTH HAD OVER 700. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Cuddlemii: 11:40pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
Well If not for Societal pressure, do you think some women would want to marry some men and take their crap. I don't wonder why women would choose to live with a man for the rest of their lives because unlike you some men are so sweet, caring, loving and romantic (like my baby love). The richest black woman in the world is single |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
SMH! Who stops you frm having 1000?  How Many did fela have? And What did Fela Die Of? But again how would you  1000 ladies with that ya small  ? |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: @ Op get that into ya thick Skull!  |
| Re: If Not For Children: by toyemz(f): 11:52pm On Jul 09, 2011 |
@poster IF NOT FOR CHILDREN, DO U THINK GUYS WILL STILL WANT TO GET MARRIED IN TODAY'S WORLD? STILL WONDERING WHY A GUY WILL CHOOSE TO LIVE WITH ONE WOMAN FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. if that is your main reason for marriage,might i remind you that there are hundreds of children waiting to be adopted you could go along that path! |
| Re: If Not For Children: by mekaboy(m): 1:40am On Jul 10, 2011 |
BLAH BLAH BLAH, MY BABY IS SO SWEET , LOVING, CARING, ETC, THE QUESTION IS FOR HOW LONG? WILL U STILL SAY THAT 5 YRS ALONG THE LINE IN AFTER MARRIAGE ? |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Mynd44: 8:36am On Jul 10, 2011 |
toyemz: |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Nobody: 9:47am On Jul 10, 2011 |
As regards your last post, I av a question for u̶̲̥̅̊ , ; are you from a broken home? |
| Re: If Not For Children: by 2Praise: 9:58am On Jul 10, 2011 |
Mistaken man. As if kids are the reason people get married. FYI that wise man solomon was also a King and the Wealthiest too. Challenge him and marry twice that number,then become chief of the vilage u create |
| Re: If Not For Children: by iice(f): 11:54am On Jul 10, 2011 |
2Praise:  Cuddlemii:No mind am as if ma only man dey marry abi na only marriage dey produce pikin. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Brite02(m): 2:18pm On Jul 10, 2011 |
OP I doubt that, marrying up 700 wives does not make one wise, even in the holy book. . Solomon said that all was vanity. Reason man married a woman is not just only for kids. Be careful how you speak man. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by mekaboy(m): 10:41am On Jul 11, 2011 |
LOL, I AM NOT FROM A BROKEN HOME BUT, WE ALL KNOW THAT IT DOES NOT TAKE LONG BEFORE THAT WHOLE MARRIAGE EXCITEMENT FADES AWAY, AND THE 2 COUPLES ARE ONLY TOGETHER BECAUSE OF THE KIDS. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Goldieluks: 10:49am On Jul 11, 2011 |
mekaboy: that is why you should look for other things to spice up your marriage,go on holidays,buy each other gifts,send text messages,flash each other, go to the beach,take a stroll sometimes-hand in hand, book for massages,go shopping,go sight seeing,go window shopping,try new things,like eating out sometimes,go sky diving,go on dinner dates(even married couples does that) Look for things that would make the relationship healthy,don't sit on your back side,waiting for love to fall down from the sky. In a relationship or marriage where there is no true love,that is where you find the couples getting bored of each other with every little irritant. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by MMM2(m): 11:02am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Op Married is just 4 free punny. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by kpolli(m): 11:14am On Jul 11, 2011 |
dumb post |
| Re: If Not For Children: by 2Praise: 11:18am On Jul 11, 2011 |
Op have u evr been married or ur talking out of the day to day negative stories we hear? You seem to have wrong ideas about marriage as an institution and its purpose. Its not a fairy tale or magic.Its a long journey and hard work if you never want to derail. Now I doubt ur of age to even comprehend the institution itself but just know there's more to it than kids. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by 190: 11:23am On Jul 11, 2011 |
If the wisest man had 700 kids then im going to have 701 my time starts now!! |
| Re: If Not For Children: by leuelliot(m): 11:31am On Jul 11, 2011 |
190: LOL Madt man, Well they did not say he had 700 kids ooo just wives imagine one wife per night that's 700 days omg |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Nobody: 11:33am On Jul 11, 2011 |
I would still get married. I believe in the intuition of marriage. So no matter what society says, no matter the divorce rate I am gonna get marry someday. Infact the kids thing is the last on my list. I luv kids but the whole child birth thing is terrifying. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by MrsChima(f): 4:59pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
Hey wifey, You do not need to have children if you do not want to bother with it. Childbirth and children isn't for everyone. There are thousands of married couples who do not have children and are happy with that. There are many reasons why people do not have children and infertility is not one of them. Some people are so quick to expect married couples to have children not asking HOW THE COUPLE feels about having children or what's expectation for the future concerning children. You will be married and happy in near future to a wonderful man who is not going to pressured you into having children UNTIL YOU ARE READY, AMEN.  |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:Do not even waste your prayers. Not from the family I am from. (You want my mom to kill me alive?) Not the man I have I will just have to go through it. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by 190: 5:13pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
leuelliot: |
| Re: If Not For Children: by MrsChima(f): 5:20pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
rokiatu: (praying faster and sealing the prayer in) Too late! |
| Re: If Not For Children: by mekaboy(m): 10:25pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
LOL, EVERYBODY JUST DEY SHOUT INSTITUTION INSTITUTION UP AND DOWN, I HOPE JAMB IS NOT REQUIRED IN THIS INSTITUTION WELL SOMEBODY WAS SUGGESTING DOING NEW THINGS AND ALL THAT, SOUNDS FUN , BUT DONT FORGET, ITS THE SAME PERSON YOUR DOING ALL THOSE STUFF WITH. THAT YOU GO WALKING IN THE MOON FOR A CHANGE WITH THE SAME LADY U HAVE BEEN WITH FOR 10YRS DOES NOT CHANGE HER. WELL I AM NOT MARRIED AND I DONT THINK I WILL MARRY FOR LOVE, BECAUSE LOVE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE. THEY SAY LOVE IS BETWEEN 2 PEOPLE , BUT I HAVE BEEN IN LOVE WITH 3 GIRLS SO I DONT UNDERSTAND . PLEASE I WANT TO ASK THE PROFESSORS AND LECTURERS OF THIS :" INSTITUTION" HOW DO U COPE WITH ONE WOMAN FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE WITHOUT CHEATING. |
| Re: If Not For Children: by HisExcellencyBKNjoku: 10:49pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
^^^ Hmmmmmmm, what a question? |
| Re: If Not For Children: by Mynd44: 4:40pm On Jul 12, 2011 |
@MEKABOY, by nyashing the househelp, her sisters and her friends when she is not looking |
| Re: If Not For Children: by mekaboy(m): 10:26pm On Jul 12, 2011 |
LOL, THATS CHEATING IN THE INSTITUTION |
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