Dear nairalanders no insult pls.
I'm 22 a 200level undergraduate adult. Surposed to be in my finals because of late admission to get my admission.
My older siblings still treat me like a child. Though I lost my dad three years ago. He was d only one that could manage the situation.
My elder brother is asking for my landlords number to be monitoring my activities in the higher institution. I feel depressed that at this age they all still treat me as a kid. Aside that other aspect as well. Some of my old class mates are married and some are serving. Pls what should I do about this situation?

Are they the ones feeding you or what?
Even though they are,Dem no get any right to dey disturb your private life na.
Talk to him and tell him you are not ok with it.

I guess you are female. If you have nothing to hide, why are you advocating for total liberation from them? Liberation from?

chatinent:
I guess you are female. If you have nothing to hide, why are you advocating for total liberation from them? Liberation from?

Liberation from?
Liberation from her/his brother's stvvpidity,what's there that you don't get?

Must she/he have something to hide before she can advocate for their personal space.
Look how you even began your sentence,'I guess you are a female',sounding like a sexist.

So if it's a female,she should be under her brother's shackle?
Everyone needs some space and that's what she's advocating for not all this jargons you are saying,do you know how it feels to be monitored as an adult.

Be happy you still have siblings who care enough to monitor your life.... People are turning up dead left, right and centre yet you don't expect them to be concerned.
Well, your mates or even friends may have gotten married at 22, but are you? If you get other things to hide, like being a full-time runs girl, do feel free to let us know, till then....

At this point in life all you care about is freedom. You can survive without anyone checking up on you so far they send you money.

But not to worry,it will soon clear for your eyes and you will know why people get depressed and lonely in a world of 7bn people.

Be grateful for the family you have. Some siblings abandon and forget about themselves the moment the parents are gone but these ones are still doing everything to be a part of your life.

Last year, you were posted to Oyo for NYSC. This year, you're in 200 level. Same last year, you dated a cultist and your sister's boyfriend?

If I were your brother, I won't only monitor your life but ensure you live under my roof until you're married. And it wouldn't matter whether you're 22 or 32.

Whatever pushed you from NYSC back to 200 level deserves close monitoring.

From ur words, i rightly believe you are a girl not lady yet.


With the recent happenings, ur brother is only watching out for you cos he cares.

Chiefbutcher007:

Liberation from?
Liberation from her/his brother's stvvpidity,what's there that you don't get?

Must she/he have something to hide before she can advocate for their personal space.
Look how you even began your sentence,'I guess you are a female',sounding like a sexist.

So if it's a female,she should be under her brother's shackle?
Everyone needs some space and that's what she's advocating for not all this jargons you are saying,do you know how it feels to be monitored as an adult.

Yes, she should be watched.

Females should be trained closely until they enter their husband's houses. Dem dey easily dey stupid.

I'm not bothered if she has a boyfriend..but I'll be there to make sure she doesn't make bad decisions.

chatinent:


Yes, she should be watched.

Females should be trained closely until they enter their husband's houses. Dem dey easily dey stupid.

I'm not bothered if she has a boyfriend..but I'll be there to make sure she doesn't make bad decisions.

And we men no dey easily dey stvvpid?
You mean monitoring a 22 yr old by appointing the landlord to put an eye on her is cool?

Acidosis:
Last year, you were posted to Oyo for NYSC. This year, you're in 200 level. Same last year, you dated a cultist and your sister's boyfriend?

If I were your brother, I won't only monitor your life but ensure you live under my roof until you're married. And it wouldn't matter whether you're 22 or 32.

Whatever pushed you from NYSC back to 200 level deserves close monitoring.

Hell dam.... Dude see the way I'm laughing. Seriously you really attack his gut to be roaming around this space with falsify post.

Acidosis:
Last year, you were posted to Oyo for NYSC. This year, you're in 200 level. Same last year, you dated a cultist and your sister's boyfriend?

If I were your brother, I won't only monitor your life but ensure you live under my roof until you're married. And it wouldn't matter whether you're 22 or 32.

Whatever pushed you from NYSC back to 200 level deserves close monitoring.

The 2 stories are fake. Simple as ABC. .

Acidosis:
Last year, you were posted to Oyo for NYSC. This year, you're in 200 level. Same last year, you dated a cultist and your sister's boyfriend?

If I were your brother, I won't only monitor your life but ensure you live under my roof until you're married. And it wouldn't matter whether you're 22 or 32.

Whatever pushed you from NYSC back to 200 level deserves close monitoring.

,honestly i can't stop laughing.