Stats: 3,190,753 members, 7,941,856 topics. Date: Friday, 06 September 2024 at 02:35 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? (43441 Views)
"My Wife Is 21" - 60-Year-Old Kano Man Accused Of Marrying 11-Year-Old (Pix) / Man Who Accused A Pastor Of Marrying His Wife, Sets To Wed A New Lady / The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (21) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 12:15am On May 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum:Since when did women start approaching men for marriage? Do you now pay groom price? The same can never apply for men and women whether you choose to agree or not. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez: 12:16am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:what a waste of vagina fluid. You're organically, irrevocably damaged. Saddest part is that women will eventually spit on you. What a dullard. Your mother raised you so singularly and so well ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:16am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:I have been vindicated ![]() Mrs-MrBrownjay |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 12:16am On May 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum:Ok, go ahead then and recommend them to your kinsmen. Good luck with that. Lols! |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:18am On May 12, 2022 |
cenaman:Yes! Unless if their first husband is dead or a mad man. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:18am On May 12, 2022 |
denobaba:Women don't approach men. But if you are a man with child before coming to marry a single lady. I v the right to reject you if I reason like puskas, satandererrible, Toktee and other carnal boys on this thread. Whatever a man can do, a woman ll do better. We are not liabilities. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:18am On May 12, 2022 |
UncleKoboko: you see....NONE of you are bringing anything valid to this discussion, and instead are just focussing on rubbish about me because a man (with no sistas) brought a valid point to this discussion...now put your misplaced ego aside and answer the damn question: APART FROM THE YEYE INSECURE BS THAT MOST OF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT, WHAT IS SO WRONG ABOUT A SINGLE MOTHER?! now focus on that instead of quoting me about nonsense! |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:19am On May 12, 2022 |
denobaba:Thanks. You too recommend to your kinsmen that they should stop discriminating against single babymamas. Life happens to all of us. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 12:20am On May 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum:You sound like one. Maybe the topic is close to home for you in some way, but you need to stop lying and manipulating gullible people. Marriage to single moms should be a big NO in a very general sense. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 12:22am On May 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum:We don't discriminate here, but I'll take that, thanks. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by saintruky(m): 12:23am On May 12, 2022 |
Puskas: I don't completely agree with you |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 12:23am On May 12, 2022 |
Pharaohny: You and the guy you quoted, una two, be mumu |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by saintruky(m): 12:24am On May 12, 2022 |
MistarT: Nah no think am... Just love d child as much as u love d mom... However what's d status of d baby's dad? |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:25am On May 12, 2022 |
Fearlez: i really do feel sorry for some NLers and/or Nigeria when a man has an opinion, and the above is the 1st thing that someone think of posting. so in a way, you expect me to be like you, you expect me to think like you, and if you are miserable in your life, then i should be too, abi?! we are having a discussion here, we are maturely debatting about a subject....and if the above is the best you can bring to that mature discussion , then no wonder Nigeria as a country is doomed! 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:25am On May 12, 2022 |
Never ever! I repeat, NEVER EVER TRY IT, especially if their first husband is still alive. You can just manage a widower if you're deeply in love, she is deeply in love, she has a job, she has good personality and she can also still give you your own children. 1 Share
|
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Basiljoe: 12:27am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:You are a Blue-pilled beta male who doesn't know jackshit or understands a woman’s dualistic mating strategy (if you did you wouldn't be saying this crap). A potential father needs to understand the circumstance in which women’s never ending quest to satisfy their Hypergamous doubt places them in at various phases of their maturity. For Red Pill men, a lot gets made of ‘vetting’ women for personal attributes and character to make them contenders for being the mother of their children. While this is important, I can’t stress enough how important it is to account for the Hypergamous choices women make prior to his consideration – as well as the consequences she should be held accountable for, yet attempts to avoid by his obligated graces. If knowing is half the battle, taking action is the other half. — Rational Male. Vetting a woman’s sexual past is not just your prerogative, but an absolute imperative to the health of any future relationship you hope to have with her. When you consider the significant risks you are essentially setting yourself up for, risks no woman can ever acknowledge, empathize with or appreciate, the single most important thing you can do is vet her according to that woman’s sexual past. – Rational Male. Sex is the glue that holds relationships together. It’s the height of irony that a woman would place so high a priority on her own sexual experiences while in her sexual market value’s peak yet completely disqualify that importance when she gets to the phase where it becomes a liability to her. As a man it is vitally important for you to know whether you’ll be her apex Alpha lover, somone in between, or if your burden of performance will be measured against the ghosts of Alpha men from her sexual past – and all while you endure the stresses and joys of raising children with her. Alpha Widows As an aside here, I should add that I’m completely aware of the studies indicating a woman’s capacity to bond monogamously is inversely proportionate to the number of sexual partners she’s experienced prior to monogamy. I wont argue the merit of that concept, but I also don’t think this fully encompasses the dynamic. I say this because even one prior lover (or even unrequited obsession of hers) can be Alpha enough to upset that bonded monogamous balance. These then are the Alpha Widows – women so significantly impacted by a former Alpha (or perceptually so) lover that she’s left with an emotional imprint that even the most dutiful, loving Beta-provider can never compete with. A woman doesn’t have to have been an archetypal ‘slut’ in order to have difficulty in pair bonded monogamy. — Rational Male. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 12:27am On May 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum:Of course, women are well within their rights to accept or decline a man's proposal. Men have been dealing with female rejection from the beginning of time, it's infact women who can't stand rejection. The fact remains that men are judged by their ability to provide before anything else. As long as a man is financially capable, with or without kids, women will not mind marriage with him. From Solomon in the days of old to the Alafin of Oyo in modern times, we have seen too many of these examples. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:28am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:I won't waste my time educating a stubborn hypocrite and impostor. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 12:32am On May 12, 2022 |
Fearlez: That guy is very foolish. Don't waste your precious time talking to him. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:32am On May 12, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:Lol Or deh No one will love you again... No sane one will marry you again... Gift those "sweet" advice to your brothers and males in your family, THEY NEED IT MORE ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez: 12:32am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:let me slay the dragon of stupidity in your tiny brain; there's no discussion here! we're not having a debate here. This isn't banter. You're manifesting your mental frailty and psychological porosity and your people-pleasing life that has no form of standards or rules. The worst thing about it all is that you actually believe you're making sense. There's a reason fathers and mothers hold their daughters firmly to not get pregnant outside wedlock. But a brain damaged loafer like you thlnks he has something to say. Confused, godless oaf! Even most girls here recognise you for who you are; a baseless, standard-less, inferior male completely lacking in self-esteem and self-value. Human vulture! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:35am On May 12, 2022 |
Basiljoe: with all due respect, the above is not only a pile of arrant gibberish nonsense....but it further makes me believe that you are all a bunch of low self esteem insecure men who jump on the IFs and MAYBEs that could happen with a single mother (which also could happen with other women) but will use her sexual past as a guilty stamp, as if single women have automatically a better sexual past (when we know that abortion is rampant in 9ja as well as dog fukcing and shiiit eating) |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 12:37am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: You are the one who sound miserable. If I see you for real life eh, na bottle wey I go use open your head. Very useless idiot. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:37am On May 12, 2022 |
denobaba:Marriage to single dad is dangerous according to your school of thought. I m not married neither do I v a child yet. I dislike this gender macho towards men. Men are supposed to be our protector but they are the ones discriminating |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:37am On May 12, 2022 |
justscorchone:Lol Or deh Brother Mrs ancient of the days ![]() |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Basiljoe: 12:38am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Lmao. You're a High self esteemed beta male. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:38am On May 12, 2022 |
denobaba:Your response is complete discrimination |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 12:39am On May 12, 2022 |
Everything depends on the lady. Depending on her character, it could be a curse OR it could be a huge blessing in disguise. In all honesty, you fare a better chance of success if the father is nowhere in the picture. With your help, you don’t know who that child will grow up to be. Take this for example: A single man with no kids married Shaquille O’Neal’s mum when he was a small child. Today, Shaq is worth $400 million and has never given his biological father a penny but his step-dad is living a millionaire’s life. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:39am On May 12, 2022 |
denobaba:Not all women ll do that. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by BRATISLAVA: 12:39am On May 12, 2022 |
UncleKoboko: Do you think I have any or care about such things? Or deh No one will love you again... No sane one will marry you again... Enjoy your advice for you, your sisters and females in your family. THEY NEED IT MORE! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:39am On May 12, 2022 |
Fearlez: as i have said countless of times, when people have nothing intelligent to say, they start the petty irrelevant useless insults... as if anyone on NL gives a fukc what other NLers think of them as a person. i guess you must be here for popularity contest, i aint! 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by tiswell(m): 12:40am On May 12, 2022 |
frozen70:there is really no thing like a single father ![]() children bear their fathers' name and not their mothers' |
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (21) (Reply)
Young Man Surprises His Dad With A Brand New Mercedes Benz SUV (video) / Couple Name Their Twins ‘Corona’ And ‘Covid’ In India / Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms?
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 82 |