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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:40am On May 12, 2022 |
Lightway:The person you quoted is an impostor. In real life, SHE'S A STUBBORN AND BITTER SINGLE MOTHER. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 12:44am On May 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum: What is more irresponsible than getting pregnant out of wedlock? If I slap you, you go face front. You dey talk God Il judge. Judge him for what? For saying the absolute truth. God kee you there. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:45am On May 12, 2022 |
ugodson:Keep FOOLING YOURSELF until you fall into the pit and you can no longer escape... The ex usually maltreat her and that's all Abi? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() When they were having marathon sex and romance for some years, he wasn't maltreating her then Abi, Lol Or deh THE BEST OF MISCHIEVOUS, PRETENDERS AND LIARS OF WOMEN ARE MOSTLY THE SINGLE MOTHERS... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:46am On May 12, 2022 |
AutoRedux:God kee you this AutoRedux. May your penni s shrink to size of kolanut and seize to work. Who impregnated a woman out of wedlock? An irresponsible man like you! |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by tiswell(m): 12:48am On May 12, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:you are a lady,prolly a single mother,so no surprises at your defense ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 12:49am On May 12, 2022 |
Spider20:Exactly 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez: 12:51am On May 12, 2022 |
AutoRedux:that thing must have been born feet first and with brain lesions. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:52am On May 12, 2022 |
Basiljoe: Alpha, beta or even omega male if you wish, wont change my opinion on single mothers... the fact that MY opinion on the subject has so many of you upset, makes me FURTHER BELIEVE that you are all a bunch of sissy who need every men to be on your side to feel some type of way. is it illegal today to see nothing wrong with single mothers?!?!? is that such a crime?!?!? so a man cant have an opinion thats different than yours, because your ego is in the way of your common sense?!?!? i have spent too much time debatting with immature low self esteem insecure children here... let me take a bow. you guys have a great night. [img]https:///media/5-22-2014/tUMTj9.gif[/img] 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by BRATISLAVA: 12:53am On May 12, 2022 |
tiswell: Guess you're an irresponsible serial impregnater, with multiple offspring you've denied, from multiple women who have become single mothers, hence your response. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by tiswell(m): 12:55am On May 12, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:now you sound so pained. struck a nerve? 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:56am On May 12, 2022 |
UncleKoboko:Bros, what's wrong with a single mom? |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:57am On May 12, 2022 |
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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:57am On May 12, 2022 |
tiswell:Bros what's wrong with a single mom? |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 1:01am On May 12, 2022 |
It depends on the circumstances that led to that status. Never take her word for it, it does not mean you are insecure; 1) Is the boyfriend/husband deceased? If so good to go, although With added expenses. 2) If he is alive, why did he not wife her; a-: did she have to escape an abusive/immature relationship? If so, no problem. b-: was she a promiscuous, abusive partner, that the man had to run for his sanity. A true life story that happened last November. I and my flatmate live in diaspora. I got a call early November from a mutual friend if my flatmate is still with his babymama, I used the term, because although with complete tradition engagement/intro done, they were not yet officially married. She lives in his house with their child, has every good thing of life and runs his bussiness. Marriage is in the works and there is no case of abandonment because we visit Nigeria twice or in worse case once every year. Communication is good, FaceTime is almost nonstop. I confirmed in the affirmative and he went on to tell me how his woman has been passed around by virtually everyone he knows, unfortunately for her she did not know this guy knew us, so she was basically free around since it was a bit off their zone. I broke the news to my flatmate, he vowed to catch her red handed, but I asked how? For the first time, he embarked on a trip home in November instead of December without her knowing he was on the way right until he walked into his home one evening. On entering his house, he went immediately for her phone , giving her zero opportunity to wipe clean. She was completely caught unawares. The contents were heartbreaking, the allegations confirmed and she had no choice to admit to it all. It became clear that what she does was wipe all traces of infidelity clean whenever he announces he was coming home. Most horrible is the fact that they were multiple. Although my guy foolishly lost his cool and beat her up and it ended at state CID, but was later settled. Today, that relationship is effectively ended, she is officially a single mum. Now, tomorrow she will paint a pathetic story of how she left because he was abusive, while leaving out how she was sleeping with every thing that has a dick. And someone would want to form woke and just wife such a woman without sue deligence. There is a reason she is single if the baby daddy is alive, find out why and do not take her words for it. Lastly, I expect some people to try to rationalize her actions by asking why the hubby did not take her along. Please whoever will cheat will cheat, while you are even at home with her, what if the conditions were not favorable? Mind you, he visits once/twice a year, and it wasn’t about funds, she runs the family biz! 5 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:03am On May 12, 2022 |
I don’t have any experiences as a single mother but I know of a few bad stories about them marrying men but for every bad, I know 10 good. The OP is likely hearing the negative but being an optimist, I found some good examples. ->Multimillionaire Shaquille O’Neal’s mom was poor when she married his stepfather. Shaq attributes all credit for his achievements to his step-father. Refuses to have a relationship with his bio father or his bio fathers family, all who are very poor. He retired his step-father from the US Army and made him a millionaire. ->Kanye West was raised by his single mother Donda. Today, he’s on the list of the world’s only Black billionaires (15 total). Net worth $2 billion usd. ->Barack Obama had no father in his life. Became the US President, has a net worth of $70 million usd married to a woman with a personal net worth of $5 million usd. ->Jay Z, on the list of One of the world’s 15 Black billionaires. Raised on welfare by single mother. Current Net worth $2 billion USD. ->Angelina Jolie- no father in the picture when she was a child. Current net worth $120 million USD. ->Mariah Carey- mom struggled to raise she and her sister alone, dads absent. Raised on welfare and government benefits. Current net worth $320 million ->Rick Ross- mother abandoned by father, raised on welfare. Current net worth $45 million ->Keanu Reeves- Immigrant. He and his mother were abandoned by his father when he was 3. He was raised by a single mother that lived on welfare and government benefits in Canada. Current net worth $380 million. -> Justin Bieber- current net worth $285 million ->Leonardo Di Caprio- currently worth $260 million ->Adele raised by a single mother and once lived in UK Council Housing. Current net worth $220 million. ->Alicia Keyes raised by a single mother. Current net worth $150 million. ->Sean “Puffy” Combs, raised by a single mother after his father was killed. Current net worth $580 million. Mother is now a millionaire. The list never ends. Men passed up all these people’s single mothers. I’m sure that all of their absent fathers wish they would’ve been present and men who passed up their single mothers because she had a child have deep regrets to. Most of them, Shaq especially, has refused to give his biological father or his family even $1. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by tiswell(m): 1:05am On May 12, 2022 |
Sweetplum:they are bad market,I'm talking from experience. You can never please nor satisfy a single mother,and they usually end up loving or should I say pity their love-child more than the legitimate ones she has for you. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Basiljoe: 1:06am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Forget all this nonsense way you dey talk, just read the book "Rational male: Positive masculinity" by rollo tomassi, your eye go open. You go get common sense. Goodnight Mr mumu Adult. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by tiswell(m): 1:12am On May 12, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican:shove the manipulative instance down to your brothers,you ladies will always look for men to clean ya mess ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:15am On May 12, 2022 |
tiswell: Sir, I have no mess to clean. Marrying a single mother is not for the weak or faint hearted. I’m sorry that you aren’t the kind of man that has the determination to take nothing and nurture it into something. I’m also sorry that you’ve only had negative experiences but I am not you. I don’t believe in discouragement and negativity when the situation can have an incredible outcome. A determined person with a positive mind has power to change any circumstance. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by richboy7(m): 1:18am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: You're so wrong. Mary was married to Joseph. Go read your Bible Wella. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:18am On May 12, 2022 |
tiswell: Love child? So no single mother are widows that once had a strong husband that she decided to have a child with? No single mother was once in an abusive or adulterous marriage that she had the courage to leave? Your lack of critical thoughts reflect your negative outlook. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by stanliwise(m): 1:26am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:if only it was this simple then, the so-called father and former lover always have a way to appear again you know? |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by stanliwise(m): 1:29am On May 12, 2022 |
Basiljoe:This books you're mentioning are about manipulative people including male and female but the author sort of narrowed it down to female. like you must be a shallow thinker to think only women are what is in that book |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Typicalguy(m): 1:30am On May 12, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: Bro na single mother you dey Marry that na why you dey tackle everybody opinion as insecure... Abeg getat ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by stanliwise(m): 1:32am On May 12, 2022 |
Fearlez:the person you quoted said something of concern and you gave a rather weird response or empty per se. I think you must be one of those redpits or reddrugs guy hovering on every thread screaming macho into everyone ears. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Basiljoe: 1:37am On May 12, 2022 |
stanliwise:I don't get you. I don't understand what you're trying to say? |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by BRATISLAVA: 1:42am On May 12, 2022 |
tiswell: I'm sounding like you did when you quoted me. Struck a nerve? 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by tiswell(m): 1:45am On May 12, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:joke is on you ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 1:53am On May 12, 2022 |
MistarT: My wife and I have been married for 15 years. She was a single mother when we first met. I have never regretted it. But then again, to each his own. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by stanliwise(m): 1:53am On May 12, 2022 |
Basiljoe:Rollo Tomassi lied to you that only female posses those character. In medical and pure psychology, those trait of social manipulation are not gender based. If you don't understand then I leave you in peace. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 1:55am On May 12, 2022 |
Puskas: So ? 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Hollian: 2:23am On May 12, 2022 |
Puskas:fact!!! |
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