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Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 1:18am On Jul 17, 2011
Im good. .


Oh no no not at all-just thought you were male but now I am thinking the opposite smiley
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Ibomade1: 1:26am On Jul 17, 2011
kandiikane:

Im good. .


Oh no no not at all-just thought you were male but now I am thinking the opposite smiley

Kunbee is female.
Don't ask me I how I sabi oo   cool
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 1:28am On Jul 17, 2011
^^aha hahah, but I wan ask na grin
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Kunbee: 1:37am On Jul 17, 2011
kandiikane:

Im good. .


Oh no no not at all-just thought you were male but now I am thinking the opposite smiley

Oh ok the opposite is correct wink

Ibo-made:

Kunbee is female.
Don't ask me I how I sabi oo   cool

Abeg go away jor angry
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 1:40am On Jul 17, 2011
Ahh, now I know why you found it odd that I asked won-90 about you. .
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Kunbee: 1:46am On Jul 17, 2011
Lol

Now you get why i was so skeptical, cos females never ask of me and the only female i ever got along with, well. . . . . . . .


What are you doing up?
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 1:48am On Jul 17, 2011
Ah, I get you. .


Well, I am doing abit of research what about you? Or is it daytime where you are?
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Kunbee: 1:55am On Jul 17, 2011
1:52 am

I am nocturnal, so i don't sleep until 5am

Watching the Tudors, a series to pass time and nl at the same time

Does that mean you a student or postgraduate or what?

Cos we are derailing this thread
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 2:02am On Jul 17, 2011
I just love research everything for the sake of it grin but yeah I am a student. .


Facebook? Its easier for me there smiley
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Kunbee: 2:13am On Jul 17, 2011
Gimme your name, am unsearchable
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by 190: 2:16am On Jul 17, 2011
kandiikane:



Facebook? Its easier for me there smiley
Kunbee:

Gimme your name, am unsearchable
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 2:18am On Jul 17, 2011
I don't want people to see my name so I will ask won-90 to send me your link on fb so I can add you. smiley


190:



Bobo, come send me the link
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Kunbee: 2:19am On Jul 17, 2011
Ok, tell him.
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 2:31am On Jul 17, 2011
190's gone off
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Nobody: 5:38am On Jul 17, 2011
I have an aunt who turned down many men's advances for one reason or the other in her heyday. She was very beautiful and no average guy was in her league. She is 44 years old now with no husband and almost drove herself to suicide once.  Young sisters, please realize you only have a finite time window with which you have to be taken off the 'market'. As you age, the mating advantage swings over to the men while your options narrow! Its unfortunate but true.  You think lots of men are knocking on your door now; a time is coming when they will vanish!

The only ladies I've heard complain about men shortage are in their late twenties and early thirties. Ladies in their late teens to mid twenties do not have this problem. The vast majority of men approach ladies in that age range. There are many single eligible men out there but they won't talk to ladies like the OP when they can pull ladies 10 years younger. All the same, the OP should keep her head high and follow Cuddlemii's advice. Your man will come along as there is nothing God cannot do!

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Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by ddippset(m): 8:10am On Jul 17, 2011
most of you, when you're 22 , 23 you think the world is at your feet.
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Puvguy: 8:29am On Jul 17, 2011
lareine:

@ poster, I'm 32 too and single but not desperate. I have a man who wants to marry me but I'm not sure I want to marry him. Many of my friends are married.

But you see, as much as I want to get married, I'm  not desperate cos that's what men don't want.
You are not old, you are a young woman only matured and know better how to handle marriage. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

I buy cuddlemi's advice, aplly it and pls invite nairalanders when the wedding bells start ringing. In the meantime, get busy and your man is on his way.
Love!


Please honey don't go around thinking age is just number as applies marriage and procreation of women; is simply not! Again, please slow your roll and learn to love him. That's if he's not jobless or a nuisance?
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by member479760: 9:28am On Jul 17, 2011
sorry, 32 yrs old woman single = old woman.
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by earthrealm(m): 9:38am On Jul 17, 2011
the poster wud hv got a lot of tips on her thread,
another thing she also needs to do is to stop wearing rings, this can be misleading cos a fella sees rings on ur wedding finger or engagement finger, be it costume or otherwise, most responsible men tend to shy away.

2. ur age and the fact that u appear to be succesful, will most def drive the average nigerian wud be chyker away
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by passionate88: 9:51am On Jul 17, 2011
Maybe this is karma, When you were young and cute u were rejecting the (GOOD) ones that came for you, Now that you are getting Old and wrinkled, The ones you thought were good for you later dissappoint you. You should accept it that you will never be young again, So my advice to you is that you find yourself a young guy and get pregnant for Him, Before MENOPAUSE catch up to YOU.

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Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sagamite(m): 10:13am On Jul 17, 2011
kalokalo:

I have an aunt who turned down many men's advances for one reason or the other in her heyday. She was very beautiful and no average guy was in her league. She is 44 years old now with no husband and almost drove herself to suicide once.  Young sisters, please realize you only have a finite time window with which you have to be taken off the 'market'. As you age, the mating advantage swings over to the men while your options narrow! Its unfortunate but true.  You think lots of men are knocking on your door now; a time is coming when they will vanish!

The only ladies I've heard complain about men shortage are in their late twenties and early thirties. Ladies in their late teens to mid twenties do not have this problem. The vast majority of men approach ladies in that age range. There are many single eligible men out there but they won't talk to ladies like the OP when they can pull ladies 10 years younger. All the same, the OP should keep her head high and follow Cuddlemii's advice. Your man will come along as there is nothing God cannot do!

GBAM to every single sentence!

ddippset:

most of you, when you're 22 , 23 you think the world is at your feet.

GBAM!
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Nobody: 10:55am On Jul 17, 2011
I sense Isaiah4 here! Maybe trying marrying married men is a good idea now on.7 women on 1 rod is getting fashionable. Every word in the Bible must come to pass oh!
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by funkiibaby(f): 10:58am On Jul 17, 2011
I can't believe how cruel some comments are, it's so sad that people think it's funny to make someone feel worthless when they are already down!! angry sad.
Hun,i was back home in April and the way the our people write off ladies that are older that 30 disgusts me.I have friends who are the same age as me and not married and i know of a good friend of mine, who went out with this Naugthy-person of a guy for 6yrs(He was a student in the same uni as her),by the time she finished uni,served, the bastard left her.So at 32 she is started dating again and still lives with her father, life is so unfair.
Nigerian men are easily intimated by successful women.The economy situation of Nigeria is a big factor in Niger, when the would be eligible bachelor has no job.
There still hope my dear,have you thought abt using the Internet?,ask friends to introduce you to single men, you have to try harder but try not to be desperate, i know it's easier said than done.
Goodluck hun Bleep smiley
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Nobody: 11:05am On Jul 17, 2011
passionate88:

Maybe this is karma,  When you were young and cute u were rejecting the (GOOD) ones that came for you,  Now that you are getting Old and wrinkled,  The ones you thought were good for you later dissappoint you. You should accept it that you will never be young again,  So my advice to you is that you find yourself a young guy and get pregnant for Him,  Before MENOPAUSE catch up to YOU.


Lol. Single motherhood isn't such a bad idea in light of the desperate situation (which necessarily requires desperate measures). Half bread is better than none, abi how dem talk dat aphorism sef.
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sagamite(m): 11:29am On Jul 17, 2011
Cuddlemii:

I figured but your magic school bus bag does.

They try me there. If you are not careful, before you know it, your favourite hook will be:

"I. Love you.

And I. Need you.

Sagamite, I. Love you.

I do. Neeeeed you.

No matter what I do, all I think about is you.

Even when am with my boo, boy you know am crazy over you."
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 11:38am On Jul 17, 2011
ddippset:

most of you, when you're 22 , 23 you think the world is at your feet.
Offcourse, it is. .


kalokalo:

I have an aunt who turned down many men's advances for one reason or the other in her heyday. She was very beautiful and no average guy was in her league. She is 44 years old now with no husband and almost drove herself to suicide once.  Young sisters, please realize you only have a finite time window with which you have to be taken off the 'market'. As you age, the mating advantage swings over to the men while your options narrow! Its unfortunate but true.  You think lots of men are knocking on your door now; a time is coming when they will vanish!

The only ladies I've heard complain about men shortage are in their late twenties and early thirties. Ladies in their late teens to mid twenties do not have this problem. The vast majority of men approach ladies in that age range. There are many single eligible men out there but they won't talk to ladies like the OP when they can pull ladies 10 years younger. All the same, the OP should keep her head high and follow Cuddlemii's advice. Your man will come along as there is nothing God cannot do!


Hmm, I will have to start gathering men now then so I won't have to complain when I am in my 30s. .
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by White007(m): 11:51am On Jul 17, 2011
^^^Kandikane - Start gathering them before it becomes too late. tongue
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Cuddlemii: 12:25pm On Jul 17, 2011
@sagamite

I'm sure u don't want to a scape goat. It comes with a lot of loss. Don't provoke the dragon in me.
I sting
I rip
I tear
I drain
I melt
I hook
I destroy, will convert u to a jelly, without moving a belly. grin grin grin grin grin

Stick to ur looney tunes carrier bag jare. Its too early to graduate to a suitcase
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 12:29pm On Jul 17, 2011
White007:

^^^Kandikane - Start gathering them before it becomes too late. tongue

Oh, I will soon I just need to practise my pickup lines. . . kekekekekeke grin grin cool
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Holadunni: 1:10pm On Jul 17, 2011
I think in this life some one have to accept his/her destiny because it as been rewritten, i believe that there is no woman on this earth that we pray to hoke up with marriage man,but my believe was destiny can never change, so u have to think ahead of ur self very well may b that was ur destiny before it too late ok,because u'r not gettin younger any more and u hv to b prayerful as well, i wish u all the best
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by YoruIgbo(m): 1:27pm On Jul 17, 2011
kalokalo:

I have an aunt who turned down many men's advances for one reason or the other in her heyday. She was very beautiful and no average guy was in her league. She is 44 years old now with no husband and almost drove herself to suicide once. Young sisters, please realize you only have a finite time window with which you have to be taken off the 'market'. As you age, the mating advantage swings over to the men while your options narrow! Its unfortunate but true. You think lots of men are knocking on your door now; a time is coming when they will vanish!

The only ladies I've heard complain about men shortage are in their late twenties and early thirties. Ladies in their late teens to mid twenties do not have this problem. The vast majority of men approach ladies in that age range. There are many single eligible men out there but they won't talk to ladies like the OP when they can pull ladies 10 years younger. All the same, the OP should keep her head high and follow Cuddlemii's advice. Your man will come along as there is nothing God cannot do!


Just listen to yourself!! Why will girls in their teen and late twenties complain of man shortage? when an average Nigerian man sleeping with teen girls just use them as top ups, how many Nigerian man has just 1 woman or girlfriend? So Kalokalo the teen girl who only comes to your house on invitation knows pratically notthing about men so forget them infact you can have 10 teenage girls to yourself alone in Naija no complain but with more matured girls no way!! and because they can't live with you and your multiple women they go solo and then get into the position of OP where they now search for Mr Single grin
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sagamite(m): 2:00pm On Jul 17, 2011
Yoru_Igbo:

Just listen to yourself!! Why will girls in their teen and late twenties complain of man shortage? when an average Nigerian man sleeping with teen girls just use them as top ups, how many Nigerian man has just 1 woman or girlfriend? So Kalokalo the teen girl who only comes to your house on invitation knows pratically notthing about men so forget them infact you can have 10 teenage girls to yourself alone in Naija no complain but with more matured girls no way!! and because they can't live with you and your multiple women they go solo and then get into the position of OP where they now search for Mr Single grin

His point (and a very valid point at it) is that women tend to be more attractive in their late teens and early twenties.

I have even seen some scientific research that backs that up. The research result showed most women were at their most attractive between the ages of 15 to 24. Obviously there is some deviation, but that is the strongest range. And it is based on effortless naturality, not those that put effort in. So one can easily say women are usually at their prime at 20.

If you know how many women I have seen when I was young and were absolutely stunning when they were 18, then I see them 10 years later and most of the beauty is gone, you go bow. undecided Obviously, if they had put effort in to stay fit, it might be a different story.

As people get older, they age and the body is not so generous in regulating itself and keeping that lovely figure, people have to work tirelessly for it. When they are 20, it is effortless.

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