Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

If I can recover from my own heartbreak,you also can recover,just find something to keep your mind busy,don't worry about your boyfriend not seeing your worth,he would definitely come back to you begging,cos the lady he is presently with,she is just catching cruise wit him,don't ever accept him back,cos he would still give up on you and betray you,try and work on your self esteem and improve your self,u are beautiful,cos God made you so,if you need someone to talk to,you can always call on me.
07062545449,take heart and be strong.

Two abortions is not part of suffering with him Sha, that na your f9olishness

The sound of your voice sounds like you have concluded you will never find another guy because you are not attractive enough. Also sounds like your relationship was one sided as the other guy was not doing anything at all, you were the only one investing in it

You don get sense now abi? Learn to move on, that's not the end my friend! Your type (match) is waiting for you out there. You will get married soon!

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Aunty, is it not the same guy from your thread last year who refused to work but you kept buying data for him?? The same man that made you jog till your knees swelled and you couldn't walk for days?

Rejoice, you have been delivered from a parasitic relationship. You don't know what God has done for you. You are only focused on the present pain and not the future joys.

You'll be fine. After the hurting goes away, your eyes will be opened to what a completely sorry excuse for a man you were dating.

For now, BLOCK HIM everywhere. Of course in the days to come you'll unblock him several times, but eventually you will be able to block him without looking back. You deserve better than this guy, you just don't know it. Someone who can't sacrifice for you and is only fixated on your looks is not someone you should be pining over.

Someone who loves you for you will eventually locate you. Make your peace with God for those abortions you did and commit your ways into His hands.

zeuss:


bad advice

Women give the worst advise to their fellow women.. eg

If you're overweight ...they say love your curves bold n beautiful. Meanwhile for back drm go curse them.
You're a tap water mouthed chic they say.... speak your mind queen.
They advise you to leave your bf or husband just to jump in with the same man once you're gone.
They say do you booboo, your happiness comes first. Then call you a hoe behind.

Feminism was the greatest example if female lies abd advise. Look at our young ladies today.. Men dont wanna be with them anymore.

Including your brother or brothers, that is if u have one.

Onyi22:

What do you know about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigerian guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

Be strong, cry over it and move on

A broken relationship is far more better than broken marriage, know that and embrace peace and happiness

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

The abortion part is to your disadvantage. No man will want to date a girl that have done abortion twice. The healthy state of your womb is presently unknown

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

You were very cheap and graceless ni. Free fornication and abortion for boyfriend, why na. Time to get closer to God and work on your body. Focus on other things and forget that fellow. If you don't forget, it affects you more.

Sweetplum:

Wetin dey sup?
You wrote words, concluded & assumed for me.
Let the man that offend be punished.

Ok!
I was just wondering why a man who decided to leave a woman should be punished.
Punished for what exactly?
They both fell in Love...
She wasn't coerced nor raped.
They had a mutual relationship, but along the line things went haywire.
I have seen Ladies leave men too and men are adviced to handle such manly!
In Fact, most times MEN chastise their fellow men who would want to go after such Ladies.

You know I admire u a lot , so, I was shocked when I realised you could put up dat!
Life's all about Ups & Down! Not always rosy!
She should move on. She may have dodged something too.

Mark my words, he will come back begging. He can't do without you, just be ready to forgive him.
But for the main time, be strong and stop crying, I know it's not easy but be urself and by strong.

Onyi22:

What do you know about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigerian guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

Including your father, your brothers and uncles.

Onyi22:

What do you know about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigerian guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

You should have an award for the most useless and misleading advice, your posts here is one of the reasons girls will keep falling for all that glitters and end up falling for the wrong guys, the bad people that won't mind using them for ritual, once they notice his riches they let their guard down without even getting to know the kinda people they are, you should be ashamed of your self

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

And I sincerely prayed for this kind of woman with understanding but na yeye I dey always meet


Dearie, keep calm, focus, stay away from emotions, u will be fine! U will definitely meet your match!

Don't force love , it will comeand u will smile again! Be strong

Candidlady:
Ihate reading things like this
Very annoying
What y'all seeing in this gender
Falling inlove with cursed beings try
This gender can only bring pains

Na Ur types dey abuse men, later u go dey beg them, u want tell me say men no dey Bleep you

I pray no man married u what about that

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tears, next time go for Money not Love

And if we check u now, u no get ordinary spoke.

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

My dear move on, just move on, work on your self,he has challanged you with your weight,enter Facebook and join weight losers group within four months your story go change,then for the other ones, develop a skill that will make you sellable and most preferred in the labour market,with these things you will see your self at the top, please discuss this abortion stuff with God,go to the altar of God and ask for forgiveness of sin, after that close that leg � just close the leg, you can't afford the heartbreak again,most men are just useless

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Sorry for the hurt in your heart. Dust yourself up, and move on. It is what it is. Find ways to better yourself, he did you dirty but trust me, life always comes back in full circle. It may only take some time. Leave him be and take your dignity with you. Other young girls and boys should learn from this please. Too much betrayal out there, guard your hearts.

You lucky he left in relationship not marriage
Someone would love u in time
But the question is "won't u spoil things when he comes back telling u he knows better now"?
Just watch the new girl would hurt him and he would come bk for u..
Then he would look beyond ur skin..he would look at the loyalty trust sacrifices love..

I'm warning u don't ever get bk wit him

I still don't understand why girls are this cheap these days! Is it becos of the price of crude oil in the international market? Someone shud pls tell me.

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tears, next time go for Money not Love

When a senior olosho advises u, pls listen!

Rhozabeth:
I still don't understand why girls are this cheap these days! Is it becos of the price of crude oil in the international market? Someone shud pls tell me.

Point of Correction.
Ladies are not Cheap.
WOMEN were solely created for men & men alone. Let's get it straight. Men4women too
Same way Goats, Giraffes, Lions and Dogs have their companions, so humans too.
IF they don't want men around themselves, who else will dey crave for. Pls. Adore them!

The issue is, she should be smarter next time.

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tears, next time go for Money not Love

u wey pursue money when ya papa go paint the wall for una house?

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tears, next time go for Money not Love

fake love you will still regret it later stop dishing pple fake advice

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Forget about him, don't get a rebound,hit the gym and be better in every respect, travel out of the country if you can.Fat or slim, there is someone willing to die for you.

You are dying because of one useless boyfriend that hated you? Na waoh for children of nowadays.
Two abortions and you think that useless guy who was only interested in seeing your unclothedness would end up marrying you? You must be day dreaming.
REPENT, you sinner. Give your life to Jesus Christ now and avoid the devil's trap of boyfriend/girlfriend relationships because the end is hell fire.

Amend your ways as you still have life in you now. Thank you

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Onyi22:

What do you know about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigerian guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

We are not all useless,it's just in your part of the country and in your family.I have never cheated for the eighth years I have been in relationships...learnt that from my Dad,not because I don't find other girls attractive apart from my partner,but it just comes natural.

You sound very bitter, wicked and inmature. i dont think you wish to see your enemy pass through this.

unfortunately, the way of God is beyond men comprehension. therefore I speak life, love, empathy, forgiveness, fruitfulness, and grace into the life of the OP. I also rebuke all the curse and evil predictions placed on the OP. Very soon you will look back and be glad your ex left you. you will be a source of joy to your parent, and community. leastly, i pray you find true love and blessed with multiple childreen.

Amin

Nothing is impossible for Allah to Correct. I know of many who aborted severally in the past and living happy life today, married and blessed with kids.

Miracle2020:
The blood of those children will never allow you to see peace. I pray that you will continue having heart break, nobody will ever marry you. May God never allow you to test the sweetness of marriage and may you never be pregnant again.

oladipupo2234:
You sound very bitter, wicked and inmature. i dont think you wish to see your enemy pass through this.

unfortunately, the way of God is beyond men comprehension. therefore I speak life, love, empathy, forgiveness, fruitfulness, and grace into the life of the OP. I also rebuke all the curse and evil predictions placed on the OP. Very soon you will look back and be glad your ex left you. you will be a source of joy to your parent, and community. leastly, i pray you find true love and blessed with multiple childreen.

Amin

Nothing is impossible for Allah to Correct. I know of many who aborted severally in the past and living happy life today, married and blessed with kids.

l wish you have been aborted.
Rubbish!!!

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Did he ask you to suffer with him You saw it coming. You girls be doing much long-suffering to be called virtuous. After school you want to start having babies so you will claim to have held up your dreams to see him realize his....tahhhhhhhhh!

Onyi22:

What do you know about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigerian guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

The same way your father and all your male relatives are useless ...and yet you will still look for a useless guy to cling on and b chopping his money ..ode!!!