A lot of people are seeing marriage has been overrated and some as seeing it as scams. Although people have different experiences, the truth is that foundation and origin of marriage need to be well understood before it can be enjoyed maximally.
The most authentic origin of marriage is God as seeing in the Bible. The following points are to be well noted from the pages of the scripture Gen. 1:26-28.
1.God saw the need - there must be a space or gap, right desire to be filled.
2.God brought Eve - remember God created man - male and female. Allow God to influence your choices in life including life-partner decision making.
3. God blessed them - relying on our skills, wisdom, strength and ability is not enough. We need God's grace and blessings.
In summary God factor in successful marriage cannot be ignored. Threefold cord is not easily broken. As husband or wife you must have allegiance to your selves and to God individually and collectively as a couple.
Some people tends to be lose their composure when the partner sinned or fall into one error or the other. Forgetting that the partner has not only sin against them but against God. If God does not kill people immediately they sin, why do they take laws into the hands to hurt the falling partner thereby committing other crimes. Always know that God punish law offenders in His own way that will be smarter and better than your way.
Love fades between people whether in marriage or out of marriage due to a lot of factors. It takes adherence to God's principles and values to make marriage work. If you life is threatening physically or emotionally in relationship or marriage you can separate from the partner but don't separate from God. At the end of the day, God will help you if you stay faithful to him. Romance and wealth does not keep marriage but alignment with God's principles does.

Marriage is all about sacrifice and trust, without these two the marriage will be doomed from the beginning.

Love is kinda secondary cos love fades with time and only true friendship keeps them going

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1. God saw the need - there must be a space or gap, right desire to be filled.

2.God brought Eve - remember God created man - male and female. Allow God to influence your choices in life including life-partner decision making.

3. God blessed them - relying on our skills, wisdom, strength and ability is not enough. We need God's grace and blessings.

■ In summary God factor in successful marriage cannot be ignored. Threefold cord is not easily broken. As husband or wife you must have allegiance to your selves and to God individually and collectively as a couple.

■Some people tends to be lose their composure when the partner sinned or fall into one error or the other. Forgetting that the partner has not only sin against them but against God. If God does not kill people immediately they sin, why do they take laws into the hands to hurt the falling partner thereby committing other crimes. Always know that God punish law offenders in His own way that will be smarter and better than your way.

■Love fades between people whether in marriage or out of marriage due to a lot of factors. It takes adherence to God's principles and values to make marriage work. If you life is threatening physically or emotionally in relationship or marriage you can separate from the partner but don't separate from God.

■At the end of the day, God will help you if you stay faithful to him. Romance and wealth does not keep marriage but alignment with God's principles does.

■ You forgot the most important wrapup to that fantastic tale about Adam and Eve whic is that after Adam and Eve rejected God's Original plan for them, God cursed marriage, childbearing, the handwork of man's hand and even man's life on the earth - Genesis 3 vs16 - 22

Yes, God cursed marriage with submission in Genesis 3 vs 16, nullifying any assumed blessings that came with the original design. What this means is your threefold cord does not exist in this world since God washed His hands off marriage since Genesis 3 vs 16 , and Jesus Christ reminded you of this in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36.

So, your successful marriage, as defined by man's standard is that, of the standards of men, and not of God. Rather, God allows marriage and provides divorce as an out from marriage for those that need it..

■ Unforgiveness is itself a sin against God as He is unable to forgive those who do not forgive others.

No man has authority given him by God to punish another man for sins committed against God..

■ God's principle indicates marriage as a choice available to those who wish it, and allows those who are married to seek divorce in the case the marriage is no longer conducive. Divorce is not a sin in the Gospel and those who seek it are not condemned by God in anyway for it.

■ God helps those who obey Him in achieving His Will , Jesus Christ , in their lives, whether single,married or divorced. His plan does not include keeping one in marriage this since marriage is of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - , but what God assures us instead is that those who stand faithful in obedience of His teachings(and commandments) till the end, regardless of marital earthly marital status, will be saved - Matthew 24 vs 13

If u don't have a way to take care of ur wife & kids..marriage would literally be hell for u..Forget what all these motivationAl people say..love & undersatnding won't solve dis issue....So b4 u jump into it, better make sure u can at least provide d basic necessities. Don't be d begger to ur friends & family. Or do one always looking for a relative to go on holiday sleepover with ur wife & kids.