THERE'S THIS GIRL I MET ON NAIRALAND ABOUT A YEAR AGO. WE STARTED A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WHICH WOULD BE GOING TO 10 MONTHS BY THE END OF AUGUST. ACTUALLY I DID EVERYTHING TO SATISFY HER AND SHE SEEMED RESPONSIBLE.

LAST WEEK SHE CAME TO MY HOUSE TO DROP A QUIT NOTICE THAT SHE WAS NO LONGER INTERESTED IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND BY THE WAY SHE WOULD SOON BE GETTING MARRIED TO A BANKER WHO IS READY TO TAKE CARE OF HER EDUCATION FROM BSC LEVEL TO PHD AND ALSO INVEST N100,000 PER MONTH FOR HER IN STOCKS.

PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL AND THE MONEY I OUGHT TO HAVE USED IN RUNNING MY MBA WAS USED IN PAYING HER SCHOOL FEES COS I REALLY LOVE HER.

WHAT SHOULD I DO, ?

hmmmmmmm, try 2 meet up then

o yicob, o ma seooooooooo. but seriously i think she didnt just meet the guy recently, but have been seen him under your nose. for her to have dumped you lke that it means that she has been planning it all this while but she has not had the time to tell u. all you have to do is see if you could talk some sense into her budt i she seem to have made up her mind about the banker, then yu better forget about her. by he way are you even ready for marriage if not she might be ready for it, so ont stop her

@chudy,
am even scared of talking to any girl now because it seems as if all of them are cheats!

@yicob
you dont need to be scared of anything my friend. just trust in yur instinct and be good at all times

yicob:

@chudy,
am even scared of talking to any girl now because it seems as if all of them are cheats!

is that y u ignored my post

she is not yours, period.

acidrop:

is that y u ignored my post

nope, why should i ignore the post of a girl that am still thinking of going out with:?

are you not afraid of acid.

lovemajek:

are you not afraid of acid.

though she's also a lady but i still respect her a lil bit!

be focused men, i dont really know who you are asking out?

yicob:

though she's also a lady but i still respect her a little bit!

a lil what happened to the rest

acidrop:

a little what happened to the rest

you will have to prove it when i ask you out.

yibob with his cock and bull story. dont take this guy serious at all!

haha, yeah nice one from iice

iice:

what a thread! BTW why do you guys always say, i did everything to satisfy her. . .did you ask her if she was satisfied or just went on presuming like ya'll always do

Word!

well, i think i did everything to satisfy her!

wat does everything imply? "just curious

@ poter

Sorry about that, real sad story.

But your question of what you should do should be a rhetorical one, because there's little you can do.

If at all she could consider leaving ypu in the frst place for sake of money, then u're better off without her. One thing u can't force is love, and if for nothing's sakes, she wakes up one morning to declare u guys are over and she's found someone else, then u just got to let her go and move on with your life.

Its going to be hard since you love her that much, but at the long run you'll find out it was the best thing you did for yourself. Any girl that needs you promising her heaven on éarth in terms of financial things before she'll stick with you aint a wifey material . . what happens if u guys continue dating and u do promise to do all those things but sometimes u don't have the money?? then she'll always be after the highest bidder . . u don't need that,u can do better dear If she doesnt think u worth more than the money, then she shouldnt be worth your love!!

true talk bro

iice:

what a thread! BTW why do you guys always say, i did everything to satisfy her. . .did you ask her if she was satisfied or just went on presuming like ya'll always do

Always my girl! Hit it real hard.

Mister lover, sorry but umm. . .it happens. Deal with it and trust me I don't pity you one bit. God knows how you dumped another for her

You satisfied her my cute bum!

If ure in lagos, try jumping in the lagoon, it should help,

Am thinking of sending her a gift with i still luv you card!

Don't you even think of sending her that gift.

She came out openly and told you she isn't doesn't love you any more. I know how you feel right now but I would advise you to forget about her.
Focus your attention on some other girl and I know that things would work out fine this time.

Good luck!

send her a card that says " You are a loser am the lover".

yicob:

Am thinking of sending her a gift with i still love you card!

I really hope she gives you her wedding invitation card in return

radiant, radiant, radiant, dem don ban you?

lmao. . .

Radiant is that you?

Yes, i believe.