iamoyindamola:

Sure he will get his help
I just don't like the blow up publicity
This life no balance sha last year mummy zee was praying and led her husband to goodies on x
This year this single mother that don't know her son school fees pushed her husband away and will probably lead him to goodies

If they can help the man pay off the balance of the bus' hire purchase and help him with some funds to rent a decent flat, then I believe he has a high chance of standing on his feet ASAP.

After reading the man's side of the story, I don't really blame the woman like that anymore; women will always be women. Na money I blame.

raumdeuter:


if its a condition both of them agreed to, then no wahala the man can even agree to change his name to his wife if he is satisfied with it

Anyway when Temi Otedola or Dangot daughter come marry me, Watch out for my change of name in center page of all newspaper

We no even know the surname Mr. Eazi is bearing now sef

GloriousGbola:

They're a literal minefield

iamoyindamola:

Sure he will get his help
I just don't like the blow up publicity
This life no balance sha last year mummy zee was praying and led her husband to goodies on x
This year this single mother that don't know her son school fees pushed her husband away and will probably lead him to goodies

And to think the man told him not to post on SM o...the JonDDoe guy no gree, say the matter don already dey public, and he'd post their conversations for the man's good, that SM people are already starting to support the man's wife.

Some of these influencers no go make heaven sha

BlueRayDick:


If they can help the man pay off the balance of the bus' hire purchase and help him with some funds to rent a decent flat, then I believe he has a high chance of standing on his feet ASAP.

After reading the man's side of the story, I don't really blame the woman like that anymore; women will always be women. Na money I blame.

Exactly
The early people should know women loyalty is money the better
I also like how the man takes responsibility for his actions

BlueRayDick:


I had to go through her profile and notice that number one she seem to be all these social media junky that likes social media pass any other thing.

I noticed she only post Herself and her kids; the husband is not always in the picture .

She most likely wishes for a life other than the one the man can give her/is giving her .

To be fair sha , sometimes men too change from what the woman expected to someone else . For example maybe u are an accountant by profession and ur wife likes how u dress and look cool in corporate . A man can decide to venture into selling goods like car battery, Okrika second hand clothes , etc just to increase his income as the family grows.

Such a man will not know he has stopped being the man of her dreams the moment he stopped being an accountant knotting tie and wearing nice suit.

I've heard someone say beware of the social media tycoon.

And every day I see this stuff I am like that nigga was on to something.

I think the mistake men make. You need a woman that's obsessed with you that's willing to go in the foxhole with you. That way it's easier to notice the energy shift than if you're not sure she was ever feeling you all along

The reason you're worried you will stop being the man of her dreams if you change from corporate to rugged is because you're not putting her on her toes.

Look at this guy and how scruffy he looks, you will never know he had that kind of wife or stays for that kin house. All him money she don chop am and now looks like a beached whale (with all due respect)

He never put performance pressure on the woman that's why she's almost thrice his size and has time to be forming single mom on Facebook. A real single mom is too busy trying to survive to even have time.

Single mom but na husband dey pay all bills. That narcissist was what pissed me off. I don't know any good woman that uses those words cos 95% of them apply it wrongly

Theflint1:
And to think the man told him not to post on SM o...the JonDDoe guy no gree, say the matter don already dey public, and he'd post their conversations for the man's good, that SM people are already starting to support the man's wife.

Some of these influencers no go make heaven sha

Man's wife bawo
Are they dull, person that's doesn't know school fees amount
Co-parenting indeed

A40:
I've heard someone say beware of the social media tycoon.

And every day I see this stuff I am like that nigga was on to something.

I think the mistake men make. You need a woman that's obsessed with you that's willing to go in the foxhole with you. That way it's easier to notice the energy shift than if you're not sure she was ever feeling you all along

The reason you're worried you will stop being the man of her dreams if you change from corporate to rugged is because you're not putting her on her toes.

Look at this guy and how scruffy he looks, you will never know he had that kind of wife or stays for that kin house. All him money she don chop am and now looks like a beached whale (with all due respect)

He never put performance pressure on the woman that's why she's almost thrice his size and has time to be forming single mom on Facebook. A real single mom is too busy trying to survive to even have time.

Single mom but na husband dey pay all bills. That narcissist was what pissed me off. I don't know any good woman that uses those words cos 95% of them apply it wrongly

Bros these new generation women will grow out of love once they can't find anything useful with you again no matter how obsessed she was before
Once you lose value opari

BlueRayDick:


The bolded is my issue.

If they don't want to get married it is all fine and good. Being a baby mama or single mother is not a crime and to an extent no longer a big deal in the society.

So it is better to just have a child outside wedlock, call him by whatever name & surname and u will be fine. But entering into marriage and then start giving conditions like refusing to bear ur husband's name is just crazy

This is what I always say. Me I'm not hung up on a woman bearing my last name I just won't legally marry someone who's with that mindset.

Like Raumdeuter said I can make exception for Dangote or Otedola pikin. Not normal civilian

The way I see it. I'm responsible to you for the rest of your life. Long after your father is gone. So making that lifetime commitment. It's foolishness to commit seriously to someone who won't even do you that courtesy

iamoyindamola:

Man's wife bawo
Are they dull, person that's doesn't know school fees amount
Co-parenting indeed

Yea, nobody bin dey support the wife, at best they were saying you don't know what's going on, but baba post that lamba to justify posting their DMs regardless of the man wishes.

iamoyindamola:

Bros these new generation women will grow out of love once they can't find anything useful with you again no matter how obsessed she was before
Once you lose value opari

See that's the problem. Guys are not applying performance pressure on them as well.

Most men nowadays are so emotional more emotional than babes. Just look at that nigga Jonathan Majors and how he was boohoo crying like small pikin for stage

While striving to always be useful you sef demand use from the woman. One thing I know about babes. They hold on tight to anything them don invest on top. A lot of guys are with women that aside from puna they can't really point to any other thing she's added to their lives

When you end up with woman that hasn't brought anything to your table e no go hard for you to lose value to am. Takers don't have limits that's why givers must set em

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BlueRayDick:

The guy's mum is probably a Yoruba and his father Igbo.
It's just like how the Adelekes have been marrying Igbos

alright

CrystalTiger:
God should keep BAT alive till 2027 because this Shettimma might actually be who people say he is..

Wetin be this
These guys are not in touch with reality of what Nigerians are going through

CrystalTiger:
God should keep BAT alive till 2027 because this Shettimma might actually be who people say he is..

2027? Abeg make God keep BAT alive forever just incase. I nor trust am, this Shettima dey move like the undead