LutherSanchez:
Not all men,only broke men.

begoniaa:


Look here, I have been pretty chill and civil with you so had better respect that and let's keep it that way. Later you will talk about having sense and how Naija women are dumb. You ran away from EVERY ARGUMENTS we threw at you, but you want to jump on a troll insults to me and fight personal? And you're supposedly logical? You don't have shame? You no get the chutzpah to sensibly thrash all my points as a woman, but you think you have found an easy entry into me by latching onto my response to a troll?

I will not tell you this again. Choose to be unfortunate by giving a trollish response to me once more...

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

Datboredberri:
The second most stupid comment...

Fish out single mothers...

How does this even make any sense? You're the one who spent years fu** ing anything with a hole... If contraceptives didn't exist, you would be father Abraham... And you think you're in the position to judge?

You want a help mate... Should have thought of that before making yourself a community di**...

I fu**ing hate people like you... If you were smart, women would think you were worth sh** but they don't... Tells a lot...

begoniaa:


Point of correction... he's still looking for a meaningful relationship at this point. So the fact that he cannot find a suitable woman for the relationship he desires does not mean he can't find a woman? He's meeting women rather, but none want what he wants, so yeah, he *CAN'T* find one...

Men are scarce? But this OP is not; you are looking for a wife; Posty56 is available and plenty other guys on this thread are looking for a relationship. It is men that are creating heartbroken threads on NL bemoaning their lots at the hands of women... women that are supposed to be dragging for them.

Me? No I don't have a man, would you like to be the one?



But your idiotic tomfoolu of a friend, NeckingNgulping, said he wants to send me on a wild goose chase of looking for a man to marry. He said I will keep running around in circles looking for a husband with my bad character to no avail, but here you are saying I will get married to whoever is available.

Abi una no go like reach a consensus? Which one? I go marry abi I no go marry?

If I go marry last, last, as a whoře or not, and that marriage will ultimately be beneficial to me, then keep your fking opinions to yourself about my marital life, dears. You cannot shame me into a good thing, so why are you running around like a headless chicken trying to denigrate the same marriage to me?

Y'all have opted out of getting married, so it 200% certain I will not be marrying either of you or anyone on this thread for that matter, yet you are still having palpitations about my prospect of getting married. No be juju be that?

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

cayorday89:

Maybe you should put it as only broke men who understand economic consequences and who truly cares about their offspring not suffering because so many men abound who are broke and in their early twenties who are married, and also lots of young married rich and averagely okay men abound also who are married and those who are not, it's a matter of choice and circumstances.

The OP's case is supposed to be tackled but no, the topic will always be diverted to debate endless controversy between men and women.

begoniaa:

begoniaa:


Posty56, you no go like rest? You dey for the other thread, bothering about your genotype and your chances of getting a partner yet you are here trying to...? You too you are not ashamed. I pursue you comot for thread, tail in-between your legs, and you're left to a mess of responding to other guys' responses to me, repeating a weak "feminists are yen yen yen" line like a broken record. Mtcheeeewww.

Justnow2022:


You dey mind these feminists.

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

Tinity123:

Am passing through hell just to get a true love �

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

LadymissiIe:
hi Magnoliaa.
let's continue from where we stopped
i missed you

begoniaa:


Pick one na... if you want to marry 20 women at the age of 60, bro, you gotta have the dough and characteristics of a Ned and Elon.

No be you tok say you go do am like Ned now? So you just want to marry anyhow without attaining the accompanying financial status? Must be ment.

sniperr007:


Change your search environment.

Plus increase the age of girls you woo. To late 20s or early 30s.

nijaomegacode:
You talk too much. And I didn't mean that in a good way.

Justnow2022:
You lie. Go to the villages, go to the north, those old men marring younger girls are no where near being rich.

You can deceive yourself as much as you like, but you know the truth. And that is, a man and women don’t have the same biological clock.

A man can marry anytime he likes, a woman can’t. A man has far more choices anyday, a woman only has choices when she’s very young.

yemmit90:


These days that women are looking for husbands up and down?

Maybe something is missing in your life that you need to fix first. Women no matter the age and level love to marry a man who is comfortable with his life, especially the ones they know can give them and their children good life. If they notice you don't have this,they will leave moment you want to get serious.

Besides,you can go for 25yrs and above women, this group understands life better than younger ones.

Nyascobar1414:


Its amazes me how grown up men will still be acting like they are kids..

Love doesn't exist..
Unconditional love doesn't exist..

No human(woman) can love you so dearly apart from your own mom..
Only God can love you unconditionally..
Quite this mentality of seeking for true love you will never see...

Stay real and leave the fantasy world.

begoniaa:


Are you referring to persephone? Why? They are not even mutually exclusive na. The same way men shame women yet love big yanshes and boobs is the same way we can drip for fine men, yet not give a fk about them... na just aesthetics and physical qualities, maidear. Nothing is there.

Hacks4dummies:
wtf are you even saying? wasn't referring to Persephone....duh! She's definitely not a kid. It's the other one on the very first page of this thread.

begoniaa:


Okay, and? Person no fit like fine men and still judge a man or his character?

KristaPretty:
The world is changing. Most people don't want to get married or entangled now

I suggest you join groups in the church volunteer groups as well where you can meet more responsible people I guess

Justnow2022:


That’s the mistake simps make. There’s nothing like love. A woman will only show you love if you can provide her security.

Any day you stop “being a man” as they always tag it, you will understand there’s nothing like love.

KristaPretty:
The world is changing. Most people don't want to get married or entangled now

I suggest you join groups in the church volunteer groups as well where you can meet more responsible people I guess

begoniaa:


Okay, and? Person no fit like fine men and still judge a man or his character?