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Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by sparta(f): 12:13pm On Aug 14, 2007
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Nobody: 7:41pm On Aug 15, 2007
Why are u now hatin on guyz jus cuz we luv sex, u shud stop hatin nd chill 4 sum1 who shares ur policy.

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Nobody: 12:40pm On Aug 16, 2007
dear,u dont have to.hate men,its their nature, It takes only a man thats disciplined to keep to ur own priciples and most times we men believe that every relationship should go along wih everything and so they tend to exhibit that animalistic attitude when together.
U can holla back at me lets talk ok on xjovial@yahoo.com
cheers
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Youngpo413: 1:02pm On Apr 20, 2020
I'm sure guys don fùck you tire by now.
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Easybela(f): 1:05pm On Apr 20, 2020
Many men are like that, once you agree to date them,you automatically starts playing "wife" role in their lives. I beg you to remain the way you are,don't break your rule because you want to please one unserious guy that will dump you as soon as he get what he wants. Keeping my virginity is the reason I don't have an ex and unnecessary drama that comes with heartbreaks. Am happy the owner came and paid a price for it.



But,there is something I did then that can help you,Never you demand or request any financial help from them,asking for helps,gives room for them to demand sex,I remember returning money and airtime back to my fiancé anytime he "willingly "gifts me one,it doesn't usually go down well with him though but I was determined to achieve my aim. Tell them to keep their money while you keep your body.

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Nobody: 1:05pm On Apr 20, 2020
grin
Youngpo413:
I'm sure guys don fùck you tire by now.
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Tozic: 1:06pm On Apr 20, 2020
sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
grin
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Oluromantic: 1:08pm On Apr 20, 2020
Lol there are a lot embedded in marriage than just being a virgin. It's risky and stressful to go on a lifetime with someone with zero experience in anything about marriage.

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by MiVida(m): 1:12pm On Apr 20, 2020
sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
So if I buy goods or show a seller that I seriously want to buy, you think he won't let me test it even before leaving his shop to my home?


Virgin indeed and you'll be shooking fingers there when showering. Mtsweeeew
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by xcabczyxabczzzz: 1:12pm On Apr 20, 2020
The world doesn't revolve around you, continue dey hate.

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Auwalsada: 1:15pm On Apr 20, 2020
Good luck
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Riele(f): 1:16pm On Apr 20, 2020
Welcome to the Club grin .

You sure won't regret it

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by BornToSucced(m): 1:23pm On Apr 20, 2020
Riele:
Welcome to the Club grin .

You sure won't regret it

Could I please pm you for something?
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Adebayo442(m): 1:25pm On Apr 20, 2020
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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Riele(f): 1:27pm On Apr 20, 2020
BornToSucced:


Could I please pm you for something?

No . smiley

Say that something here cool

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by BornToSucced(m): 1:42pm On Apr 20, 2020
Riele:


No . smiley

Say that something here cool

It’s confidential!
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by moyosore32: 1:44pm On Apr 20, 2020
lemme nor lie, dating u as a v lik u claim is pure waste of time to me cos me I dread virgins ehn, I can never ever f**k a virgin gal, bn virgin is no big deal to me, just comport and be supportive that's enuf for me
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Riele(f): 1:44pm On Apr 20, 2020
BornToSucced:


It’s confidential!

If it's on your recent thread then I jump and pass
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by BornToSucced(m): 1:45pm On Apr 20, 2020
Riele:


If it's on your recent thread then I jump and pass

Lol........it has nothing to do with that.
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Riele(f): 1:47pm On Apr 20, 2020
BornToSucced:


Lol........it has nothing to do with that.

Ok . You can
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Muzikluva(m): 1:49pm On Apr 20, 2020
sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
Hi Sparta. Sorry to hear that you feel this way. Most guys always want sex in a relationship. However, not all guys are like that. Just hold on to your celibacy till marriage. You will definitely meet someone who can wait for you. I have been in relationships without sex and I didn't cheat either. Everything doesn't revolve around sex. There is more to life than sex. Do not change your resolve because you want to please a man with sex only if you are ready to. Stay strong.
Modified :
Oh lol! This post is soooo old! Sparta please let us know how it eventually turned out grin

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by BornToSucced(m): 1:51pm On Apr 20, 2020
Riele:


Ok . You can

Okay!
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by 2dice01: 2:00pm On Apr 20, 2020
2007 - 2020
I hope you are married now
Say hi to Junior(s)
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by 21cents: 3:35pm On Apr 20, 2020
my math tells me you're now 39. I presume you're now married with kids.
so, how is life so far ma'am? was the hate worth it?

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Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by mimimile93: 3:43pm On Apr 20, 2020
sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
Be a lez and that settles it
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by BornToSucced(m): 4:06pm On Apr 20, 2020
Riele:


Ok . You can
Sent
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Liliantalks: 4:16pm On Apr 20, 2020
sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
U have no reason to hate on
Men !!! Me for example I almost hate them
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Nobody: 4:54pm On Apr 20, 2020
If u like hate men, a lot of women love dem out dere grin.
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 20, 2020
Liliantalks:
U have no reason to hate on
Men !!! Me for example I almost hate them
u dat iz waitin for someone to feed u before the pesin matters to u, so u can't feed yur self undecided
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by Oluromantic: 1:46am On Apr 22, 2020
sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
internationalman:
All i know is Not testing your package before buying it is risky for men....

I meant buying from jumia
Re: Help, Am Beginning To Hate Men by czarr(m): 7:06am On Apr 22, 2020
sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.
You are not being fair to the guys....and i will explain.

Can you accept the following conditions,then i will know you are fair.

*he would not kiss you or hug you till marriage

*he would only call you once or twice a month

*he would not complement you till marriage

*he would not ask you to visit him till marriage

*he would not buy you gifts till marriage

*he will not take you out till marriage

*you can only see him twice a month 1 hour each day

The thing is men have a drive for sex,and women have a drive to recieve care and attention and if you not prepared to have sex with him....he should not give you the attention,care and validation you crave for.....if he does that he is getting the short end of the stick.

Men should not be made to feel like bad people or perverts for wanting sex as they were biologically designed to do.

All is fair in love and war.

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