please i need help,i never dated a girl in my life because am shy and afraid of hearing NO pls somebody help.

How old are you?

Completely useless thread with no relevant information whatsoever, sheee-it!!!

^^^Seconded! Shittttzzz!

@OP,
Why are you shy? don't you know that rejection makes you stronger?

@poster you can never hear 'yes' all thru your life. being rejected is not a big deal anymore

by the way how old are you?

;d ;d

You need to take risks else you will have to become a monk.

please i need help,i never dated a girl in my life because am shy and afraid of hearing NO pls somebody help.

Just be yourself dude, women can spot fakers a mile away and they appreciate men who aren't afraid to be themselves and who are confident and comfortable in their own skin. If you like a girl, just talk to her and make her laugh (women love that). Women are just people like us men, nothing to be afraid of. They have the same feelings and insecurities that we do. And if a woman turns you down if you try to get intimate with her, so what? It's not the end of the world, there are plenty more fish in the sea. I am 63 years old, and I still get turned down every once in a while. But do you think that stops me from pursuing (and getting) other women? HELL NO! So get out there and have some fun, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Mynd_44:

You need to take risks else you will have to  become a monk

lmaoooooooooooooooooooo

okey777:

please i need help,i never dated a girl[b] in my life[/b] because am shy and afraid of hearing NO pls somebody help.

your life over yet?
if you're under 20, face your books,
if you're much much older, then we have a problem.

start 2 dey practice abi u what mak dem help u follow ur future wife talk 4 u

okey777:

please i need help,i never dated a girl in my life because am shy and afraid of hearing NO pls somebody help.

since when did it become a rule that u must date a girl., na wa.

Jack-Potts:

Just be yourself dude, women can spot fakers a mile away and they appreciate men who aren't afraid to be themselves and who are confident and comfortable in their own skin. If you like a girl, just talk to her and make her laugh (women love that). Women are just people like us men, nothing to be afraid of. They have the same feelings and insecurities that we do. And if a woman turns you down if you try to get intimate with her, so what? It's not the end of the world, there are plenty more fish in the sea. I am 63 years old, and I still get turned down every once in a while. But do you think that stops me from pursuing (and getting) other women? HELL NO! So get out there and have some fun, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

lwkmd!

If you of age, there is nothing to be shy about
U make matters worse if u dont give a try. .

very funny, how old are you? i guess you are 16 pr 17

go to dating section and post a nice photo even if its not you in it.

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He should start YAHOO YAHOO or YAHOO PLUS. I am sure chicks will start pursuring him all over town

OP 190 just dumped you? Sorry bro have you tried Mr. Cork or MOBO444

I hate nairalander, this guy needs help and not insult, if you guys dont have anything good to say, keep shut, its not a must u post on any thread.

@ poster

1. First of all u have to make up ur mind, that there are two things to life either positive or negative. Its either she says yes or no

2. If u must approach a lady make her ur friend first

3. Learn tips from your friends

4. Hang out with female friends to understand how they feel and how they think

The list goes on , but i think u have to believe in your self

@ OP,

Do you have a penis? Or at least any dangling protrusion around your groin area? This information would help peeps find a solution for your predicament.

@EKEL101, go skydive without a parachute

Jack-Potts:

. . . I am 63 years old, and I still get turned down every once in a while. . .

Grand Pa, when are you going to leave all this small chick for your baby?

@Poster, no need feeling too bad with yourself. just take life easy. I'll say we're kinda similar. I'm 25 and i've never been in a relationship before (though i'm working on that now). Never ventured into one because i felt i wasn't ready to handle it. relationships require maturity (mentally, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and off course, financially!). many pple don't allow themselves mature b4 jumping in and out of relationships.

Check yourself and see if you are really ready to handle a relationship, or u just want to enter one because you are tired of pple calling you names (i've been there several times). when u r truly ready, your mind and body will tell u. The most important thing is to make the gal your friend first, then you'll know if you're compatible or not. The rest will flow quite easily

What of a guy?

ARareGem:

lwkmd!

@ topic: so. . .have you tasted the rainbow? i aint talkin skittles my friend. 

It is not a must. Face your books. It is better. If you are of age,then pray to God for his will concerning your life. For the fact that,everybody is doing it,it does not make it right. Be different. It is difficult to sing solo. It is hard to stand alone. God bless you. God2man.

Just give your life to the Lord son. . . dating is not meant for everyone.

rokiatu:

Just give your life to the Lord son. . . dating is not meant for everyone.

did you just brk up wit ur guy, cos i dnt undastnd why u said this

@POSTER, have you ever bleeped a pussy, ?if no.

Start attending brothels and see how women and pussy are cheap and from their you will build confidence that most women are naughty but pocket count and restore most confidence

mashnino:

did you just brk up wit your guy, cos i dnt undastnd why u said this

LOL

Dating is not meant for everyone like I said.

rokiatu:

LOL

Dating is not meant for everyone like I said.

ehn i know but it was absurd knowin dat u tellin sum1 to move closer to GOD