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Re: God Failed Me by Kobojunkie: 8:13pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Rechargeam247:You can pray until you are at the point of death, if you don't do as God commands, He will not move a muscle for you. He is God, He does not change or bend His Way/Law for any man. Obedience is the mandate, and it is of all of His every commandment and teaching if you wish to enjoy that which He promised in return. No way around that. All your pastors and mogs who pillage and destroy you with lies using the name of God do so knowing that they cannot move God by their lies but they can instead deceive gullible men in order to get their temporary desires met here on earth. |
Re: God Failed Me by Kobojunkie: 8:21pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Nekky5:God has always given man only one choice since the very beginning, and that has always been "trust and obey" or go it alone. Well, I don't have to explain how the world is filled to the brim instead with many who claim to believe in God yet refuse to do as God commands. By the way, how does she go about staying away for some time from a man she lives with in a self-contained? |
Re: God Failed Me by Klass99(f): 8:28pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
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Re: God Failed Me by Klass99(f): 8:35pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
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Re: God Failed Me by DontBullshitMe: 8:49pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Paragraphs!!!!!! Paragraphs!!!!!! |
Re: God Failed Me by Sirqt5(m): 9:05pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
God didn't fail u . u saw signs early on , proceeded to marry him . did God tell u get pregnant for him too after marriage ? u were seeing all signs say dis man go kill me before my time . a smart woman go plan her escape before pregnancy. no blame God for ur poor decisions 1 Like |
Re: God Failed Me by Kelechi009: 9:08pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
missimelda01: got to know this things by plain accident after having lived with him for a few months. I still cannot understand how he cleverly hid this part of himself from me for so long. On the outside, he seems like a gentle man, always dresses in native wears so how come? This is how she judges that he his a calm & God fearing man. Kaftan & nice native wears Let us go and sow some natives this weekend, I am about to meet some new Wife materials 1 Like |
Re: God Failed Me by folake4u(f): 9:24pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
PrayerMasterKey: Preach!!!!!!!!!!!!! Na why I wan marry Virgin boy from village oh. 2 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by Acidosis(m): 9:32pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Did you ever meet his parents, siblings? This is one of the reasons the African culture emphasizes the role of the family. It is not enough to meet a guy and jump into his house. His parents are the real deal. You can literally see through or know your partner by spending some time with his parents/siblings. Evaluate the relationship between your spouse and his/her family. Nothing works better and faster. Anybody can wake up any day and claim anything but it's harder for 3 or more people to play a fake script. Moving forward, I'll advise you to begin to process your separation. Do not listen to your parents. Remember Osinachi? 1 Like |
Re: God Failed Me by pocohantas(f): 9:50pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
PrayerMasterKey: God abeg o!!! 3 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by pocohantas(f): 9:58pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Klass99: I don’t know why some usernames came to mind as I read that post. 3 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by Klass99(f): 10:00pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
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Re: God Failed Me by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:15pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
pocohantas:..... Continue dey look for wahala until person go send you E slap. |
Re: God Failed Me by pocohantas(f): 11:15pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Klass99: JONNYSPUTE: See as two of you are attacking me. I am traumatized. 2 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
sirp9898: A f**l has spoken How the hell can someone control another human's behavior? In a Godly way for that matter? What stupid nonsense must she pass through? What stupid destination is that? Awon "women must be the one to endure marriage by force" crew I see you See the nonsense excuse you are saying to justify the horseband's foolish life, which nonsense secret did Op tell you she has? How do you know she's keeping things from the foolish man? So many damaged men from dysfunctional families projecting their terrible background on others, like it's a norm, they are soo many on these nl streets 3 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by Kobojunkie: 12:40am On Jul 30, 2022 |
Acidosis:Really? None of the yahoo yahoo folks in Nigeria have their parents rooting and covering for them? |
Re: God Failed Me by UptownVibes(m): 1:58am On Jul 30, 2022 |
I don't think God failed you.. You failed yourself, for not doing proper investigation about the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with. If you guys date for atleast two years and you visit him at his base,I don't think he would have been able to hide those things.. Its all your fault.. Since he is hitting you already, better plan to be independent o... So that you can take care of your child when you give birth. Marriage no be one day something. So its very important to do proper investigation and date for atleast two three years,before concluding. I once dated a girl who was all good for over two and a half years.. It was during the third year that I discovered that the bastard was a pretender. Imagine I rushed into marrying her. By now maybe I for dey hell fire, all in the name of marriage.. Its well sha.. Trying praying for him to change. Its possible ,although very hard.. |
Re: God Failed Me by Kobojunkie: 2:01am On Jul 30, 2022 |
UptownVibes:Why didn't you pray for the bastard girl you dated to change instead? Wetin you no fit do, you dey here dey tell another person make im do? 2 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by Acidosis(m): 2:15am On Jul 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: It's a better (not a perfect) approach. |
Re: God Failed Me by ImaIma1(f): 3:19am On Jul 30, 2022 |
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Re: God Failed Me by ImaIma1(f): 3:21am On Jul 30, 2022 |
pocohantas: Care to share? 1 Like |
Re: God Failed Me by Lighthouse50: 3:44am On Jul 30, 2022 |
Why blame GOD Over your mistake? First, as an elder its wrong to hear a one-sided story and give judgement, only wicked elders does that. Secondly, i think you are not sure of your allegations against him. A drug peddler and yahno bny dn have money. Probably he is married elsewhere and spends money there and just usimg that place to hide identity OR HE MIGHT JUST BE LEARNING YAHOO TO BETTER HIS LIFE. Lastly you got married by association and must dissolve by association. Since he did marriage so you should know his people and knnw someone you cam confide in.. |
Re: God Failed Me by cayorday89(m): 4:12am On Jul 30, 2022 |
Advice21, I've gone through few comments and I won't condemn you especially those who say you did not seek the face of God before going into it, you are already in it and you have to be strong willed without letting the blackmail of people most especially your parents make you to continue on that marriage, try your best to leave. That side chick might be a part of the plan to make you stay, she has her own baggage if not why will she be a sidekick to a married man even if she was deceived, what has she got to do with your going or staying, and forget the cult guys he has either you stay or leave you are damned, but you can leave and not be damned when you take the right steps. |
Re: God Failed Me by cayorday89(m): 4:21am On Jul 30, 2022 |
UptownVibes: Those pretenders are the worst set of people, it will be doing you like film but na reality say you don engage bad person. But that your last line, for how long will she pray and suffer for nothing, only to die praying for a druggie who never had her interest at heart. |
Re: God Failed Me by Klass99(f): 4:21am On Jul 30, 2022 |
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Re: God Failed Me by ibechris(m): 4:30am On Jul 30, 2022 |
We young men and women are not doing the right thing,u can't meet a man in town and just accept to marry him without doing the following: God didn't fail u my dear sister,but u and your family failed. When it comes to marriage,the onus lies in your hand to do a findings about this guy's family,where he hails from,their family history,what he does for a living. If u didn't do all those things forget it...u failed yourself seriously. I met my wife in Abuja but still, I and my family had to travel to the east to do a search on my wife,her family and their background. If u don't do these things and u found a strange character in who u just married,u are on your own. Conversely, wife and her mum travelled to my village and did a background checks on me,my family and our history but at the end we ended up getting married. In summary,there are things u need to do for yourself,even prayers without work can't be effective as,u can't be praying to God for jobs while u are at home lazying about. |
Re: God Failed Me by cayorday89(m): 4:34am On Jul 30, 2022 |
Klass99:Even me as man, there is a limit I can take to the dealings of a woman who might possibly not be able to beat me, with my experience in life, if I have tried every means of settling amicably and we are not getting to understand one another over a certain period of time, divorce is the surest way out oooo, I can't kill myself while alive just because I want to remain married. @Advice21, if you are resident in Lagos listen to Naija info 99.3fm today at 7am to 9am, issues like yours will be discussed on that program and make do of whatever advice you get. You can even call on to table your matter and get help on how to go about the divorce process. 1 Like |
Re: God Failed Me by Klass99(f): 4:46am On Jul 30, 2022 |
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Re: God Failed Me by cayorday89(m): 4:51am On Jul 30, 2022 |
Drfernandez: I can see this is nothing but sarcasm, and can only hope the OP sees it as what it is which is SARCASM. 2 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by cayorday89(m): 5:01am On Jul 30, 2022 |
Klass99:Yeah, I do and I don't miss it for anything ever since I stumbled on it last year, it has really shaped my mindset about relationships. Truly many people are deceived into marriage and sadly enough parents are an enabler, they just want to compete with their mates and be called grandparents. The last week woman who came to the studio got me teary at a point especially with all those miscarriages. Your last paragraph, that is my reality, Abi how can you explain that my parents chased girls and ladies away from me that they don't want to see me with them only to be asking me for a wife now if it is not for their selfish interest in both instances, the first they have the most decent son who they can handle and the second they want to be grandparents like their mates even if I am not capable financially. 2 Likes |
Re: God Failed Me by Nobody: 5:27am On Jul 30, 2022 |
God never fails; neither does He mislead. If anything, you failed to seek His face diligently or heed His warnings before proceeding with the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: God Failed Me by Klass99(f): 5:54am On Jul 30, 2022 |
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