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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 7:37pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Yeyeoldman: Life or no life. You can’t delegate such responsibility. No sane person will accept it. But if you will, go and adopt the child. Bastard! 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 7:42pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
gsparks01: Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Sassy256(f): 7:44pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:I will tell you this, right now is not the time to divorce. Since you are pregnant, give him space, go to your people and stay till you give birth, by then your head will be clearer to make a better decision. Both your husband and your mother-in-law are mean to not have told you and then expect you to carry such burden. Take a break till you give birth, then make your decision. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by obiyor2000: 7:47pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Unfortunately all my sister's are happy married. And won't leave their marriages no matter the pressure |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Simple99: 7:48pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
/No time waste. But will you return if your husband takes the girl to somewhere else?[quote author=H0711 post=115257068] I have already left. I am a hard working woman I will work hard to take care of my son and I will never hate him because he is the best thing that ever happened to me. [] |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Simple99: 7:51pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Good advice Sassy256: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by onegig(m): 7:53pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Sterope: You have time to be answering that person. Maybe reverse the situation and let's see how many of all those typing rubbish would say the same thing. Even a normal kid is enough responsibility. You have to sacrifice your personal life till they are old enough let alone a child with special needs that needs 247 care. I would not wish even my enemy such. Those who take care of those kids get paid for it. So it's a reward based system for them asides whatever passion they have helping such kids. To heap the responsibility of such on someone who was lied to, doesn't have passion for such, isn't paid and doesn't even have the required skills is wicked and absurd. She should have left earlier. @op. ho711 If you need transport fare back home. I would glady pay it. Don't let any single person guilt trip you into believing you are a bad person. Infact you are an extremely good person. To have stayed for two weeks is more than considerate. You would be doing that kid and your own kid a lot of good by leaving. At least that would push the father to do the right thing and find the necessary care the poor child needs and gives you room to also concentrate on your own child and nuture it. Surround yourself with supportive family members and God grant you safe delivery. He can always have access to visitations and play the fatherly role. You are not taking away his kid. You are doing what is best for you, your child and his daughter. 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 7:55pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Sassy256: Thank you |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 7:55pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
obiyor2000: Good for them |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 7:58pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
onegig: Thank you so much . My elder sister will send me the tp money tommorow. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Eaglesence: 8:01pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Mindlog: Hummm who bring this kind agbado come table na? If she was healthy now, they will both fight tooth and nail to keep her. Her mum shod stoll take her while her father fend for her financially. Its both of their responsibility (pls is my grammer correct?) na im make i no dey talk to mush oo |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by frozen70(f): 8:06pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
[quote author=tempest2019 post=115255605][/quote] I hope she does my dear |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 8:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
obiyor2000: It’s sad your family doesn’t provide a safe space for your sisters. May God be with them. They have no place to run to if shit happens. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 8:12pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
onegig: Gbam. Nothing to add. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 8:15pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:My worry doesn't lie with the OP or the man but instead, the disabled child, whom OP feels will be helped by her returning the man's bride price. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 8:15pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Eaglesence: No. This most likely won’t work. Didn’t you see people asking OP to stay because it is significantly more difficult to remarry as a single mother? Now who will marry a single mother with a 7year old child with cerebral palsy( who will soon enter teenage hood)? Who?will you? The father should care for her while the mother provides financial support. Alternatively, the father can care for her for 7years then return her to her mother who will in turn care for her for another 7years and return her. You people can not continue to dump special children on their mothers while the fathers go about life like they don’t have special needs children. Everyone has to chip in. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Evaloyal2J(f): 8:29pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Don't mind any hypocrite telling you to eat the shiit. Turn the table around and ask yourself if your husband would take it if you were in his shoes, they detest to father another man's child not to talk of this mischief. For bette for worse killl them mischief makers there. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kingkum: 8:30pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
@H0711 Can we chat privately? i want to propose something to you. or should i said anything i want here? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 8:33pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Evaloyal2J: I love this energy 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Joans2: 8:41pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
With all due respect ma I won't advice you to still stay in that marriage , don't start what you can't finish now it's still early I'll advice you to leave if he really loved you he would have told you about his child before the marriage , don't forget you are pregnant and don't need stress by the time you give birth you will no to take care of your child, please ma it's not too late to leave ,someone who would love you and be sincere with you will surely come for you . And for your husband not to tell you about the child how sure are you he is not hiding other things from you now he's telling you he'll take the child to a caregiver home when he can financially support it so when will he do that time is running out and you are too young to go through all these stress please leave the marriage The ball is in your court it's up to you to decide but remember whatever decision you make now will affect you in the future If you decide to stay sorry for you , because one you are not sure if he'll do as he said and who knows if there are other things he hasn't told you But if you decide to leave good i leave the rest for you 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:46pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
IJOBA11:emotional trauma.. then again, if u know..u know |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:48pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Inali:Yeah, u are not worth my time It's unfortunate u can't express urself without being cordial and no insults..smh |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:48pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Inali:Yeah, u are not worth my time It's unfortunate u can't express urself without being cordial and no insults..smh
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by IJOBA11: 8:49pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:THE EARLIER YOU SLAY QUEENS GET USED TO POLYGAMY THE BETTER FOR YALL. POLYGAMY IS A GOD-GIVEN RIGHT TO EVERY MAN, IF YOU NOR LIKE AM GO PRACTICE POLYANDRY |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:51pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino: It's so unfortunate that u can't give ur own opinion without being insulting...it's really sick and disappointing..u can change, u can do better..learn to respect other people's opinion
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:52pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
IJOBA11: We are not fighting and you are matured so behave like one and don't write in capital letter |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:53pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
afadi2410: What do u tink Nigerians are doing abroad? Many Nigerians will do it as far as u take care of them 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kwasoly(m): 8:54pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
dawnomike: Any marriage built on deceit, divorce is a valid reason to end it. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 8:54pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil: I don’t want to change. If I kept quiet , people like you would have made her doubt her self and guilt trip her into accepting a child that isn’t her responsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kawuu21: 8:55pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
If she's in Lagos, Lagos state government has a home for kids with special needs but you'll have to visit often and provide allowance for upkeep. You can't just go and dump the child there. Richy4: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kingkum: 8:55pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
@H0711 I am still advising you not to leave your marriage unless there is another thing you are not telling us. i wish i can have your husband contact to tell him the following options. 1. he should send that baby to his ancestors. 2. he should hire an individual to care for the baby. 3. he should beg the mother of the girl to take her back with a promise of sending money always as agreed between them. i repeat, don't leave your marriage if you think you have a future with your husband. pregnant women don't use to think straight and your thoughts might be influenced by your pregnancy to take a quick decision that you may regret later. this is where i intend to come in, i can take care of the child in your house till you give birth(with condition though) and if after birth you still want to go, then you should divorce and leave in peace. i should have say more but answer this questions first before i continue 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:55pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Advancedman: Oh pls, everyone can fast ..it's d effort that counts with GOD even if it's still 12 or 3pm the child needs all d help she can get spiritually |
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