The guy in question really goofed for not knowing when and where to draw the line.
A women went out of her way to love you and you felt destroying her marriage and reducing her to nothing for vengeance for dumping your ass is the way forward.
Thank God her husband understood and thread with caution by allowing the voice of reason to prevail.
The boy's action validates everything the mom said about him.
He's lazy, vindictive, and a trouble to himself.
Ladies in the house seeking love outside their matrimony as a result of Ill treatment meted out on them by their spouse should always explore all options of internal mechanism of dispute resolution before exploring external options. Always have a talk with your husband's family members and those outside the family circle he holds in high esteem on the issues you are facing at home.
Always make sure healthy communication and dialogue are not lacking in your marriage.
Allot of issue are averted where there are healthy communication in marriages. By all means, assumptions should not be a thing to take into consideration in dispute resolution and peace building...
Above all, let God always guide and your steps, thoughts, words and actions...
Where it seems you have no one to talk to, make God your talk mate.
Always go to God in times of trouble as this and any other one for that matter...

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am telling you what I have seen. While you may say 99% of men won't take back cheating women, I am also here to tell you that some men do. If you haven't heard or seen it doesn't mean it's not a given.

And it has nothing to do with the bulleted aforementioned points above. If women can take back cheating men, I mean, why can't men do the same?

I am not doubting you that some Nigerian men do take back cheating wife, but I am telling you that its very rare and almost impossible.



The few that does may have hidden reason beyond ordinary that made them take her back cos Nigerian men that I know are not that emotionally strong or mature or evolved to accept a cheating wife back.


Nigerian women do it freely almost on daily basis and the reason for this I cannot tell, so its better for the married women to tell us themselves

Fake story, no Nigerian man will forgive and take back a cheating wife. Even said he now showers her with love. There’s this funny memes redpillers do use to caution their fellows over a cheating woman, let me search for it. Ok Here it is below, very funny � � � . Men are very jealous, they cheat most and expect to be forgiven but will never ever forgive a cheating partner

This is a movie.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am telling you what I have seen. While you may say 99% of men won't take back cheating women, I am also here to tell you that some men do. If you haven't heard or seen it doesn't mean it's not a given.

And it has nothing to do with the bulleted aforementioned points above. If women can take back cheating men, I mean, why can't men do the same?

No matter how beautiful you are,a good cook and respectful,if you cheat and I catch you relationship don end.

Lol. she deactivated! Una don troll her tire. Bunch of saints Y'all are perfect! U make no mistakes



Rubbish!!!

frozen70:


Lol @ understands you very well

As a matured woman,, I understand exactly why you did what you did and I didn't blame you because

A woman's heart needs a man to warm

While a man looks for which woman's heart to warm

But am happy for you that you are ok now

Pls ma, did you see my last msg?

CuteEmma:
This is lamba. The ending of the story just spoilt everything. Nigerian men don’t just forgive cheating partners no matter how much they cheat also. They’re too egoistic.

In your own opinion and exposure. Probably you need to look beyond your cycle..

Bloody liar, u are now blaming our beloved romance section for your woes

Lilydore:









Let me keep quiet before them track me abeg.

Who get your time?

Why give him your real last name?

Why send him money?

For what is worth, you could have been friends from a distance

lolz lesson to those girls are quick to shine teeth with them in the name of joke [ even though they call her prostitute, me and you sleep for the same bed]


Too late she's no more active.
You for tell us the name of the moniker.


Well ,that's why I'm strict here, because of their nonsense. I can see one is emotional degraded just because of the little words we exchanged .He even want to searched for me on facebook, later they will be claiming Redpill.



JEON LEE THE MARINE GIRL

lolz.

placeofallure:


You're not everybody. They do forgive.

Social media is a public space where people come to post all kinda story - good, bad, ugly.

Forget, lotta shit happen in real life that's totally unconnected to social media life!

they don't forgive.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am telling you what I have seen. While you may say 99% of men won't take back cheating women, I am also here to tell you that some men do. If you haven't heard or seen it doesn't mean it's not a given.

And it has nothing to do with the bulleted aforementioned points above. If women can take back cheating men, I mean, why can't men do the same?

the trust and everything is broken and won't be the same again.
the woman will suffer emotional abuse as his mood will swing all the time,
he won't take normal rubbish his wife usually does before,
he won't hide his cheating
any time they have a misunderstanding, he will always use it against her, it's a psychological thing... she will be weak, guilty, worthless and literally be a slave in that marriage till he dumps her or she comes off it and leave(rare) but even if she does, she will never forgive herself and won't be the same again.
If your man catches you cheating but takes you back, you'll see hell and disrespect... all you'll have to do is suffer and smile for the public

Mathematricks:


Pls ma, did you see my last msg?

Yes i did
But can't be of help
Sorry about that

SATANlSTMINION:
ogbeni rest.
leave frozen70 alone and go learn a skill.
find people for your church or relatives make dem help you

My dear
Thanks, they want to drain me but I go dey use wisdom follow them

SATANlSTMINION:
don't Tell me you believed that Nonsense cooked lies fabricated by a jobless nitwit

I actually believed that story because what she narrated is actually what women go through and what women does, especially when a woman can't find love in her relationship
Worst is in marriage

Kingcalls:


As expected, women lying to themselves... thats y u all end up depressed

A woman can never ever be depressed in marriage

She has ways of having happiness in her marriage

Ask any woman

frozen70:


A woman can never ever be depressed in marriage

She has ways of having happiness in her marriage

Ask any woman

Story... another lie from a woman to decieve herself

Una happy come be say na una de file for divorce 70-80% of the time

Kingcalls:


Story... another lie from a woman to decieve herself

Una happy come be say na una de file for divorce 70-80% of the time

Wait till you get married

frozen70:


Yes i did
But can't be of help
Sorry about that

Ok, ma. Have a nice day.

frozen70:


My dear
Thanks, they want to drain me but I go dey use wisdom follow them

I understand that you're a married woman with numerous responsibilities.
That's how most nairalanders are, they tend to take one's kindness for granted.
You're one of the few nairalanders that has supported lots of people on this forum and God will bless you and repay you bountifully

Emmitable:
This should serve as a lesson to all marriages

SATANlSTMINION:
I understand that you're a married woman with numerous responsibilities.
That's how most nairalanders are, they tend to take one's kindness for granted.
You're one of the few nairalanders that has supported lots of people on this forum and God will bless you and repay you bountifully

Thank you very much for all your prayers and wishes

May we never be stranded

I really appreciate your observations on me

Mathematricks:


Ok, ma. Have a nice day.

Thanks my dear

SATANlSTMINION:
I understand that you're a married woman with numerous responsibilities.
That's how most nairalanders are, they tend to take one's kindness for granted.
You're one of the few nairalanders that has supported lots of people on this forum and God will bless you and repay you bountifully

Una dey support person for this forum?? Make person support me nah I want rent shop I dey run printing press
God bless

kalu081:


Una dey support person for this forum?? Make person support me nah I want rent shop I dey run printing press
God bless

so unfortunate the person I would have referred you to help and support you is dead.
Continue to RIP Hungerbad

Gandollar:
Enu e bi random dicks

you this babe you go like blockos no be small

Khaleesi4lyf:
Expose his moniker please

lol you no want fall victim

[quote]He told me it is either he kill me or I marry him. By them I told him to do his worst because I can't marry a man that don't have respect for anybody, a man that can beat his ex will definitely beat me whereas my husband has never lay finger on me. A man that is so lazy and can't do anything will definitely depend on me. So I told him I am not divorcing my husband again or will ever commit adultery again no matter what happen.

This guy went to Facebook and search for my husband name using my surname. He messaged my husband that he have some things he want to tell him and he will need his WhatsApp number. My husband sent his number and this guy told my husband everything.

But the lies he told my husband is more than the truth. He told my husband he sleep with me everyday and that is how I sleep with men everyday. My husband asked him if he knows the implication of what he's doing and he said no. My husband said he won't curse him but he shall see. My husband asked for a prove that he slept with me but there was no prove.

That night, I cried and confessed to my husband. I told him how we met and what happened between us. Honestly he was heartbroken but he told me he has forgiven me. We cried together and promised never to give devil chance in out marriage again. He stopped having girlfriend and I stop having any form of male friend too

I have my blames. I allowed devil to take over my heart but if this guy have the chance he would have kill me just as he promised. All this happened because I came to romance section and decided to make healthy friends.

Married ladies please learn from me, you may not be lucky to come out of this kind of relationship. Whatever you are facing at home, take it to God in prayer. Always communicate with your husband and have a peaceful home

God bless you for reading [/quote