Stats: 3,191,128 members, 7,943,065 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 September 2024 at 02:13 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend (52848 Views)
Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? / How My Monthly Salary Is Used On Foodstuff Only / Transformation Of 3 Children Tortured In Akwa Ibom After Being Tagged Witches (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 9:41pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Ovieemmanuel:I know. God help me 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Richy4(m): 9:44pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:You are a good man buddy... Your type are not up to 78 in the world considering your limited resources ![]() 18 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Mindlog: 9:44pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: Both parties should aim at meeting each other halfway as you both are connected to each for life even after you both have moved on with other people. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 9:45pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Mindlog:yes. It's my plan. Thanks |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 9:46pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Richy4:thanks and God bless you for your time 6 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Cutehector(m): 10:03pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:she wasnt pretending sir. A woman will always be a woman when a baby is involved. She will tell you, when it was sweeting you, why didnt you pull out. So bro, its all on you. A woman will ask you for sex and still judge you no be you put the pikin inside her. It is better for a woman to hate you for not giving her sex than for you to give into her demands and later be judged alone for biology's actions. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by We4all: 10:14pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: Alaye, didn’t you know your salary was 63K before you decided to impregnate her? Stop crying foul and face your responsibilities. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:20pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
5K for babymama ![]() ![]() Women don suffer! 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by emmanuelbrown26: 10:59pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
KimFab:Kimberly u are here? |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Cutehector(m): 2:57am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Still again, u for use condom ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by pocohantas(f): 8:24am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Richy4: 78 where? They no pass 7 o. The guy is really a good guy and shouldn’t be blamed for giving his BM N5000 a month. He can’t do pass himself! As at when she decided to have the baby, she knew his income. Even this condom question doesn’t fly. The guy is not denying the baby and if a woman doesn’t want to have a baby, we all know she wouldn’t. I do not see the sense in a woman saying it is her body when it pleases her, but go ahead to malign the man who wasn’t ready to have a child for not meeting up with her preferred child support. If you want to be a BM, you as a woman should also be very prepared and the man should support too. Linda Ikeji no get two head. 48 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Richy4(m): 8:33am On Aug 25, 2022 |
pocohantas:Honestly, I totally agree with you.. with that kind of income, a lot of us will see it as an answered prayers if she leaves the house...at least the 5k he gives will be channelled to something else... I have never been in such situations but If I should be, with that kind of income, I doubt I will be fighting like him especially knowing that my kid is in good hands. ![]() ![]() ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Mindlog: 8:45am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by pocohantas(f): 8:49am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Richy4: Very nice guy. I am sure if we trace his ancestry, we would see he isn’t a Nigerian. ![]() Mindlog: Yes na. ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Baronthecelebri: 8:56am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Listen my advice for you is to forget about your child and work on yourself,Las when you don't blow like dangote, she'll be the one to come, and once the child becomes an adult, he'll trace his root back to you. That's how things will work 10 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Mindlog: 9:05am On Aug 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: Recently hung out with a group of Nigerians, one of the guys got talking about his British girlfriend and how the lady has been regarding their relationship as recreational despite all his "efforts". Another Nigerian guy suggested he should impregnate her in order to tie her down to him and it led to a heated argument and I insisted that impregnating a woman, does not mean she will carry it to full term if she doesn't want to, especially here abortion pills are legally delivered to one's home by the postman . ![]() 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by pocohantas(f): 9:10am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Mindlog: Wow!!!! They do that there? ![]() You were very correct. Except she is entirely clueless, probably a minor, you can’t tie her down with pregnancy. If person no dey ready, leave am. If at all she keeps it, she can grow to resent you. A lot would change - her body, her career/life path..etc Why e wan tie am down sef? ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Mindlog: 9:18am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Baronthecelebri: Why should he forget his child, is he a piece of clothing? How many Nigerian men who "forgot" their child/children over the decades, don "blow like Dangote"? You are okay with an adult tracing his/her roots, to discuss what and that is if the father is lucky to even be alive with Nigerian men' life expectancy rate? I guess the relational gaps in such adult's childhood and adolescence, means nothing. Stop advocating for "when your child grows up, he/she will look for the father".....let fathers be present in the lives of their children no matter the obstacles as long as they are not of verifiable risk to the child, they will certainly have access to their children. There are government offices in different states of Nigeria that do handle getting estranged partners working out co-parenting children who are products of their relationships. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Mindlog: 9:28am On Aug 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: E wan papers but the lady in question just want sex with no commitment. 4 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by pocohantas(f): 9:29am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Mindlog: Thought as much. I just wanted to be sure I was correct. ![]() ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Richy4(m): 9:41am On Aug 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: ![]() ![]() Where do we trace his ancestry from? Which country or black race is better than Nigerian men among black race in taking adequate care of ladies? ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:59am On Aug 25, 2022 |
KimFab: 100% correct 3 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by mjuvey3: 10:19am On Aug 25, 2022 |
Baronthecelebri: Truth is bitter ![]() It doesn't mean you hate the child....No....Go and focus on yourself and make yourself better. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 11:48am On Aug 25, 2022 |
We4all:you get sense at all or you are just being fuulish? People earning lesser even survive with more than a kid you are just here trying to defend your gender that want men to kee himself for them before they will know that the man is trying. Lubbish 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 11:53am On Aug 25, 2022 |
pocohantas:God bless you for your apt reply. I wonder why people don't want to read to understand. They are forgetting that we still have people out there that do not care at all, all they think about is their self then some people are here castigating me. Maybe they want me to kee myself because say na me first born for the world. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 11:59am On Aug 25, 2022 |
mjuvey3:I had a barbing saloon in 2020 and I placed her in charge so things didn't go well as planned because of issues with the barbers and all that. So this year I reopened another barbing saloon and a laundry shop and decided to run them myself and I opened an untouchable account where I will be catering for my child and then pay the rents from there. I was surprised that she started giving me attitude saying I am a stingy guy this and that, maybe because I didn't put her in charge this time around. 15 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 12:05pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
Cutehector:but I am taking care of my baby properly. Not like I abandoned him for her. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by We4all: 12:54pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: Trying ke? You give her a monthly upkeep of 5K and still very proud to announce it on a public forum. You be ode. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 2:14pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
We4all:you no really dey reason. So the the other things I do and my baby and I upkeep that is not found on the above mentioned doesn't matter to you right? Women Sha, selfish 13 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by pocohantas(f): 3:27pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
Richy4: Zimbabwe or Kenya. ![]() djkirkoo2: No kill yourself o. I give it to you that you are different from the majority. The deed has been done. This is not the time to look for condom. It is the time to put heads together. If she doesn’t want that, keep sending what you can, keep trying to reach out. She may eventually get tired and stylishly begin to broker peace. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Nobody: 5:38pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: I'm very sure the Western Leftist does not support this opinion of yours sha, because their own Law defies logic. According to Law, you will be responsible for the child even when you already had a sit down discussion with the lady at the early period of conception that you both shouldn't have the baby, If or when she still goes ahead, you would still be 100% responsible for the upkeep until 18 years of age, irrespective of whether you had an agreement, verbal or written. Infact this opinion you wrote will cause a lot of attention if it was a Black American forum, dem go delete or block your account sharpaly. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by kayperry: 7:21pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: Yiimu! these was how aunty Linda was saying waa online and offline was doing wee ![]() 4 Likes |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply)
Adorable Pictures Of A Nigerian Man And His American Wife / Nursing Mother With Her Baby Spotted At A Betting Shop In Lagos. Photos / Nigerian Young Man Finds Love In The Arms Of White Grandma
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 61 |