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Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:29pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
toyinid78:don't mind them ![]() |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:31pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
PETGEB:that was why I said that myself and my son's welfare doesn't even capture in my salary. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:34pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
OkoAnike:I just pray they allow me to see him at least. His birthday is this coming Monday and I sew this for him |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:38pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
BluntCrazeMan:yes o |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:39pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
jaydee87:with all these happenings, nothing on earth will make me to settle nor marry her. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:42pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Ekemeziegraciou:I'm working on it already. Thanks |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:47pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
fluffybaby:I will visit human rights soon 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by kernniejay(m): 6:06pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
I just read your post, I saw people's comments and I saw your replies too. I observe that you seem to be a responsible man irrespective of the situation that led to having a baby mama. Even some men that are legally married are not half as responsible as you are to their families. I saw the breakdown of how you spend your salary and it is commendable. Many of them have condemned you here especially those saying N50k is too small to give a baby mama for business. Let me tell you, you don't owe her anything because you didn't marry her and you don't have any spousal agreement, you only owe your baby care and responsibility. She cannot make you her life saver just because she has a baby through you. What I want you to know is that you are entitled to seeing your child and you should be sending some money for his upkeep, not for your baby mama's upkeep. She should go and find work or her family should establish a business for her. As a matter of fact, you are free to marry if you want and you see a suitable lady for you. Nobody can stop you. Don't let that baby mama hold you to ransome because of your child, live your life and be happy. Just ensure you are sending some money for your child's upkeep. Let her and her family know that you cannot be tied down because she has your baby. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by thinkmoney(m): 6:36pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:I sympathise with u. However I have a feelings I are the type that likes talking and maybe trying to prove u are right. This affects relationship...it stresses it. However, ur girl really passed boundary with the way she gave another guy phone to yab u. Are u guys still very young? |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Schprobs: 6:51pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Men are really going through a lot and nobody listen to us 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 7:27pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
One4me:Nice one. Thanks |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 7:28pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
jeromestarks:hahahaha ![]() |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by BRATISLAVA: 4:50am On Aug 28, 2022 |
4Humanity4All: Yet only one person was providing it with breastfeeding support. You're trying to blame their state on the woman, but did this OP ever say he wanted her to work? Did he set her up to earn an income? Or he impregnated an unemployed woman and you expect her to suddenly have employment because she gave birth to his son? He didn't think of needing support with his finances before impregnating a woman that was not earning money because he feels he's a wealthy boyfriend. Sometimes you people comment without perspective. We know, you want all women to work. Yet at the same time, you don't really want that. Otherwise this thread wouldn't be here. Anything to push the ministry of blaming women for responsibilities heads of homes can't handle. Or isn't this guy a head any more? His financial situation isn't hinged on her. When he finally tells us how he convinced her to be in that situation with him, you will marvel at her long-suffering patience with him. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by BRATISLAVA: 4:56am On Aug 28, 2022 |
oguntoyese: Since your only input is in the finances, it is okay to accuse her of having no financial input. That's nice Two captains cannot sail a ship, but you want her financial input. The man is the head of the home, why are you denying that? A lot of men don't know what they really want. You can't eat your cake and have it. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:56am On Aug 28, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Oh, you clearly didn't follow through with the thread. You just quoted me and typed somethings down with the purpose of having an unnecessary argument. If you followed the thread properly,you will find answers to most of your questions there. For the record, in no way did I blame the woman. All I tried to say is 'two heads are better than one', so, don't put your words into my mouth. Do we have an history or something? |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by DonroxyII: 9:02am On Aug 28, 2022 |
Cutehector:Aswear, My Verdict too: I dislike Rantings from Man, Women Rant, Man Solves or Toast Your Way Out of Her Ratchet Life Sotey She go carry Her Money Give You while You Repay Her Back Once You Bounce Up: A Man Should man a Woman: Every Woman is a Mother with the Right Guy, Just Lock Yourself into Her Emotional Portal and She will Conduct Her Maternal Instincts on You while You Repay Her in Kind(Care), Cash and Dickings to Help Hold Her Body and Soul Together: If you no get Money, Get Good Words and Sweet Mouths ... E get why, Garagara with a Woman will launch you into Mental State because Most Women are Only Normal to the extent of the Normalcy in their Male Handlers Head ! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by scarycuteface(m): 10:51am On Aug 28, 2022 |
Just Make more money. Side gigs, freelancing, investing in stablecoins on apps like Binance or Yellow Card etc |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by DonroxyII: 11:01am On Aug 28, 2022 |
truthsayer009:I support the Western Leftist on This and I think Such needed to be replicated in Nigeria in order to Curb the Surge of Almajiri in Northern Nigeria whom are Potential Recruits for Terrorists and Irresponsibilities in Southern Nigeria: Once You Fertilised a Woman's Egg, You MUST be Responsible for What Your Seed is Doing In her Body regardless of Planned or Unplanned So Be Very Careful and Sure not to Pass Your Seed into Her Egg and Be Very Ready to Father A Child from Your Own Seed: I think It is Hightime We Men Started Fvcking with Our Brain not just Removing the Brain from Sex due to "e dey Sweet me" .. That's Next Level Evolution: Put Brain to Sex: You fvck a Woman to Belle, Carry Your Cross except both of you agreed to Abort the Mission: Also, Abortion has to be Mutual, If she doesn't agree to Abortion of the life growing in her Body, the Man that Implanted the Life Must be Responsible or Go to Jail and Made to Work and Pay Child Support: The Onus is: Once the Sex Starts, Have a Mindset that You are gonna be Responsible for A Child/Pregnancy that Resulted from the Sex Planned or Unplanned: Cc: Pocohantas, You seem One Sided: I tell Men not to Have Sexual Intercourse with a Woman they Won't Father Her Child once Yawa Gas, If You Fvck Each Other, Don't Ejaculate Inside ... If You Do ... She has Right to Terminate or Not(It's Her Body Not His) So if 50% of Your Investments is going Inside Someone's Body, Be Ready to Reap the Dividends at Maturities ![]() |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by DonroxyII: 12:00pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Sweetplum:It is not his lack of Money, Some people are Earning less and maintaining Home even Some Technicians ain't making 60k Monthly but they Manage their Life so Well: 63k on 210 rent is a Fowl: With a Baby Mama and a Child Support that's a Penalty Kick: He is now thinking of running from the Goal Posts that's Abdication of Responsibilities: Some Level of Income ain't suppose to Enter GbasGbos because Frustrations will result from the Brouhaha: A 63k shouldn't Fornicate, If You Should Fornicate Don't Ejaculate, If You should Ejaculate Don't Give Belle if you do: Replan Everything to Incorporate Mother and Child and Find Means of Increasing Your Income Net: New Skills, New Businesses, New Horizon and Bring Your Woman into your Plans with Sweet Words.... Welcome Aboard on Life Journeys: Abandon Your Kid, Nemesis is Coming for Your Nyansh: |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Cutehector(m): 1:07pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
DonroxyII:wisdom bro. Correct wisdom 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by CaptainAyub: 6:52pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:If u die tomorrow,that child will still survive. If you're locked up in d cell/prison, u won't see that child and you won't die. If u travel abroad for hustle,u won't see that child and both of u won't die. BONE YOUR BABY MAMA AND YOUR BABY FOR NOW AND INCREASE YOUR HUSTLE. THAT CHILD IS THE ONLY HOLD THEY HAVE ON YOU AND THEY'RE USING HER TO BLACKMAIL YOU EMOTIONALLY. But while u r boning,make sure to regularly send her upkeep money AND KEEP THE EVIDENCE OF FUNDS SENT. Cos tomorrow they will claim u don't do anything for the baby. If u do this,na she and her family go begin beg u to even have a relationship with them. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 9:59pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
thinkmoney:I am 37 while she's 25. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Onyipk: 10:30pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
RepoMan007: For a moment of sin and pleasure, you practically have no savings. Your baby mama needs a trade, you need additional skill/trade to supplement your income, but most importantly, go back to God to reshapen your life. Peace. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by thinkmoney(m): 12:56am On Aug 29, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:U both are very much of age. Please avoid being over desperate about ur child so no one can use it to blackmail u. Look inward too to see if there are things u do too much , like nagging etc. But importantly, don't let anybody take u for a ride. U appear to be trying ur best. Do not ever beat her. Instead u let her go. If she wouldn't settle peacefully with u and give u access to ur child, u may need to get the authority involved. Seek peace anyway. Find balance 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Omobithousand(f): 2:48am On Aug 29, 2022 |
CaptainAyub: OP follow this advice please 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Landmack: 3:37am On Aug 29, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: Shut up Abeg. Before we know it u don give am belle again. See mouth like nothing on earth |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 4:34am On Aug 29, 2022 |
Landmack:LOL ![]() |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 4:36am On Aug 29, 2022 |
thinkmoney:thanks very much 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Hamachi(f): 6:28am On Aug 29, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: ![]() |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 8:58am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Hamachi:the day I asked her she turned it to quarrel. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 9:02am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Landmack:never. Right now the case is at welfare. I took the matter to welfare so I can be seeing my son when I want to and be fending for him. They just want me to be fending for him while they hide him from me. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by oguntoyese: 11:13am On Sep 24, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Despite my financial input I didn't complain. All I wanted was respect. Was I asking too much!!! |
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