Goldieluks:

@OP

Why not focus on your studies more,instead of falling inlove
and getting hurt because of inexperience?

tenderheart!!!:

hehehe, U guys are so funny nd lovely, U're really cracking me up ryt now, I still wanna be friend wt her, I know she still loves me, I called her yesterdei just to say 'hi', texted ha bout y I ad to delete ha from my friends' list, not dt I was angry, She was positive in her response nd evn replied my text, My problem now is, dere are other guys who are also crazy about her, She tells me bout some herself, we both laff about some of dem wen dey keep sending her gifts nd won't stop calling nd all dt, she'ld tell me I now av lots of rivals( Jokingly), probably so dt I won't mess up, but dere's ds one who is really a nice guy too, nd @ tyms she'ld tell me jokingly dt's her bf, I found out about d gu 4rm doz who know him, I got to realise, He really likes her, nd my baby feels d same tin 4 Him too doe she'ld tell me, She cnt date him dt dey are just ghud friends since high. Schl nd E's been a nice guy, I feel, I'ld send her d wrong message if I shld stop talking to her nd I'm so afraid d oda '9ce guy' myt wanna take my place,
When I agreed we shld just be friends nd dt we shouldn't av ourselves in mind, she was like, y now I won't change my fb password, U can av it as It's not lyk I'ld stop loving U, I just feel we shld do d ryt tin by holding on' she wouldn't agree @ first but later when I insisted, She agreed nd changed d password, den went ahead nd post on d guy's wall on fb, she wants to see him!
Ok! Now, she def knows I'ld go check ha wall nd see dt nd would def get jealous, could she really wanna see him or She's tryna play on my emotions, She doesn't like it when I comment on girls picture too, maybe Shez tryna pay me back in am own coin, lol
It now seems lyk I'm forcing love, m scared she myt wanna muv on wt d guy if he ever asks her out, Honestly, I still want her, quitting talking to her myt be dangerous, dnt U think so Jenifa
ut dere's ds one who is really a nice guy too, nd @ tyms she'ld tell me jokingly dt's her bf, I found out about d gu 4rm doz who know him, I got to realise, He really likes her, nd my baby feels d same tin 4 Him too doe she'ld tell me, She cnt date him dt dey are just ghud friends since high. Schl nd E's been a nice guy, I feel, I'ld send her d wrong message if I shld stop talking to her nd I'm so afraid d oda '9ce guy' myt wanna take my place,
When I agreed we shld just be friends nd dt we shouldn't av ourselves in mind, she was like, y now I won't change my fb password, U can av it as It's not lyk I'ld stop loving U, I just feel we shld do d ryt tin by holding on' she wouldn't agree @ first but later when I insisted, She agreed nd changed d password, den went ahead nd post on d guy's wall on fb, she wants to see him!
Ok! Now, she def knows I'ld go check ha wall nd see dt nd would def get jealous, could she really wanna see him or She's tryna play on my emotions, She doesn't like it when I comment on girls picture too, maybe Shez tryna pay me back in am own coin, lol
It now seems lyk I'm forcing love, m scared she myt wanna muv on wt d guy if he ever asks her out, Honestly, I still want her, quitting talking to her myt be dangerous, dnt U think so Jenifa

sexkillz:

^^^I wish i had people who TOLD ME THE HARSH TRUTH in my own TIME! Well. . .

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alosiby92:

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maybe she felt that you had wrong intentions and would end up pressurising her to fornicate or commit immorality eventually, even if for now it looks innocent. Or maybe she doesn't want any distractions now (and wants to focus with school)
My best bet is that she was scared of what would happen in future and did not know what to do, maybe in her heart she began idolising you and felt like she was sinning against GOD. She sounds like good wife material though.

Omg! Bro, U can say dt again, Shez a very very ghud wife material, may God bless your intelligence, it's just like U know her 100 percent, dt's really her fears cos she talks about it, but then I'ld keep assuring her, I won't do anytin silly, dt I was heaven-conscious, den her mind will be @ rest, after about few weeks, maybe we go out into a secluded place togeda nd I try holding her hands or tell her to come nearer, She would start smiling nd preaching, lol, dere was one nyt, She told me, Even if shez free, She can't come to my house @ ds stage our relationship had gotten to, She says she doesn't trust me nd dt She doesn't evn trust herself neither( jokingly nd we both laffed bout it) but I'm not happy with her because I keep reassuring her I won't hurt her nd won't force her to do anytin silly but Is it sinful to hold d girl U're in love wt, or wanting to av your arms round her, is it bad

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Upon rereading this thread, I think you should try and stop communicating with her too much or she will abuse your friendship knowing fully well that u will be her "shoulder to cry on" and that you still love her. People tend to do that after rejecting people but knowing that they still are'nt over them.
How many times will she keep rubbing in the fact that there are other guys running after her and u were the one who didnt make it? those jokes were meant to touch a soft spot and make it harder for u to get over her. Be her friend, but from a distance. the closer you get, the harder she'll hurt you.