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At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. / Is My Decision Right Or Wrong / Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Meteng: 7:45pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Brooke60:I can imagine what your pop went through, it can be very excruciating, I shedded tears just imagining it. Plus, I love your advice. You’re very sensible 1 Like |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by VirileNelly2420: 7:46pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020:Gosh, I think d guy is quite immature mentally to live ur daughter in his care... Nawa o. Plz take ur daughter back. Plz. Both are children. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Meself: 7:47pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
This one bad ooo uote author=Ulunne777 post=116906308]Bring her back oo.My neighbor sent her daughter away like this to her boyfriend only for the guy to give her another pregnancy barely 2 months after birth of the first pregnancy which now resulted in twins. ![]() 2 16 yr old children ![]() ![]() Manage one now before the poor man will turn her to a baby factory ![]() [/quote] |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
take her back with the baby u dumbfreak man send the child away to his dad when he is atleats 5 y |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by iamL(f): 7:51pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Londonderry: Is was exactly the same way op was a vagabond when he impregnated his daughter mother out of wedlock as well. Now the cycle has repeated itself and he wants to form righteous. A devilish son can also use his school hours to impregnate girls. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by maureensylvia(f): 7:54pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020: Okokobioko |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by VirileNelly2420: 7:56pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020:Are u bringing her home to take care of her health and send her back thereafter? If u've truly forgiven her, help her d very way u can. If possible terminate d marriage, cos it's clear both parties ain't ready for it. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Cloud007: 7:57pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
If you take your daughter back... how will you explain your decision to your grandchild in 15 years time? But wait...is she really your daughter? |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by IamPlato(m): 7:59pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020:. You clearly don't know how to handle issues like this... You want to leave 5 months old baby with a family without the mother... Oga you are heartless abeg. Who will breast feed the child. The same family you said are poor and can't feed your daughter, how the hell do you expect them to raise a baby, don't you know that baby food is freaking expensive? If you won't carry the baby then it's better you leave them both... The baby needs it's mother for a better survival... You have not even forgiven... How can you be opening mouth to say you want to leave the child for the same family that can hardly feed... Oga abeg get shift abeg... Be like you need flogging to think right... Anyway, it's your choice do whatever you like |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by stacyadams: 8:03pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Brooke60:...you have said it all 1 Like |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by IamPlato(m): 8:04pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020:. Did you say their grand daughter? So you clearly don't like the child because clearly you are pushing it away. Oga do whatever the fvck you like, you already have what is in your mind to do. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Ben404040: 8:08pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Niom:Am not sure he still understands. It takes a while for these things to sink in especially if you are still angry like the OP. He doesnt want to loose the daughter and doesnt want to take her as she is. A girl that is sick and knows the father can help her. What level of pain will she be in. Uncle please the earlier the better. That baby now is your daughters blood...your blood, your grand child. Our fathers will be angry while their daughters were pregnant but once baby is born they dont put their anger on innocent child. The joy of the safe delivery heals all wound. This time is actually responsibility of the mothers. At this time it is her whole will pay visit to her daughter (even with your money) to offer all kinds of assistance and remedy until at the time her father's "anger" will calm down. This also helps allay the fears of the loving father cause definitely Mama will give report of her journey. Kindly find in your to forgive her. She has a responsibility now to the child and you should support her. Forget the child's father. You too know they no get. In all Gods blessings |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by obinna58(m): 8:08pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
OSUigboFlatHead:This mentality is why she turned out that way |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Pwettylinda(f): 8:10pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020: Oga don't be stupid get your daughter and her child and take good care of them Be like mumu dey worry you ![]() |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Clinghton: 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
If you can agree with me you can still give your daughter a better future with her baby and boyfriend, nobody knows what the future holds. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Ulunne777(f): 8:23pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
wealthpreach: Keep quiet.Its a true life story and their house shares a fence with ours.The twins are 3 yrs old currently while the 1st one is late. The parents were both SS2 students of the same school and got suspended when the deed came to light |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by loliapoopy2013(f): 8:23pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
You don't want to be called a grandfather oga, sorry she has already made you one. Please take her back, most girls like this learn from their mistakes and grow up to be very responsible and independent women. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by airminem(f): 8:29pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Pwettylinda:There isn't any reason to insult the Op 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by EgunMogaji2: 8:30pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020: Oga mi, at the earliest opportunity take your daughter and your grandchild. Things will work themselves out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by sphinixs2: 8:30pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020: Some decisions have a way of coming back to haunt us later in life. Bear in mind that the baby is not only the father's child but also your grandchild! |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by venatus25(m): 8:36pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Wickedness. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by KennethEnyi(m): 8:42pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Every single time I come on this Nairaland I always see different levels of Stupidity I’m tired I even think that stupid people actually make up Nigeria |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by zincnike(m): 8:43pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Pls take d baby wt her pls , Maka future nd wot hatred gv bring in future biko |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Yxxx: 8:45pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Survivor2020: This is just how my dad would have reacted too, but please forgive her and accept your grand daughter, highest convert that granddaughter to your child and insist she bears your surname and cut off ties completely from that boy. Biko Nna Gbahara. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by wealthpreach(m): 8:46pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Ulunne777: Not after two months... Please read about the fecundity period and learn more. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by stigman(m): 8:46pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
If this story is true then you be GOAT (akwuya) Kukuma kill the boy join, do you know what that boy will become tomorrow? |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Memyselfu2009(m): 8:49pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
[qsuote author=Survivor2020 post=116893608]My 17 years old brought shame to me last year she got pregnant, I have disowned her and sent her packing. She is staying with her boyfriend in his family home. She gave birth 5 months ago she has been sick ever since she had the baby and the boyfriend doesn't have any money to take care of her. Plus the living condition is not suitable for her in her condition. I understand how you feel but when you loss your daughter you would feel worst please do the needful and take care of your daughter and your grand child I have forgiven her and I want to take her back home so I can take her to the hospital for treatment but I don't want her to come with her baby. Please note there is only me and my 7 years old son at home. I work and my son goes to school till 5pm. I don't have time to babysit the baby. I want the father to take care of his child while I take care of mine. I hope my decision is not bad? [/quote] |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by chiboycue: 8:49pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Your daughter did bad to give birth to your grandson at the age of 17 years, however, you need to forgive her just as God forgives us our tresspasses. You need to handle the matter like a matured parent. Since you said you disowned her, you need to reown her and your grandchild back by accepting them back into your house and be supportive to her and your grandson. Have the mindset that your grandchild is a blessing to you and he or she could be an important figure in future. Your grandchild is a part of you that still bears some of your genes that was passed to him or her through your daughter. The summary is forgive them, accepted them back and support them morally and financially. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by newcommer: 8:56pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Mindlog: Team Babymama crew |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by frozen70(f): 8:57pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Mindlog: Definitely But I was referring to her parents |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Caseywilliams(m): 9:03pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Your decision is a very bad one pls.. Respectfully, there's no way you should be considering taking your daughter alone leaving a lactating baby for the boyfriend. Pls give that little baby the love and support she deserves too coz he or she is just an innocent soul. If that baby is still sucking her mom's breasts there might be every chances she might have come in contact with half of the illness her mother has. Pls while taking care of your own daughter try and extend that hand to her baby... She's your grand child for Christ sake. |
Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by Nwaotu10(m): 9:19pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
wwwkaycom:"He, whom his palm kernel was cracked for by a benevolent spirit should not forget to be humble" |
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