I recently started work but already having a lot of male admirers especially my colleague and after all the hints he kept giving me and me telling him to back off, I ended up sleeping with him and chilling even inside the office and outside.

my question for nairalanders is if i am doing something dangerous or what are the consequences of office romance since we chill outside the office or am i stupid for developing that kind of feelings for my co worker?

1. you loose your job
2. the manager bangs you too so that you dont loose your job
3. another guy bangs you so he doesn't tell anyone else that you banged the first guy
4. you are known as the office skank who just started working but is banging everyone
5. the guy you banged starts crowding you because you see him at least 5 days a week
6.your boss fires you for fraternization
7. the guy breaks up with you and tells everyone you are an easy lay
8. you get pregnant at your new job

these are a few im sure others have more

You are on a frast train to the unemployment market

Sandy2010:

I recently started work but already having a lot of male admirers especially my colleague and after all the hints he kept giving me and me telling him to back off, I ended up sleeping with him and chilling even inside the office and outside.

my question for nairalanders is if i am doing something dangerous or what are the consequences of office romance since we chill outside the office or am i silly for developing that kind of feelings for my co worker?

Sometimes it happens that way when you are the newest kid on the block. Remember Jambite rush
Anyways, having an office romance is two-sided, sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesnt and things could get really uncomfortable for you( both )at the office.

It depends because i and my husband met and still work in the same office though different divisions now.