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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by bdon123(m): 11:44pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:tell ur wife n xplain why u hav to leave her.Also ask her whos d fada |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by AreaFada2: 11:44pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Maynman: And who told you the other man is not doing it steady as we speak? ![]() ![]() OP's life is even at risk. A woman can do anything to cover such disgrace. Especially these days people form religiosity up and down, facing shame is a heavy thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by princewarri1985: 11:45pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:you are really acting like your name jonny man, YOU WIFE CHEATED ON YOU AND EVEN GAVE YOU ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD TO RAISE, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR BEFORE YOU KICK HER OUT AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE? 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by SAMAJ: 11:48pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
You had better cry out now and let everyone know what happened. If your wife should get to know before you think of crying out, the woman will surely kill you to cover her evil deeds. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Toluola5: 11:48pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
I pray you find peace in your decision, only who has been in such situation can advice, but I know is not easy |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by iamsolasoul(f): 11:49pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
3/4 is not bad but very deceitful |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Helpout12345: 11:49pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
GerogeI: Forget. If the biological father is ready, he will get the child. Look at it this way. The law will put both the woman and the boyfriend in prison once the boyfriend can proof that they had an affair and it resulted in sex. With today technology, the boyfriend can have many chats and other evidences to proof the affair and even the sex. The moment the boyfriend shows up to the woman and he is very serious, the woman will not want to go to jail too and she will end up confessing even before the matter gets to court. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jimmychang: 11:51pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
GerogeI: Not everyone wants it that way my guy.It will be too toxic abeg. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by princewarri1985: 11:53pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Pells:they are telling you here that the child look like her coleague in work whom she cheated with and you are here saying that the child was exchanged! DUMBO |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by ZooOga: 11:54pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Pells: Abeg, speaking of being " The more the baby is growing up the more she is looking like her colleague." |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by GerogeI(m): 11:54pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Helpout12345: No, she will end up denying in order to save herself from jail and her family. Find any precedence in Nigeria where a man successfully claimed parternity in court by dna. I have not heard of a precedence. You can only have a chance if the woman is at least on your side. If she has other kids, she has plenty of reasons not to be on your side. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by petsey(m): 11:55pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
I don’t know you but I have similar issue about 7 years ago. Did you know you are not safe if she’s with you while third parties know about this? The moment family set in and settle the issue, she poisoned me twice with no trace. How I wish I can see you or get in touch with you. BEST ADVICE Don’t confront her & don’t tell anyone for now. Any advice you get from friends and family is a trap. May the lord give you wisdom to handle dis “word in season” 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 11:55pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Uh oh, take heart. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Onucs(m): 12:01am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Run a DNA on that one that resembles his mother bro. At this stage, u cannot be sure of anything. It's funny how two people will claim to love each other to the point of going to the alter to take that vow. Only to come back to the house just after seven months of separation with a pregnancy. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever tie that deceitful nut. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by braine(m): 12:01am On Sep 30, 2022 |
jumper524: Please don't say this. He will regret it. What happens when the real father who is alive and well comes for the child? A child that looks like the biological father that everyone knows?? Come on bro. The best he can do is to cover up her secret from coming out to the public by quietly ending things and letting her go quietly. This is also to keep the parent relationship because of the other children. That marriage must not continue. 5 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by RichAbujaGuy: 12:04am On Sep 30, 2022 |
@ Johnnyjohnnyman Life gives some tough blows. I would suggest that you dump your wife (and try to be cordial and as respectful as you can be) but take care of all the kids equally until they are mature and can go it alone. You will be immensely blessed for loving and taking care of that out of wedlock child. Hopefully the biological father man's up and helps out, but don't expect it from that low-life scum. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by juman(m): 12:04am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Before you make a major decision on the issue, I will advice you to extensively watch maury show on youtube. Some part of you hurt mind would be healed. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by juman(m): 12:11am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Dont send her away. The mistake has been made, you also blamed yourself partly. The baby is yours as well as the real father baby. Dont shatter your family. Broken home will surely affect your children. Both of you should see expert to talk to. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Bigchristo: 12:11am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:Lets discuss the act of the wife first before opening chapter of the sister that dupe you, for the sake of your sanity kindly go to another hospital to carry out the same DNA test it’s logical to do it more than once to be very sure because some hospitals do mixup blood samples sometimes n this has happened to a friend of mine, don’t be in hast to conclude otherwise you will end up ruining your marriage if you can confirm from at least two or 3 hospitals that the DNA does not match then you can finally take action, by then just make an exit plan and be a good father to your children, I don’t condone the act of cheating even to an extent of giving you someone else’s child tueh such thing disgust me |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by tiswell(m): 12:18am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Pells:it's very rare to exchange female kids ![]() His wife is a cheat! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by tiswell(m): 12:20am On Sep 30, 2022 |
jkpbestseries:is that enough justification to cheat? silly excuses! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by SamuelTaiw0(m): 12:27am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: To be sincere with you sir, your wife is shameless and the reason she married you was not because she respects you but she just want to be married. She has used her hands to destroy get married and the children who will grow up in a broken home are the ones I pity. Never you think of taking her back or catering for a child that is not yours because she will punish you for it in future no matter how much she denies it. I'm certain she knows the owner of the baby, she just wants to trick you into accepting her back. Take care of you other three children if possible demand for their custody so that she doesn't poison their minds against you in future. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Makotu: 12:31am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by lordally(m): 12:31am On Sep 30, 2022 |
judeolokor: When you people later found out she's trying to kill your friend , what did he or you do , how did you guys manage the situation? 2 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by eazisky(m): 12:32am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Pells: Are you not a woman? Why am I not surprised with your stupid comment? Stupid LovePeddler defending harlot |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by lloydmuna2(m): 12:34am On Sep 30, 2022 |
I dont think I will be able to survive the blow ,,how will one survive such more especially if you are emotionally attached to that child I fit just commit suicide Yet some people will still be shouting men are heartless. How person go train another man children which kind wickedness be that My brother For me GOD is your strength because me I don't think i can survive such a blow |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by lloydmuna2(m): 12:36am On Sep 30, 2022 |
This is [color=#990000][/color] This is the reason most men don't marry they impregnate the lady run a DNA test on the child boom they are off no strings attached |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Bigfish121(m): 12:37am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sorry op.Never accept a cheating partner that is the rule.omo even one of my guy,I dey feel say he first pikin nor b him own.i just keep mute sha.nor b me go use my mouth scatter person marriage. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by RosyIsBlessed: 12:41am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Just be careful she doesn't hurt you when you sleeping or something |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by lordally(m): 12:49am On Sep 30, 2022 |
GerogeI: In Summary..... You made no sense at all 3 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Realguyman1(m): 12:50am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sweetplum:Return the child to who? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jclassiq(m): 12:51am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sorry about your predicament bro. No innocent person should have go through something as wicked as this. However now is not the time to get overwhelmed and fail to act. This is the point where you voice your concerns about the child and listen to her either confess, or lie. I imagine she would lie, and at that point you should back up your point with the evidence -- the test. Whatever you do beyond that point is entirely up to you. But most men i know would never ever condone a sexually immodest housewife. Beyond the cheating, there are some other concerns i believe you ought to be worried about; like verbally assaulting you because you made a decision with your money -- a noble decision no less, not like you gambled it away or spend it frivolously. Yet she is calling you names and verbally assaulting you.That is unacceptable bro. I see how you are subtly trying to take the blame for her disgusting behaviour, saying it's your fault. How is it your fault that your wife is verbally assaulting you unprovoked? How is it your fault that you separated and she is hooking up with another man? Did you also hook up with another woman during the period? If you did, then you have no moral right to be complaining. Edit: She already knows about the result but she swears the child is yours. What do you want to do? I think you have to raise some money and do one more test to be very sure. I'm worried about your financial situation though. You hinted that you lost your job at some point, i can't say if you have gotten another one. My reason is this: now that you just have rattled your wife with your accusation and the test, your life is much more at risk. If you can have a second -- sort of like a confirmatory-- test, it will be easier to try to manage the situation -- like sending her away if the second test is positive, or apologizing to her if it isn't. It's a dicey situation man. 4 Likes |
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