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| Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by chariisGRACE(m): 6:52pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
In our mothers time, when THE WOMAN dressed covering their entire body, she was revered and longed-for by men because, men were curious to know/see how she was under the long gowns she wore, wrappers that went beyond her knee cap or long skirts with tops whose neckline was up to their collar bone, thereby giving no room for the cleavage to be exposed. She was respected because She was MYSTERY. Men did anything there is to get married to them - fighting their fellow men was no exception (you dare not fight your fellow man for a woman today). No man could conclude or imagine what She will be like in the other room by mere looking at her. With indecency as the norm in our society today, where morals degrade with time, while uncouthness is glorified and touted as being woke; our soon to be 'wives' in the quest for cheap fame and short term relevance on social media, now go all out to portray their already flabby breast which they achieved in their teens to the world. Do I need to say that Private parts are no longer private? Married 'women' are not left out of this craze for cheap likes with a little touch of "beautiful ANGLE" in their comment section by some demented men who have lost their sense of pride. These set of people have demystified THE WOMAN. They have melt the wax of marriage with the flame of indecency. The modern day WOMAN is now a commodity where men pay to see what she looks like at a go. Men are no longer curious, because they have seen all there is. What else would a man want to do with THE WOMAN except procreation? With promiscuity on the rise, it will only get worse as no man would want to wife a promiscuous woman. The Bible book of Isaiah 4 will come to pass soonest because, men have lost interest in marrying THE WOMAN. Mystery births curiosity, curiosity births adventure. The WOMAN that lived in our mother's time were MYSTERY. The modern day WOMAN is not mysterious. Selah. nlfpmod seun lalasticlala pansophist caveadullam What are your thoughts? 3 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Towncrier007(m): 6:53pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
YES |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by doggedfighter(f): 6:53pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
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| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Our girls no worth Am abeg |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by MonthlySalary: 6:56pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
It's not a must you get married na. You can chose to live alone forever Nobody carry gun put for your neck make you marry na 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Zonefree(m): 6:56pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Ifeelnumb:Louder please. 1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Epositive(m): 7:10pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Modesty, seldom use of social media and low level of materialism are qualities that a young man should look out for, at least to start with. Then we can now advance to homeliness, ideologies, temperament and the likes. The screening is becoming more tasky jare. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Epositive(m): 7:11pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
MonthlySalary: It is a social issue, deduced from careful observation of current trends and norms. One will expect answers from people with deep reflections, and perhaps, experiences. 3 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Boogyman557: 7:11pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Holly Gram  SOCIAL MEDIA brought more harm than good..Girls of this generation they on competition with one another... Instagram, Twitter, Facebook etc.. View there status or profile, High-tension go hold u for PREEK! Abeg I no one talk 2much.. As u see me so... Anything way concern Marriage, I don comort my handicap inside... Na to NACK ASHAWOO and come back house jeje.. Na ASHAWOO house I de since morning.. e get one ASHAWOO wey I de date now.. her name na Esther.. LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN! 4 Likes
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| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by CaveAdullam: 7:11pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
1. Human civilization has gone through many different trends, like genetic traits, some cultures and beliefs were able to survive up to this moment while others were lost. 2. Culture either changes or gets enhanced. The mode of dressing has changed over time. 3. Mode of dressing is an important core in every tradition. Those that have not enhanced their mode of dressing are still considered backward. Cultures that still celebrate nudity or go ahead with their daily activities with half-clothedness are lesser than the ones with a good style of dressing covering their unclothedness. Take note: I'm talking about deep rough rural areas that are still far away from the light of urban civilization. 4. Female promiscuity has always been a dialogue for ages. Cultures that don't restrict their females are always backward. And many of these cultures were found to be godless. These are rural areas I'm talking about. 5. The global North experienced prosperity because they had a fear of God + female promiscuity was minimized, hence, their mental and social energy increased for more growth and development. Monogamy is for a reason in the Western world. But coming back today, you'll observe that as the fear of god/God declines, the female is going naked and their growth is skewing to the negative side. 6. When females are promiscuous, men will do nothing because they will want to quench their libido, thereby reducing their time for work which makes civilization postpone. Cultures that have lower female promiscuity are always rational and full of energy. 7. Promiscuity affects both men and women negatively but differently. Women suffer more because they are the emotional sex, and base everything they do on emotions. Men are not emotionally bound to sex, unlike women. Hence, women suffer the aftermath of promiscuity the most. Only those that think men and women are equal want women to be as promiscuous as men. 8. A promiscuous woman has a lower value than a promiscuous man because men are not judged based on their sexuality, unlike women. Men value women for their sexuality. And a woman who is not chaste is a bad investment for a man. He wants to believe that his woman is chaste enough to bear his kids and nurture them. If he is not aware of their sexuality, he will be a victim of paternity fraud. 9. Why is she a bad investment? Because women absorb energy. As weaker sex, wherever you lead them they go. If they have had sex with men with different behaviors and characters they absorb a bit of this men at a time, forming a large part of their nature. 10. Most of the things women know are a result of their interaction with men. A woman is a representation of the quality of the men that surrounds her. If the men around her are nonchalant, she will become like them soon and even worst. 11. Men are not valued for their sexuality but for status and power. Engaging their libido will limit their desire for status and power; men are 24/7 h0rny. Take note: Let this misconception that women enjoy sex more than men be corrected today. For the record, men desire and enjoy sexual satisfaction more than women. Men desire more sexual duration than women. Men think and imagine sex daily and even have wet dreams more than women. The simple reason for this: is the high volume of testosterone hormone. 12. So, you see why men should also practice chastity. They can only practice chastity if women are unwilling to give sex - sex cannot happen without women's consent, ràpe is a rare exception. There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work. 13. Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive. They don't do well. 14. You would have thought that many Muslim nations would have been doing fine because females' promiscuousness is reduced; it's not the case because their men are allowed to engage with more than 1 woman. Refer to 12 above. And if you observe well in these nations, the rate of violence is high because mate distribution is unequal - young men don't have women because many of the women are wives to the high-status men. Where do you hear of terrorism most? Instinctually, women are the cause. 15. At the end of the day, promiscuity doesn't favor men and women. Women suffer more because the effect takes a negative turn on their emotions and psychology. And they only discover this when they get older and are rejected by most men. Refer to 8 above. Men on the other hand will not be productive, however, once they discover their level in the hierarchy and are at the bottom, they can make amend. But TIME is a factor that waits for no man. 16. Men are not getting married these days because females' promiscuity is without restraints and boundaries. Commitment to modern-day women is like sowing fertile seeds on rocky grounds. Women are getting more independent and arrogant, so they represent a bad mating choice. The corollary effect is that there is an increased rate of effeminate and weak men. Therefore, there can be no interlocking in love and holy matrimony. 17. To restore order, family law must be reviewed. Men must know that promiscuity limits their growth. Women must know that promiscuity truly damages them. No excuse whatsoever. Only the wise among them will survive this harsh reality. Men should take over leadership and authority and women as convenient companions making the best use of themselves and time. Thanks. 20 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Offpointng: 7:35pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
My Dad right now is a Grandfather of two kids from two daughters, the first 5years and the other 2 at just 56years old. said he married at 22years and as at then when he married my mum, He use to tell me he din even have a correct bed, furniture and home kits to house my mum but Yet she stayed and suffered with him for bout 5years or more until my Dad got a job at Sokoto state which really improved his status and to cut the whole story short, he's doing pretty well in his business, both of em using nice SUVS and now have a home of his. I on the other hand at my young age have lost hope/fate in marriage that I don't consider marriage in my life's plan atm and I'm few months away from finishing my NYSC. I'm not doing bad for myself atm but you see the Girls of our Generation now, many of em are leeches looking for innocent men to pest and feast on and I won't be that guy to have acquired everything and be looking to marry a lady who has not impacted my life, is a virgin and has prospects My mum's prayers have kept me going over the years, I also remember while growing up, she'll always wake us up every Friday midnight to pray for our Dad, ourselves and the family. to cut my epistle short, I crave to marry my mum's extract 6 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Cypress042: 7:49pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
In the generation we find ourselves today The longer the skirt the less attention you get, the shorter the skirt the more attention you get. All been said real men don't eat uncovered food, it can only serve as an appetizer  1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Na fool dey marry now |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by sageb: 8:53pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
chariisGRACE: you said the truth. Nowadays, some women are seen as sex objects. |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by MufasaLion: 9:05pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Is marriage a must? No. Moreover, you can have kids without being married. 2 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Blackoven: 9:07pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
CaveAdullam: Great discourse sir @CaveAdullam, this is priceless! A little diversion requiring your perspective: Knowing that bulk of women scary this days and (worthless) sex is everywhere. What advise will you give a young man in his mid-20s whose just starting life and finding his footing trying to secure capital to delve into business (through jobs here and there). Is it ideal to postpone marriage for a few years (age 29-34). Knowing that the economy is very harsh and one needs to build multiple streams of income. Is it also sensible to eschew postgraduate education (MSc and MBA) and solely focus on securing getting a better job and looking for other ways to generate capital. (Japa is out of the equation for now—funds ish). OR can postgraduate be combines with a job, business, (and marriage)? Thanks sir. I read posts from the posters below, (Guest/Ghostmode). I'll appreciate your contributions: @Messrs Franchasofficia, Emmaodet, Martinez39s and Tensazangetsu20. Thanks. 1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:07pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Nobody cares. 2 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Zonefree(m): 9:16pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Swear you don't care, Maggi  1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:17pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Zonefree: Sorry, ibo lo ti ja wa, bi dog without chain for im neck? Why are you in my mentions? Iwo ati tani ni Maggi? Maggi una your mouth there. 3 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Zonefree(m): 9:19pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Drink water when you're done bleating. 1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:20pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Blackoven:Hahaha I am the wrong person to quote o. I can never advise any man from a poor family or middle class family in Nigeria to marry except you want to suffer terribly 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
CaveAdullam can I employ you as my KD writer? don't worry about publishing I will handle that. Damn! how can one write a textbook over such a trivial topic?  This is pure talent wasting! 5 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Kobojunkie: 9:22pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
chariisGRACE:So you mean to say that during the time of your grandmothers and their mothers, when women and men alike walked around with barely nothing on, they were not equally as appealing and referred? You mean for us to believe that in tribes where women continue even to this day to walk around barely dressed, even after marriage, their men do not rever these women? To you, these women don't meet your craving for fleshly mystery and so were and remain nothing but commodities abi? 5 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:22pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Zonefree: Hit your head on a rock after you're done finding your way out of my mentions. 2 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
This thread has future entertainment. On threads like this, I post more than a comment  2 Likes |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Rechargeam247(f): 9:31pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Lol, this topic again. This isn't peculiar to the male gender though. We have people of both genders who share your sentiment. 1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Zonefree(m): 9:33pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Your mentions? Darling, this is Seun Osewa platform.1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Zonefree:Oga, contribute to the topic like your fellow men and stop forcing your presence on a lady. Intelligent or not, fellow guys are dropping epistles. Do same or get out! 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Zonefree(m): 9:41pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Persephone1:Bag of beans, you've been noticed.. shift abeg. 1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Lucrativress(f): 9:46pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
chariisGRACE:Abeg Les hear word And the modern day man is left out in the reasons for the problem abi |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Zonefree:Wrong description! I no fat I maintain, contribute to the topic or get out! 1 Like |
| Re: Are Men Really Having Low Interest In Getting Married? by Lucrativress(f): 9:49pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Boogyman557:Please please please And what are the values of the men of these day's? So every woman out there is the problem and you don't find it puzzling that a "good man with the man pride and all" can't pick a good woman out of the thousands? Maybe he is the problem Lemme find somebody's trouble Example @Abizz if he is a man |
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