God abeg help us

JOACHINpedro:

I swear . I never really understood why Squidward was so miserable till I hit 18.

I always knew that growing up is frustrating but damn, I never knew that it would be like this

buymyride:
can you please explain the picture to me. I’ve stared at it too long and still don’t understand it

You can only understand if you've watched SpongeBob. The guy in the picture was known for always being miserable.

Nye nye nye nye nye! Shut up

GreaterFuture:
Why the hell would any sensible Person think like that in the first place!
Even as a very young person, some of us never reasoned like that.

Y'all are really scaring me, and you are beginning to bring out a very intrinsic natural hatred, a hatred I never had or knew I had.

This post is full of extreme foolishness & illiteracy, moulded and sheilded in a world of Comfort, selfishness and Naivety... If things had been maybe a bit "better" for y'all (i.e getting married in time), you won't change or see Need to say sorry, then write this stupid Post.

And before you quote me, NO, I'm not old or frustrated, nor talking from a place of Pain. I'm not single, old and/or miserable. I'm not in any way undesirable. This is common sense

Early this year, when I was discussing the state of business in Nigeria's present economy or situation, I told my dad I now understand why he sometimes tell me to wait for 2 to 3 days before sending me my tuition fees, house(school) rent and others money back then and these figures are not small figures o.
He said thank God I have realized now and we both laughed it off and continued our discussion...

Thank God for life, God's mercy shall follow us all the days of our lives, Amen!

God bless every responsible parents and upcoming/future parents out there, Amen!

You made a mountain of sense, dear. Thank you!

MALIGNANTGuest:
Just like when I used to think my uncles abroad were all selfish and wicked. Now it's my turn. I have seen the reality. It's not easy too.
I now get calls to enroll people in schools whom I know nothing about

Learn to appreciate people especially when it's not their obligation to help you.
Your PARENTS are sole proprietorship of your life and not even your siblings, not to talk of uncles or cousins

MALIGNANTGuest:
Just like when I used to think my uncles abroad were all selfish and wicked. Now it's my turn. I have seen the reality. It's not easy too.
I now get calls to enroll people in schools whom I know nothing about

Learn to appreciate people especially when it's not their obligation to help you.
Your PARENTS are sole proprietorship of your life and not even your siblings, not to talk of uncles or cousins

lmao, just change ur number if u can't say no, my uncle did same, only a few very close family members has his number, though me & him chat alot, he is suprise I never ask him for anything..'i just say, uncle, don't worry, things dey fine over here'.. despite dat, d man dey extremely generous, shoes, phones, clothes etc. he go just surprise me..

GreaterFuture:

Hehehe. LOL! Haaa...
Obideints abusing Tinubu? Lol how does it connect
You make me laugh out loud, haha

I am talking d ones mocking tinubu health.

Oh! Life don hit am now he understands. Never judge anybody's path in life if you never experienced it.

Now he understands because he is single in his 30s.

PointZerom:


It is a big deal till tomorrow.

That is the kind of reaction you see from them when they are about to raise the white flag....
They are quick to forget that they are products of life's battles fought and won, gallantly or otherwise.

Dey give yoursef hope.It was not like that those years.

GreaterFuture:
Why the hell would any sensible Person think like that in the first place!
Even as a very young person, some of us never reasoned like that.

Y'all are really scaring me, and you are beginning to bring out a very intrinsic natural hatred, a hatred I never had or knew I had.

This post is full of extreme foolishness & illiteracy, moulded and sheilded in a world of Comfort, selfishness and Naivety... If things had been maybe a bit "better" for y'all (i.e getting married in time), you won't change or see Need to say sorry, then write this stupid Post.

And before you quote me, NO, I'm not old or frustrated, nor talking from a place of Pain. I'm not single, old and/or miserable. I'm not in any way undesirable. This is common sense

With all due respect, u sound like a narcissist. Or someone with bipolar issue.

So, it now a crime to make a mistake, realize a mistake, make restitution....?

People have opinion usually based on experience/engagements.

Wen we're young, u're liable to pick opinions of ur elderly ones. We call it Cognitive stage.

Wen we get older, with more experience, we can form our oun opinion. We call it Evaluative stage.

It's natural!

irunoko:
I don't understand.what are you ANGRY about? The guy just grew up and reality dawned on him about his entitlement mentality so why are you so furious? What's the foolishness or naievity in what he said?

I think d guy has issue sef...
Why raging?

THURAFTERNOON:


Nigeria has changed drastically.

This set of generation eh. Na only God go help us

buymyride:
can you please explain the picture to me. I’ve stared at it too long and still don’t understand it

Juanmike:
I still don't...

That's a photo of one of the cartoon character titled "Sponge Bob square pants".
The guy is always minding his business, he doesn't like people interfering his peace of mind.
"Squidward is actually goals because he works a job he doesn't like but he comes home to practice his instrument, paint his pictures, dance, sculpt... he doesn't let that job define him."

pansophist:
If you sha want peace, cut off people that will stress your life, that are there to take and adds nothing. Because if you die today and magically appear in ten years time, they will still be alive and thriving.

The bold statement is so true

GreaterFuture:

Even As a young kid, I never reasoned like, and I'm not the only one.

Don't be foolish, don't talk anyhow... listen and learn! Change and help your Upcoming generations

Ok sir

GreaterFuture:
Why the hell would any sensible Person think like that in the first place!
Even as a very young person, some of us never reasoned like that.

Y'all are really scaring me, and you are beginning to bring out a very intrinsic natural hatred, a hatred I never had or knew I had.

This post is full of extreme foolishness & illiteracy, moulded and sheilded in a world of Comfort, selfishness and Naivety... If things had been maybe a bit "better" for y'all (i.e getting married in time), you won't change or see Need to say sorry, then write this stupid Post.

And before you quote me, NO, I'm not old or frustrated, nor talking from a place of Pain. I'm not single, old and/or miserable. I'm not in any way undesirable. This is common sense

Great response Sir.Ma

Honestly, while growing up, I never expect any uncle, aunt, brother or sister to be responsible for my life other than my mum who raised me.
I started grinding and earning money for a living at the age of 14. I am in my 30s yet those I never expect anything from sometimes call in for assistance.

Really

JOACHINpedro:

Okay


Are we still on the same page

Co-asking o

Which single man still think of marriage in the first place?

The issue is clear, I'm now an uncle to many of them . I have good relationship with their father/mother, which are my brothers and sisters. But the issue now is, those my nephews don't call, they don't visit. In ensence we don't have any relationship, so if any of them wait until he need my help before reaching out to me I will not help that kind of person.

As a young chap if you want your uncle to be of help to you don't wait until you have problem before you visit or call, create a relationship with him shows to him that you care about him. It is then he will be able to help you when you need it

BABANGBALI:
I no dey give shishi







Na something David see, wey make am dance anyhow for God,
Baba help me see the same thing this month of November in Jesus name...Amen.

Na Bathsheba make uncle davido dance anyhow 4 chineke

BABANGBALI:
I no dey give shishi







Na something David see, wey make am dance anyhow for God,
Baba help me see the same thing this month of November in Jesus name...Amen.

Na Bathsheba make uncle davido dance anyhow 4 chineke

Stephen0mozzy:


Even if you have all the money in the world, you will still be a "Useless Uncle" to some of your extended family/relatives. Unless you want to live your life pleasing everybody, and dying unfulfilled, you can't please everybody.

Plus, it's like you're not taking up any responsibility just yet....still wishful thinking

Have so much responsibilities right now it's choking... Calm down and get my point..

No point promising people to the point of telling them to send account numbers.... If you don't have at the moment.. Just say later not... I tell people "right now I have so much bills on me.. Maybe later "

Not send your account Number and then build their hopes up especially for students in Uni Lol

fijiano202:


Have so much responsibilities right now it's choking... Calm down and get my point..

No point promising people to the point of telling them to send account numbers.... If you don't have at the moment.. Just say later not... I tell people "right now I have so much bills on me.. Maybe later "

Not send your account Number and then build their hopes up especially for students in Uni Lol

Hehe... I see where you're coming from

But sometimes, you can be expecting money and you make a promise based on that.. And then the money doesn't come... Or even when it doesn't matters arise that compete aggressively for the funds. So unless you're the sole sponsor of the person you promised, you'd want to sort out yourself first

okrikaboi:
Marriage is not a big deal. Focus on financial independence

Some people are quoting me with projections of their insecurities. Well let me paraphrase
Marriage is not compulsory you can live a fulfilled and happy life as a single person and it doesn't always translate to being lonely. Work on wealth creation, gain leverage against this harsh life to become a person of value to society. Especially as a man you do not need to marry don't let anyone pressure you.

LienwaltAbel:

I swear . I never really understood why Squidward was so miserable till I hit 18.

"Squidward is actually old people's goals because he works a job he doesn't like but he comes home to practice his instrument, paint his pictures, dance, sculpt... he doesn't let that job define him."
From reddit official account

SeunTheOwner:


Great response Sir.Ma

Honestly, while growing up, I never expect any uncle, aunt, brother or sister to be responsible for my life other than my mum who raised me.
I started grinding and earning money for a living at the age of 14. I am in my 30s yet those I never expect anything from sometimes call in for assistance.

No be even Hustle or money matter. Life as we know you are on your own
Na the Part of Saying people who are not married by the age of 30 are irresponsible,
What mumury!

VirileNelly2420:

With all due respect, u sound like a narcissist. Or someone with bipolar issue.

So, it now a crime to make a mistake, realize a mistake, make restitution....?

People have opinion usually based on experience/engagements.

Wen we're young, u're liable to pick opinions of ur elderly ones. We call it Cognitive stage.

Wen we get older, with more experience, we can form our oun opinion. We call it Evaluative stage.

It's natural!

Only a narcissist or someone with Bipolar, will know another one.
Somebody is not responsible because he has not gotten married at the age of 30?? Really?? With all due respect, You get kolo.

Maybe I should say or reprase it like this, he grew up around some really terrible, nasty people then, going by your analysis.

Hmmm

GreaterFuture:

Only a narcissist or someone with Bipolar, will know another one.
Somebody is not responsible because he has not gotten married at the age of 30?? Really?? With all due respect, You get kolo.

Maybe I should say or reprase it like this, he grew up around some really terrible, nasty people then, going by your analysis.

It's not necessarily growing up around nasty people, ok.

Wot if he had grown up around people da had early marriages? ...u know, sisters, brothers, uncle's, cousins. And so believed da someone who failed to marry by 30 is seen as a failure...

He can grow up and realize early/late marriage can be a thing of choice. Or maybe caused by factors wholly beyond someone.

I personally was labelling an uncle stingy when I was small cos after spending several years in Germany, he came back with nothing and was making unending promises.

I grew up and found out dat My father was covering sth from us. His brother has been in prison in Germany. Everything he had was confiscated by German govt, he got deported straight from prison.

So, wen we're less informed, we can always make flawed opinions.

Don't u think so?