immortalcrown:
Hmmm!

She is still alive and can change. But did the man change before dying? A married man that dates a 19-year-old girl is more guilty than the girl. I am not defending the girl. She herself is guilty. My point is your judgement is not balanced.

tommy589:

Do you want the man to date his mother's age mate ni?The girl is not a minor and it was beneficial to both parties

immortalcrown:
Should a married man have a romantic affair with another woman? Answer this question if you are ready for this discussion.

tommy589:

If he finds happiness in it, why not?

tommy589:


If he finds happiness in it, why not?

dat9jaguy:



Did you by any chance come from a broken home?
There is no justification for cheating in a relationship. If either parties are not satisfied with the union, they either talk it out or separate.
Please change your mentality, you are not sounding woke at all if that was your aim.

immortalcrown:
This your response shows your post is not based on morality. You believe it is wrong for the girl to cut the man off at a point. But you believe it is right for the man and the girl to have sexual affairs against the man's marriage. No need to argue further with you. Suit yourself.

tommy589:

At no time did I comment on the right or wrong of the relationship. You are of the purer moral code while I am different. Your purse and biological make up influence the choice you make when married

immortalcrown:
Selective justice. You don't want to look at whether the relationship between the man and the girl is wrong. But you jumped to judging how the girl treated the man.

tommy589:


I am not sure you read my comment before posting. Where in my comment did I judge the girl?

Why should I look,how is it my business or yours in a relationship between two consenting adults

tommy589:


So it is only people that comes from broken home that cheat? No day goes by without hearing something new.
For a fornicator,are you saying marriage is the antidote that stops extra marital affairs

immortalcrown:
It seems you don't know the meaning of the word, "judge". You claim you don't judge her. But you analyze she contributed to his death. Is your analysis not a judgement?

dat9jaguy:



Hey I'm talking about the ideal, which should be what any sane person should aspire to.
The ideal is be faithful to your spouse or you opt out of the union.
With your thinking, after you must have married if per chance you are tempted to cheat, you will do it without remorse.

tommy589:

Copy and post where I made such an analysis

immortalcrown:
Obviously, you are drunk. In your second paragraph, you imply she should be ashamed of herself. Without judging her actions, how were you able to conclude she has no shame? In your third paragraph, you emphasize the man's wife is a friend to the girl's aunty. Is this not judgement? In your last paragraph, you mentioned that karma will pay her back by snatching her own husband from her. Is this not judgement? In your caption, you say she contributed to the man's death. Is this not judgement?


Below is a screenshot of your post.

immortalcrown:
Obviously, you are drunk. In your second paragraph, you imply she should be ashamed of herself. Without judging her actions, how were you able to conclude she has no shame? In your third paragraph, you emphasize the man's wife is a friend to the girl's aunty. Is this not judgement? In your last paragraph, you mentioned that karma will pay her back by snatching her own husband from her. Is this not judgement? In your caption, you say she contributed to the man's death. Is this not judgement?

Below is a screenshot of your post.

tommy589:


You talk of couple separating as if you are talking of separating stones from beans. When you are married you will understand the complexity.

So you will separate from your partner of inestimable value just because he/she has lost or reduced urge in sex