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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by GUNITGuy: 1:58pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
For the sake of your children don't kick him out....He married you you married him....Pray and keep praying...when old age comes he would be your boy .....leave him to Prayers...... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Penguin2: 1:58pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Kobonaire234: I’m too busy to engage you in this conversation… My advise to the woman is simple… she should not kick her husband out, NEVER. You might not like the sound of it but “it’s a man’s world”, especially in Africa. Men can be excused for a lot of things they do but not women. That’s why you can’t be asking what if it was the woman that got pregnant outside her marriage. The African society is still hugely influenced by African culture and customs and you know these customs are sometimes misogynistic and until we get there, we just have to live by it. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by haslaw(m): 2:00pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
07kjb: Life2020 the bolded is your answer. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by harwokunle1236(m): 2:01pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
If u are Muslim n ur husband have a child outside apart from u,It is allowed in Islam,but in Christianity it is not allowed now If u are a xtain and ur husband Ave go against ur marriage vow ,u are free to divorce him n enjoy life don't Ave hypertension because of ur unfaithful husband. There are two clear biblical reasons where divorce is allowed. The first one being adultery/ sexual immorality,so u are free to divorce him. but u must remain unmarried. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by somegirl1: 2:01pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Too many idiots on here. Don't allow yourself be pressured into staying in a relationship where you're treated as shabbily as you've described. It might be difficult to envision now but you'll be better off without this man. Cut him loose so you can attain your full potential; he'll constantly be an impediment to your progress. When the time is right you'll meet someone better. In the end, we regret inactions more than we do actions. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by nkwuocha: 2:01pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
KanuSE:Omo even the ladies srlf are dumped for cheating.The madness is everywhere. She get money. She no really need the husband if she wise. Omo, preek no scarce |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by CSTRR: 2:01pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Let me give you the advise that I will give my sister. Get a lawyer and throw that Nigga out. But do it when your kids are not home and do it NOW. They are still young so it won't be as traumatic and they will have enough time to get used to it. He is holding you from your true potential. One day, he is going to sell your house without your knowledge, or worse. Don't forget he is the next of kin to you, if for any reason you are no longer available. Be wise. A disloyal husband to a wealthy wife is dangerous and vice-versa. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by DadaHammed: 2:02pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
PlayMaker14: I have a PhD, I am health professional and also an online instructor for a University in the USA, getting paid in dollars while I sit here in Nigeria. That's what I am doing with my life. Now can you beat that? Troll? ![]() |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by PlayMaker14: 2:03pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
DadaHammed:Online PhD.... ![]() Bloody hypocrite. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Ashley86400: 2:03pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Weirdcamila: If him leaving will bring peace to the home, it’s better that way. If the genders were revolved y’all would support the woman leaving. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by DadaHammed: 2:04pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
PlayMaker14: Call it what you what, if you click on my Linkedin profile, you go call me 'Sir'...20 times in 5 minutes if you chat me up from there. Troll... ![]() |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by MadarasBlade(m): 2:04pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Kick him out. A man who wold throw away his honor by living in his wife's house isn't worth being called a MAN. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Weirdcamila: 2:06pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Ashley86400: You are not understanding my point . She understands she stands to lose a lot once she kicks him out . Two heads better pass one even if na coconut head , the man get value but he Dey misbehave. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by CSTRR: 2:06pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
nkwuocha:Wetin she wan use the man do sef? He serves no purpose to her. she can't even fucckk him because he will want skin to skin and he is a high risk for diseases. He also does not provide anything financially. If there is ever a good case for a woman to divorce her husband, this is it. If she wan fucckkk, boys full outside and they would be cheaper too, and she can force them to wear condom. And She will have freedom to pursue her goals without that load of a husband. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by PlayMaker14: 2:06pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
DadaHammed:F0ol at 40 trolling with someone he called a kid... Online instructor indeed. ![]() Bloody hypocrite. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by KanuSE: 2:07pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Alaefulu: Don't be scared of a successful woman. ![]() |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by DadaHammed: 2:08pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
PlayMaker14: Well-done troll, check your life in the next 5 years, and see whether wetin I tell you no happen. You go still dey NL with another moniker dey waste.. ![]() |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by KanuSE: 2:10pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
nkwuocha: Not everyone is about prick or pvssy but genuine companionship, true affection, respect & faithfulness. ![]() |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by luluosas(m): 2:10pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Madam, in all that you said, I only saw one thing: PRIDE. You are so proud and arrogant. You felt that you have arrived, and therefore the principal of your home. Most people like are like this because you refused to know God. Anyway, it's your cross, carry it along. Life2020: |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Qurungu: 2:10pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.[/quote] Are you sure that guy is telling you the truth? Find out about the girl and the pregnancy first. You may be right, he may just want to wear you out with different tricks. You sound like you love him. Don’t be rash, assess the situation, talk with him and make a decision from what you find out. Something in me however thinks yours is a marriage worth fighting for. He may also actually be under a spell because some chick wants his money. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by nkwuocha: 2:12pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
KanuSE: I actually used preek because from her posts that's all the husband is offering. All these you listed is alien to her marriage so why stay? |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by PlayMaker14: 2:12pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
DadaHammed:I just checked your profile and I saw that you're actually mistaking me for yourself.... You opened the account this year, meaning you wasted 10yrs of your life with another account, you deactivated and opened this one. Now you're 40, a F0ol at 40 and still trolling. ![]() Bloody hypocrite. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by nwajesus12(m): 2:13pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
PlayMaker14:since is far away from you, Ewu |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by PlayMaker14: 2:14pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
nwajesus12:Efulefu, hope you're okay? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by luluosas(m): 2:14pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Don't twist the Bible to justify wrong please harwokunle1236: |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by nkwuocha: 2:15pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
CSTRR: To even cap it all, the man sef no want make she grow education wise .Him still won give her belle to pin her down. Worst mistake if she allows him do that! The op is hardworking mehn!Make she no allow the guy reduce her ambition. I like ambitious and hustling women. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by norriswood(m): 2:16pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020:.....u re such a wonderful woman u elevated ur husband with ur wealth, theres no need of kicking him out of the house, ask him the reasons why behaving in that manners nd be very careful of him, God will continue to be ur strenght nd keed ur kids alive |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by KanuSE: 2:18pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
MadarasBlade: You're not thinking straight - if the husband were your blood brother would you offer the same advice? |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by AllDModsAreMaad: 2:19pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020 I don't even know what to tell you. But let me try to add one or two things to what some people have replied you with. See ehn, you don't know who the next man is, what he looks like, his acts, what he will be after sometimes with you etc. Does your present husband hit you? I guess NO, judging from your post. That is a good one, at least your life is not in danger due to violence. Is he like that when you guys got married let's say the first 5 to 10 years? What changed? There was this lady I last year, she had a married man as a friend who happens to be her colleague at work while we were dating. To be honest, I had a good intention for her, This man and one other man keep telling her things that will make her leave the relationship just to have her. I found out one day when I visited her because she lives in her workplace staff quarters. I was stood close to her window for few minutes while listening to her discussion with one guy. As a sharp and smart guy, I left her when I heard her response(input) to the discussion and moved. Realizing what hit her after I left her, she became closer to the married man. Today, they are not together, maybe the guy don chop taya and decided to leave. PS: She is financially OK but she knows she is poor when compared to me, so money was never a thing in our relationship(past). The other men was after her money and body, the married one was even cruising around with her car at a point. At the end of it, the married guy will go back to his wife and she will be alone to face her life. My point is most of the time people carry rumour for many reasons, the man that told you about your husband's escapade, do you know his motive? When you approached your husband about it, what was his reaction and all that? Every marriage has its own challenges. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by grandstar(m): 2:19pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020 Your husband wants to have his cake and eat it too He wants more children so as to hold you down. It's a means of control Dump him fast and move on! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Richy4(m): 2:21pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
somegirl1: I don't know who you are but apart from your opening remarks which is not necessary, You won my highest vote based on your comment ![]() |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Originalsly: 2:22pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Hmmmm..... husband home to weather the storm.... hiding under your wrapper! .... farth on him ... kick him out! He's afraid of the lady and her family.... they not the smiling type. Husband's do cheat a lot ... Playas have their family covered ... family first.... fools do the opposite. The children will not be affected ... after all ... what difference will it make?.... he was never there in the first place. 1 Like |
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