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Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Tannhauser(m): 12:57pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
HaneefahRN: Kids she abandoned with the father? |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Camberlo(m): 1:00pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Even though she has right to have the girl too but she was wrong taken the girl out of your jurisdiction without your consent. From the post, it shows you have the custody of the kids for long ago and she appear but decided to okay smart on you. Anyway, that wasn't smartness but an action that could out her in jail. My story: I got seperated from my ex wife when she refused to pack into new house I built. I left the kids (2) with her but just few weeks after I packed into my new building with my second wife, she had emergency journey to make and she left the kids (5&11yrs alone in her flat to take care of themselves in a compound house. I called a call from the eldest that I should come and pick them. I inquired, why? The boy said their mother traveled and left them alone. From the boy voice it sound scare and confused, I was mad and felt betrayed, I asked my nephew to help me rushed to the house (10kilometres) away and packed the kids for me. She got hinted and called me, I didn't argued with her. She came back and visited their school to pick the kids, I had wrote to the school authority, on no account she should be allowed to pick them but she can visit them at home or school. She visited the school one certain Monday and revisit again on Tuesday, I asked the school authority not to do so again frequently. She visited my house after like 5months again, demanded to go away with the girl and I stopped her and the matter led to police station. At police station, they told her if she needs her daughter let her visit court because it's civil case. Since then, I didn't heard from her anymore, except if she call the lineline I bought for the kids to call me or other family members (nephew, uncles, nieces and grandparents) Me and my kids with my second wife living happily and no wahala. 3 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:02pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Travel to lagos now to rescue your daughter from her. Prospertochu: |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by frozen70(f): 1:04pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Thanks dear for appreciating my first advice Just be calm, She won't hurt her daughter, but I think she wants to be with one of her children But if she was smart enough, she would have allowed you keep those children and be visiting them till you guys can sort things out She may have switched off her number to just keep dealing with you Be calm and relax till you get her on phone This kind of matter have to be resolved amicably If you take the matter any where, they may end up giving her the sole custody of the children then you will be visiting her to see the children You see women, You can't know what is in that one's mind until she hatches it Take it calm and I pray she doesn't come back to take the rest children 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jelel6: 1:24pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
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Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Buksaylor: 1:35pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: You would have said no,if she asked you...I don't know you ,but my candid advice is to leave the gal with her... |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Invest4growth: 1:40pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
My girls my boys Entitlement mentality. Who told you that you singly own the children. Men should stop this irresponsible and irrational thinking. The woman could have looked for a sperm donor instead of you. So you are just fortunate to be the father of the triplet and you have the wherewithal to take care of them. Will you kindly and gladly sit with your ex and agree on co-parenting. So you expect her to come into the marriage empty and also exit empty. Feat God I beg. My girls My boys indeed! 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by brain54(m): 1:40pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Divorce: not good at all! At this age those kids are already been separated from their siblings. Their childhood is already been affected. I hope it doesn’t have a negative effect on them in future. |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by AFONJAPIG(m): 1:49pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Kidnap her mother and father |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by meobizy(f): 2:16pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Ex-wife drama. You two are bonded for life. My idiotic opinion means nothing in the grand scheme of things. |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Nobody: 2:19pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Call her and tell her to bring back your girl |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by cedricksly: 2:20pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu:the topic is misleading.... Oga leave the girl Child for her to nurture.... You have no business taking care of a girl Child when the mother is obviously alive, you didn't state in your long Sermon she(your ex) was irresponsible etc.. So you go to work and leave your girl Child at home with nobody and you are here saying you need your girl Child blah blah blah.. Ogs face front, you aren't the only one who has those children. 3 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Jennifer89(f): 2:41pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
I wonder how a mother will be able to sleep at night without her children 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Dshocker(m): 2:45pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: By right, all the children are supposed to be with their mother. You are making it sound like you own 100% right on the children alone. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 2:55pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
mardis: Stop with the emotional blackmail against men. From the story, She abandoned the kids, just relocated to lagos, does not have a stable or verifiable means of contact or livelihood and you don't care about a 3yr old safety in these conditions. Do you know little things like snatching a baby away from it's siblings, seriously scars them for life? 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by SaLongs1(m): 2:55pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Helpout12345:you've said it all |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Prospertochu(m): 2:56pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
frozen70: Thank you ma I am trying to stay calm but I am concern about my daughter safety , her mother had been to Lagos for 3 months I don't think she even has her own apartment or a job that she will be able to provide for the girl. Also I don't know who she is living with and the risk of her being sexually abused is high. I just hope she is safe and nothing will happen to her |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Princessdainty(m): 2:59pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Person carry triplets for 9months with all the complications of multiple birthing and you say she kidnapped her child?. Don't you have family members? Did a court grant you full custody of these kids or you're just at the advantage of a patriarchal system? Do you strap these kids to your back to go to work? Are a full time dad or just leave them at the mercy of a strange woman whilst you hunch on the entitlement of "my kids". Its a shame that in 2022, two Adults cannot come to terms and co-parent in peace. Unless you embarrass yourselves and traumatize your kids. Mtchewwwww 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by AreaFada2: 3:07pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Ulunne777: The mother that first abandoned the children? What kind of mother is that? What manner of watch is that? One that began with a kidnap and lies? |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:08pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Invest4growth: Kids she abandoned by herself and he still didn't refuse her access to them when she called?! A man could have also sought an egg donor/surrogate but they both didn't so boo you. At what part of his story did he deny co-parenting? Is there any point in your bitter lamentation that makes the kids not to be his own? They are still his boys and his girl, oya go and jump lagoon. |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:12pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Dshocker: make th.ndr from abortion clinic no go strike you oh! You sure say u follow the story at all. |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Bluntemperor: 3:16pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: I just de laugh,though,you de- boil for your ex- wife( ex- girl friend misbehaviour! •The truth is ,she is no longer a girlfriend o! •She has 3- God given Children for you! •She needs your attention and that is why she is doing that ( she is missing you and missing the Children)! Please,call,get her attention,get the Elders in your Family to formalised this Marriage! •Tell her you can still be together,she would honour you and forgive and forget and move on! Get settled down, perfect the Union ,na; don't allow these Children lives to suffer! Come and thank me later! 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by etrange: 3:25pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
A similar thread was created here last year (or earlier this year). A lady claimed her ex kidnapped thier son and Nairaland people attacked her for calling it "kidnap" when the guy is clearly the father. They said he just took his son. Surprisingly, the same Nairaland people seem to agree with the OP on this one. Lol... this life no balance. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:30pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
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Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:44pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Ogbeni, ur pikin head go don dey boil for pot O! If u like no go imo state now borrow Ebubeagu from gov hope make dem go disappear half of her family for village. Na dem go summon her by themselves with ogun, amadioha and otherwise. Make you dey there dey shout god forbid. Na christmas + election period be this including yahoo plus gang. Before you know sef, ur pikin video fit don enter child porn site. Woman wey never stay 5months for lagos come carry ur pikin dey go where dem no know na him u still dey here dey listen to all these woke f.o.ols and their spirit of confused bitterness? |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by UjuJoan2: 3:48pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Who have you custody of those kids in the first place. Sentiments aside, how come you ended up sold custodian of such young children? If I were your ex I’ll do this the right way, through the courts. 3 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Tobest94: 3:48pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Fountainofyouth:do you even know the meaning of failed parenting? Because their marriage didn’t work doesn’t mean they are or will become bad parent 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:52pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
cedricksly: tonda faya.. Won't Kids go to school? Do you yourself or the so called lady in this story spend the entire day with kids? If dropping kids with your own mum means nobody, suffice to know that other people's mothers aren't nobodys. So face front when you don't know what to say. |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by frozen70(f): 3:53pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Is it possible you give me her contact Where do you base |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:57pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Jennifer89: Women whose kids are dead, boarding or abroad should kill themselves? Then, She shouldn't have abandoned them! |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 4:10pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
UjuJoan2: Because the OP na simp! Woman wey formerly starved the man's mother, abandoned the kids by herself and just enter lagos less than 5mths dey get access to my kids say she dey mad ni? She wan go wear tally for cold room? |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by litaninja(m): 4:11pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
What are you even saying? mardis: |
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