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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Niceguyfirm: 5:16pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Where I come from uncle's are like second father. The uncle is harsh but the guy should have known the kind of uncle he has. Stop or just drastically minimize you visit. But if it's me, I won't step my legs in that house anymore but will keep the relationship with my cousins if we see outside or they come visiting. An uncle that complains about food, what else can he do for you? 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by infofta(m): 5:16pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
"Where have you been" is better than "you have come again" |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by alingo2013(m): 5:18pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Calvary247: Why did you call him Victor |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by vickydevoka(m): 5:19pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
jamesversion:Poor nephews n nieces the suffer. U no go understand |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by LordErrk: 5:19pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
But na wa o. How you sef go dey go person house like that, shame no dey catch you? You use that time to learn something that will give you money? |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by KAMOFLAG001(m): 5:23pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Have you read Proverbs 25:17 You'd understand better afterwards. God Bless You |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Asour: 5:24pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: Sorry. This is apt. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by badboyTee(m): 5:29pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1:alajenu so you never mature to reason say go in somewhere often makes someone lose value |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by ephraimlongkat(m): 5:30pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
When you go 4 times a week do you always eat and bring them nothing? And the lessons he's doing? |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Oyiboman69: 5:30pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
brain54:there's no way you can paint it... what the uncle did was wrong. I know someone who is still struggling but took his nephew to come live with him. the wife was very angry but the husband insisted, on the ground that he cannot leave the child without helping his education. today, the boy is the one doing practically all this house chores and even teach,wash and take care of their children while the wife have not much to worry about. he's a brilliant boy now which he's the who always takes first in his class. How can someone tell his own family not to visit because of food... food ooo,. There's no reason for that.if he dey,they manage,if e no dey,dey give him what they have and that's it. The boy even help with the children home work. I believe he wouldn't have said that if it is the wife's brother. food wen the boy go still boy in time to come or even help his children, that man is a disgrace to the society. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by vickydevoka(m): 5:30pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
brain54:Yes. But not kids o. This guy will never forget this |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by TheGift: 5:31pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: As a general rule, you shouldn't be to frequent in other people places and too available to be seen; it promotes see finish and increases the tendency of people taking you for granted. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Jeffy1206(m): 5:34pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
No matter how food is expensive, it shouldn't be a reason to blatantly tell someone that food is... That ur uncle is stingy, stay away from them. Teaching the children maths is something valuable. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Akugbe24(m): 5:36pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Some discussion are meant not to be discussed in open. Severing all tiers isn't the solution. He has told u point black your frequent visit is too much. Stop it and maybe visit them once in a month that way you gain your respect. |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by aklion: 5:38pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Better stay off from that house. Maintain your rep. But if u still keep going there, then I will join him to tell u that u are finishing there food... Try get sense. |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Peters1212(m): 5:41pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
If I may ask, how did u react when he said those things to you..Someone like me I would leave his house immediately and I won't step my foots ever again in his house. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Zeezenho: 5:41pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
GboyegaD: You see as you stingy reach.why you no share the advice make younger guys wey no get uncles learn. |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Zeezenho: 5:44pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Well the uncle was selfish and inconsiderate.his motives was not just the food. The op pays for the good with classes and attention he pays to his cousins. Oga op stay your house and mind your business.use your time wisely and you will be fine. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by GboyegaD(m): 5:44pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
FavouredNK: It still doesn't make it right. When a child acts like one, an adult should act like an adult. |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Oyiboman69: 5:44pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
jamesversion:the uncle is bad person no two ways about it. You can't just tell your family member not to come to your house because you always give him food. That foolishness and outdated too. this life that is moving fast these days that even your smallie for area go dey buy motor dey build house anytime na him person go dey treat anyhow because of food.... A boy who is capable of doing home work can as well work and earn money in no time. Its a sad thing that the boy has to learn the wicked way of life through his own cherished family member. This is how some people grow later to become a strong hearted adult cos of betrayal from loved ones. 3 Likes |
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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by jmichael259(m): 5:48pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: No, u will still respect and greet him as ur uncle but must now act according to his wishes by reacting symbolically as an african when person wronged you. How do i mean? Do not near that place till middle of January at least. If any thing takes you to his house, set 15/20mins alarm on ur phone OR JUST DO STANDING GREETING, excuse urself and leave immediately. Reject food in his house even if you came to introduce ur spouse to him or family meeting. He'll either apologise or snub you. Bt u go keep ur little remaining dignity. You weren't entirely wrong but his action was despicable. Somebody's uncle as in, substitute parent?! Tueh! 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by GboyegaD(m): 5:49pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Zeezenho: In summary, you can achieve whatever you set your mind on. As for your parents, it might seem they are harsh and do not care about your feelings, they are only doing in their way what they think is best to guide your feeble heart. Some mistakes are best avoided and in all you do, remember the world is looking up to you. Also, in my final year, he told me not to rush to pick any job as once I start working, no one would try to help get me into a good place and if the pay is bad, I will be frustrated by month end when my various cousins look up to me. He said, "it is better you are not working and we all give you money by month end than you are working and squeezing face when your younger ones and cousins come to you." In essence, it is what we all know, I think the difference was the fact that he made me see it in a better light. And since then, I had a steady N5k extra every month from him to add to my monthly allowance from my parents alongside my undergraduate Oil and Gas scholarship. |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by BarrElChapo(m): 5:50pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: See what the Bible says bro 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Patriotsleague: 5:50pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
PV uncle, you don't need such uncle anyway. |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Cuttycool(f): 5:51pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Very wrong of you to be visiting your uncle 4 times in a week. It's too much. |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by smasher1(m): 5:52pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
brain54: Once a week is too much to visit anyone not to talk of 4 times weekly. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Jackanda1(m): 5:54pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1:Don't act angry or aggresive towards him. Greet him and keep a cool countenance, but keep your distance. Learn from this situation and accept that you are at fault for visiting too often and constituting a 'see finish' situation. I stayed with an uncle for 2 months when i was job hunting and broke. I had the most depressive moments staying with. He was aggresive, abusive, manipulative and likes to put me down in every way possible. This is someone that use to respect and speak to me politely. I had to leave his house after a months so as to kill the 'see finish spirit'. Its better to be seen once in a while than too often, otherwise you become cheap. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Brownshoe: 5:57pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Correct baba don't mind those people hailing his useless uncle, how much food the op will eat, what if his parents are no more, won't he take care of him? I guess op kan is not of age , how will u be visiting someone four times a week don't you work? Richy4: |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Messi1: Where do people keep their pride, self respect and dignity? How can you be visiting someone 4 times in a week? It’s not in my place to tell you you deserved what you got so I wouldn’t tell you that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by zed7: 6:00pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Learn to do things in moderation. Even the bible advices us. 1 Like
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Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by Tzar(m): 6:00pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
I cannot believe how insensitive and entitled you are. Gosh! Nigerians are just a rare breed of MAD! Do you eat his food or not?! The fact is that the SELF ACCLAIMED value you contibute to his family for eating ALL his food was not solicited or appreciated! If you cannot reject their food and go there just for the love you claim you have for his kids, STAY THE F*CK AWAY FROM THEIR FAMILY, YOU SELF RIGHTEOUS GLUTTON!! |
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