he would rather us kiss every second am with him than talk seriouly like we r in a healthy relationship.what should i do?

Good for you,, or don't you like it?

just kidding

run far far away

Maybe all he wants from you is a soft body to make out with. At least he's not pretending otherwise.

i think that's sweet could be he cant contain himself when he's around you
could be that's his nature, could be that's all he wants from you, could be he doesnt want to get serious with you, could be anything but just enjoy while it last

He seems unserious 2 me.How is he supposed 2 know how u feel,wat u think n stuff.U should let him kno there's more 2 u than ur lips.

we need more info on your guy.

What is there to talk about if the relationship is going ok? Or are you unnecessarily talkative?

just talk to him, and tell him that while you Do enjoy the constant canoodling that you would like to take it down a notch and actually try having a converstion every so often,

ah well, we both know that choices of pre-occupation vary for different peoples. Constant canoodling don't hurt nothing. besides there might be nothing worth talking about (to him), or you're bad at conversations, and he's afraid to tell you. Or he's not just into you for the sound of your voice.

Besides, canoodling doesn't always have to be hot. Or doesn't talking-while-kissing work? I seen peeps do it.

well if he is your boyfrend then he must at least want to get to know you and while canoodling doesnt hurt, he cant get to know you if his tongue is constantly shoved down your throat. lol.

it may be that u dont get with him often or long enuff. can be kiss for a whole day?? next time, be wit him for a day, he ll probbly kiss u for an hour (or max 2) and then, i guess, he ll have to talk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fela self don talk am say girls go wan do, but go dey shakara.

If u are not liking it, then nobody is forcing u to Kiss

Actually, better u thank God for giving u a Romantic Guy

Is ur guy a white guy?

Actually that sounds more like a black guy-- Naija guy. Na dem way.

;Dkiss kiss kiss

macalurs:

Actually that sounds more like a black guy-- Naija guy. Na them way.

wats gives dat impression ?nw u telin me only naija guys has dan mentality of kissin dan talkin, come men , wake up

American guys actually talk. The reason a guy would kiss-- or want to kiss that often is simple: He's new to it. Americans can kiss anywhere, I mean anywhere, they have the whole day, and weeks to do it. So if the girl wants to talk, yeah they will talk, easy-- and continue with the kissing spree.

The naija guy might have kissed a girl before, but he probably never had a naija girl that obliged very often. You know naija girls.

Besides the guy might not even be disturbing that much, just being a guy. And the girl is just being a naija girl. not trying to say naija girls don't like kissing alot, but she might be shy and not know it.

Be watchful and vigiland because your adversary the walketh about seeking whom he may devour.


Be careful

some have food but cannot eat
some can eat but have no food
i have food, and i can eat et al

You, i dont know what to say to you.
Ur BF kisses you a lot and ure complaining.
wait, till you read from someone who her BF F**ks 10 times daily.

Let him no how u feel, if he does not want to talk drop a note.

@poster: obviously ur b.f wants ur lips more than the words that come out of them! i guessthey must be gorgeous. . nw really, u gotta tell him know u need quality verbal conversaton as well. pple get to bond better mentally and psychologically when they can interact and share similarities in the pattern of reasonng and not just kissing.

You girls, na wa for you all. If man demand for sex,you would say na player, now, the guy kisses you at will & you still dey complain. What then should men do?

abi your guy get mouth odourrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

cheers

Does your guy have mouth odour or what?

abi now

nisan10:

Does your guy have mouth odour or what?

roflmao

Dont let a fool kiss you and dont let a kiss fool you

poster, your situation depends on whether ur boyfriend has never had a good kiss like urs in any of his past relationships, maybe urs is probably the first kiss, or he might find your lips and saliva breathtaking. I once had a girl who I felt the same way about, we kiss more than we talk, because her kissing way and her saliva is just too perfect.

If you really want to know that he is serious about the relationship, tell him to take you to a restaurant and have a cozy time together, normall Nigerians dont kiss in Public unlike the white people. Then observe his conversational attitude. The you can differentiate from there.

i think the guy is just after your body. Let go if possible my dear. The right guy will come soon.

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essss whaddayamin!!! don't try to paint them bad joh, i've gat a bf and he talks well also dated a whitey who just wanted to shag evertime so stop with the generalisation. ok that aside@ topic and you are complaining because?? maybe its cos you're a lot smarter with your mouth closed. just kidding or maybe he can't get over your sumptous delicious lips let him kiss you johhh

dappssee:

Dont let a fool kiss you and dont let a kiss fool you

nice . .  

@poster
U have a romantic guy and U are still complaining,If U have issues on your mind,tell him am sure he would be willing to talk.