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How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Hatrick01: 8:52am On Jan 26, 2023
I regret doing all i ve done to make this girl happy.

I thought doing that will make her respect not knowing that the reverse is the case.

Imagine, just bcause i ve been playing with this girl for long, she no longer respects me again.

She now walks out of me while i am still talking, and i hates that which she already knew.
I told her that i will slap her one day but she told me that me and her know that i coulnt lay my hands on a defenceless girl.

If i get angry and decide not to give her attention again, she will burst into tears (which i now believes its fake) and my heart will be filled with pity.
I would then forgive her.

But tomorrow she will still repeat thesame thing.

Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Jashub: 8:58am On Jan 26, 2023
She is manipulative, and you should do yourself a favor and walk out of that relationship before it becomes toxic. As man , never take disrespect from any woman , even if she is your sister. Lastly , work on yourself: have money , go to the gym , look strong and capable. Women will flock to you and you will have the option to replace as many as you want

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Dshocker(m): 8:58am On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
I regret doing all i ve done to make this girl happy.

I thought doing that will make my relationship last without knowing that the reverse is the case.

Imagine, just bcause i ve been playing with this girl for long, she no longer respects me again.

She now walks out of me while i am still talking, and i hates that which she already knew.
I told her that i will slap her one day but she told me that me and her know that i coulnt lay my hands on a defenceless girl.

If i get angry and decide not to give her attention again, she will burst into tears (which i now believes its fake) and my heart will be filled with pity.
I would then forgive her.

But tomorrow she will still repeat thesame thing.

Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.

Braaa put yourself up for adoption, or better still, donate your heart to the museum.

So people can pay money to come see the most fragile heart ever liveth.

This is what happens when your mother chooses to breastfeed you with cowbell instead of her own milk.

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Abfinest007(m): 8:59am On Jan 26, 2023
Start chasing after other girl.there"s no competition ,d reason she is misbehaving

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Hatrick01: 9:01am On Jan 26, 2023
Jashub:
She manipulative and you shoulf yourself a favor and walk out of that relationship before it become toxic
loosing her wont be that easy for me bro.

I just want to gain respect without loosing her.

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Wawelexy(m): 9:02am On Jan 26, 2023
Abfinest007:
Start chasing after other girl.there"s no competition ,d reason she is misbehaving

You said it all...

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Jashub: 9:02am On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
loosing her wont be that easy for me bro.

I just want to gain respect without loosing her.
I just edited my first post . Read it again o
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Hatrick01: 9:05am On Jan 26, 2023
Jashub:
I just edited my first post . Read it again o
i gat it bruh
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by superCleanworks(m): 9:11am On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.

doing the same thing the same way and expecting different results. that is the GRAND example of stupidity.

fly wey no dey hear word.....
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Yugoslavia247(m): 9:19am On Jan 26, 2023
Take this advise.

Be unpredictable.

Be happy now. Next thing you are angry.

When she does something wrong no waste time.

See her as child. Send her on errands. If she wants to eat make sure she goes and buy for you two.

When she tries to walk away. Hold her hand and tell she is going no where. If she like let her do her worse. If you do it two times. She won't walk away.

Show love but let your head be correct. No gal likes a guy that is too loving. It bores them. Don't overlook everything. You will spoil her just like a child.

Sometimes don't pet her. Make her say sorry when she does wrong. Maybe Playfully but you are teaching her.

Always try to not talk so much around her when she pisses your off. Again, have a lot of female friends. Gals like a guy loved by other gals.

Don't make her unjealous.

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Hatrick01: 9:54am On Jan 26, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Take this advise.

Be unpredictable.

Be happy now. Next thing you are angry.

When she does something wrong no waste time.

See her as child. Send her on errands. If she wants to eat make sure she goes and buy for you two.

When she tries to walk away. Hold her hand and tell she is going no where. If she like let her do her worse. If you do it two times. She won't walk away.

Show love but let your head be correct. No gal likes a guy that is too loving. It bores them. Don't overlook everything. You will spoil her just like a child.

Sometimes don't pet her. Make her say sorry when she does wrong. Maybe Playfully but you are teaching her.

Always try to not talk so much around her when she pisses your off. Again, have a lot of female friends. Gals like a guy loved by other gals.

Don't make her unjealous.
i appreciate but please, can u enlight me more?
@ bolded
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by tayo60(f): 10:27am On Jan 26, 2023
U need to become an alpha male and exercise your position of authority over her, tell her the penalty for anything she does wrong and make sure you enforce it when she misbehave. U will get your respect back, if your girlfriend can't respect you while dating, forget it, she won't respect you after marriage.

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by meobizy(f): 10:27am On Jan 26, 2023
Una wey dey do relationships dey make me wonder.

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Nicepoker(m): 10:31am On Jan 26, 2023
Why do want to loose your mind because of a common vagina creature.

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Jennyclay(f): 10:42am On Jan 26, 2023
Woman beater!

List the things you've even done for her that make you have the thought of slapping her? Have you spent up to #1 billion on her?

When you keep giving her chicken change like 1k, 3k, 5k, why won't she disrespect you undecided.

Biko, up your game, don't be a stingy ko ko boyfriend! Shior!

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Jennyclay(f): 10:42am On Jan 26, 2023
tayo60:
U need to become an alpha male and exercise your position of authority over her, tell her the penalty for anything she does wrong and make sure you enforce it when she misbehave. U will get your respect back, if your girlfriend can't respect you while dating, forget it, she won't respect you after marriage.
You should have asked him how much has he even spent on his girlfriend that demand respect.
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Hatrick01: 12:33pm On Jan 26, 2023
Jennyclay:
Woman beater!

List the things you've even done for her that make you have the thought of slapping her? Have you spent up to #1 billion on her?

When you keep giving her chicken change like 1k, 3k, 5k, why won't she disrespect you undecided.

Biko, up your game, don't be a stingy ko ko boyfriend! Shior!
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Hatrick01: 12:34pm On Jan 26, 2023
Jennyclay:
Woman beater!

List the things you've even done for her that make you have the thought of slapping her? Have you spent up to #1 billion on her?

When you keep giving her chicken change like 1k, 3k, 5k, why won't she disrespect you undecided.

Biko, up your game, don't be a stingy ko ko boyfriend! Shior!
and apart from her bottomless pit, what else have she offered me?

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by marlow1962(m): 12:50pm On Jan 26, 2023
Op na boy, em no be MAN.
All these advice here, but the best is the one you give to yourself.
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Yugoslavia247(m): 12:58pm On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
i appreciate but please, can u enlight me more?
@ bolded

Keep female acquittances be very friendly when talking with women. Make them laugh. This will make her jealous.

You need to be the price.

A man is tough.
Solid.
Takes charge.
Never fear to say your mind to your woman. You can always apologize but you already made a point.

Women love men with balls. It keeps the respect.
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Hatrick01: 1:08pm On Jan 26, 2023
Yugoslavia247:


Keep female acquittances be very friendly when talking with women. Make them laugh. This will make her jealous.

You need to be the price.

A man is tough.
Solid.
Takes charge.
Never fear to say your mind to your woman. You can always apologize but you already made a point.

Women love men with balls. It keeps the respect.
wow

I think i will try this out,

Tnx man!!!
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by jeromestarks: 1:19pm On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
I regret doing all i ve done to make this girl happy.

I thought doing that will make her respect not knowing that the reverse is the case.

Imagine, just bcause i ve been playing with this girl for long, she no longer respects me again.

She now walks out of me while i am still talking, and i hates that which she already knew.
I told her that i will slap her one day but she told me that me and her know that i coulnt lay my hands on a defenceless girl.

If i get angry and decide not to give her attention again, she will burst into tears (which i now believes its fake) and my heart will be filled with pity.
I would then forgive her.

But tomorrow she will still repeat thesame thing.

Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.

Op, you're stupid. I hope you know that?
The girl has manipulated you and she's still manipulating you.
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Gadafii: 1:45pm On Jan 26, 2023
A girl who adds nothing to your life is holding you hostage like this, I am sure you are the buying her data,clothes, subscriptions, wigs, etc and you are still being treated like a weak man that you are🤨🤨

Stop entertaining her nonsense, and kick her out of your house if she’s staying with you, go out and flirt with other girls, stop rushing to reply her texts, form busy for her and if she does what piss you, ignore her, spend more time with your guys than you do with her, if you ask for sex and she said no, no think am twice , leave her alone, limit how much time she spend in your house, if you give her allowance or money before stop now brrr, as a man that knows how women operates, you should have more than one options… you don give her too much power, these are some of the few ways to take that power from her

It pains me that guys allow these jobless girls out leashes on them, while you are the one trying to make her happy 🤒🤨

Stop being a weak man, and lastly look for ubunja threads and soak your self in it, women are not to taken serious or put on your head, place them on your shoulder, if she do small shakara, shake them off, there are thousands of them out there

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by spencekat(m): 2:00pm On Jan 26, 2023
As a man don't always be emotional when interacting with women or girls.Being emotional will cost you,your peace of mind.I learnt this in a hard way.

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by donaldking10: 3:33pm On Jan 26, 2023
Dshocker:


Braaa put yourself up for adoption, or better still, donate your heart to the museum.

So people can pay money to come see the most fragile heart ever liveth.

This is what happens when your mother chooses to breastfeed you with cowbell instead of her own milk.

bro i can't stop laughing. 🤣😂😂
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Oyiboman69: 3:43pm On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
I regret doing all i ve done to make this girl happy.

I thought doing that will make her respect not knowing that the reverse is the case.

Imagine, just bcause i ve been playing with this girl for long, she no longer respects me again.

She now walks out of me while i am still talking, and i hates that which she already knew.
I told her that i will slap her one day but she told me that me and her know that i coulnt lay my hands on a defenceless girl.

If i get angry and decide not to give her attention again, she will burst into tears (which i now believes its fake) and my heart will be filled with pity.
I would then forgive her.

But tomorrow she will still repeat thesame thing.

Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.
scarcity
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Rexymania(m): 6:14pm On Jan 26, 2023
Your problem
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by ikeno(m): 6:47pm On Jan 26, 2023
Respect is earned by respecting yourself,stop being too clingy,add value to your life.

If she does something you don't like just ignore for some time even when she start crying her crocodile tears just give her space.

A girl you do everything for and doesn't add value to your life still disrespects you.😏

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Autobot05: 6:53pm On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
I regret doing all i ve done to make this girl happy.

I thought doing that will make her respect not knowing that the reverse is the case.

Imagine, just bcause i ve been playing with this girl for long, she no longer respects me again.

She now walks out of me while i am still talking, and i hates that which she already knew.
I told her that i will slap her one day but she told me that me and her know that i coulnt lay my hands on a defenceless girl.

If i get angry and decide not to give her attention again, she will burst into tears (which i now believes its fake) and my heart will be filled with pity.
I would then forgive her.

But tomorrow she will still repeat thesame thing.

Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.

once you start taking disrespect from a woman .. she will always continue . You better end the relationship and find better things to do than to stay with her while she keeps triggering you. A woman that loves you and doesn't want to lose you wont trigger you. It's her loss , most girls are very disrespectful these days.

Run away from people that bring the madness
madness out of you - embrace people that bring the creativity in you.
God help you

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Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jan 26, 2023
My brother i would recommend that you drink esteemed juice or u pay your nepa esteemed bill. If not that girl will pay your school fees and bride price. Hmmmmmm. I rest my case. Aristotle has spoken oh.
Re: How Do I Regain My Esteem That I Ve Lost To My Girlfriend? by StrongAlphMale: 7:06pm On Jan 26, 2023
Hatrick01:
I regret doing all i ve done to make this girl happy.

I thought doing that will make her respect not knowing that the reverse is the case.

Imagine, just bcause i ve been playing with this girl for long, she no longer respects me again.

She now walks out of me while i am still talking, and i hates that which she already knew.
I told her that i will slap her one day but she told me that me and her know that i coulnt lay my hands on a defenceless girl.

If i get angry and decide not to give her attention again, she will burst into tears (which i now believes its fake) and my heart will be filled with pity.
I would then forgive her.

But tomorrow she will still repeat thesame thing.

Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.

You're one of the majority of simps out there we've been talking about.

That girl don since you finish and has no regards for you anymore. There's nothing else you can do to earn her respect. She lost every atom of respect and value for you the moment you kept pleasing and doing everything she wanted. Plus the emotional manipulations she's using on you too. You're a simp and a weakling.

And of course she has no value for you anymore. In other words, you're valueless to her. You're too available and you kept giving her so much attention, this is exactly why she no longer has respect for you. Weak man!

When we say you should bang their pussy, dump them and move on. Una go think say we dey joke

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