Foxyfox:
Yes, I know I am not yet his responsibility. But sincerely even if I have my money self, I can't imagine a marrying a man that can't spend on me. It just make we women happy and love more sincerely. I can't even imagine me marrying someone who can't even gift me things, I can't ... The problem is, this thing is hurting me and it's killing the relationship, I expect he should know what to do. I can't even mention it to him.

That's problem of Nigeria girls, how many times have you spend on him with the little you have?

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum. I will go straight to the point. I and my man started dating since like October last year, I am a student, and my man is a government worker, who earns well and he even the boss at his place of work.

But the issue I gave is, yes this man wants to marry me, but he doesn't give me good money, even despite him knowing some of my situation. He only me 1k or at times, 500, once in a very while. Sincerely I love this man,and he does too. But the not giving me money is the part that is really hurting me.

I haven't discussed it with him, cuz I am a shy type and I don't even know how to open my mouth concerning an issue like that, cuz I believe Its not my money. Whenever I seek for help in his DM, he wont reply the message.

And I don't intend discussing it with him cuz I don't know how. This thing is killing me and I don't just know what to do, we have been together for like 6months now.

What can it mean, pls I need a sincere answer.

I stand with girls but not in all cases.
Are you looking for love or a sponsor?
A lady should carry herself with dignity and pride. Does that mean without a man, you will starve? A lady should be satisfied with what she has. No let them carry you go where you no know o.

But that man stingy, he knows that he is dating a student, what does he expect?
No open leg for am without condom because if belle enter, na you go suffer am.

My advice is focus on your studies, if he give you collect, if he no give you dey look.

Autobot05:
ok you're a lady right .?
Do you also give your boyfriend money to show him you love him or it's a one sided thing

( I'm expecting you to say yes tho which is probably a lie )

Unfortunately, you will never know.
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One of the reason I don't date students, You must have finish NYSC as well. Nah those old men when they find young meat, they find 100 level girls

Cocao:


Unfortunately, you will never know.
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I get it lmao ... better than telling a straight up lie

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum. I will go straight to the point. I and my man started dating since like October last year, I am a student, and my man is a government worker, who earns well and he even the boss at his place of work.

But the issue I gave is, yes this man wants to marry me, but he doesn't give me good money, even despite him knowing some of my situation. He only me 1k or at times, 500, once in a very while. Sincerely I love this man,and he does too. But the not giving me money is the part that is really hurting me.

I haven't discussed it with him, cuz I am a shy type and I don't even know how to open my mouth concerning an issue like that, cuz I believe Its not my money. Whenever I seek for help in his DM, he wont reply the message.

And I don't intend discussing it with him cuz I don't know how. This thing is killing me and I don't just know what to do, we have been together for like 6months now.

What can it mean, pls I need a sincere answer.

U didn't love this man.you only love to have money.

How do you manage b4 you meet him
,just continue that way.

That is an entitlement mentality

Every good home will train thier child not to accept anything from anybody.

I will not pray for you to met yahoo boys to shower you with money and at the end sacrifice you for ritual

Mtchewww

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum. I will go straight to the point. I and my man started dating since like October last year, I am a student, and my man is a government worker, who earns well and he even the boss at his place of work.

But the issue I gave is, yes this man wants to marry me, but he doesn't give me good money, even despite him knowing some of my situation. He only me 1k or at times, 500, once in a very while. Sincerely I love this man,and he does too. But the not giving me money is the part that is really hurting me.

I haven't discussed it with him, cuz I am a shy type and I don't even know how to open my mouth concerning an issue like that, cuz I believe Its not my money. Whenever I seek for help in his DM, he wont reply the message.

And I don't intend discussing it with him cuz I don't know how. This thing is killing me and I don't just know what to do, we have been together for like 6months now.

What can it mean, pls I need a sincere answer.

Your man is stingy. That's the simple truth.

Don't expect this behaviour to change even after you're married to him. Even when you're independent financially, he won't ask to "add" to the family expenses as he expects you would handle it all.

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum. I will go straight to the point. I and my man started dating since like October last year, I am a student, and my man is a government worker, who earns well and he even the boss at his place of work.

But the issue I gave is, yes this man wants to marry me, but he doesn't give me good money, even despite him knowing some of my situation. He only me 1k or at times, 500, once in a very while. Sincerely I love this man,and he does too. But the not giving me money is the part that is really hurting me.

I haven't discussed it with him, cuz I am a shy type and I don't even know how to open my mouth concerning an issue like that, cuz I believe Its not my money. Whenever I seek for help in his DM, he wont reply the message.

And I don't intend discussing it with him cuz I don't know how. This thing is killing me and I don't just know what to do, we have been together for like 6months now.

What can it mean, pls I need a sincere answer.

If he is a good man

Just discuss with him

Explain to him that the money he is giving you is not enough to do some things

He will understand and change.

When a stingy Man marries, he spends for his wife without a thought...! Cuz he ain't got no choice...!Maybe he's testing you sha..!When a stingy Man marries, he spends for his wife without a thought...! Cuz he ain't got no choice...!Maybe he's testing you sha..!...

Leave him

He doesn't love you


A man that loves you will spend on you

gold digger

You dated this man for five months and then you're complaining at the sixth month.

Knowing fully well that you're not supposed to depend on him for financial support at this level of the relationship why do it?

Hope you're not listening to friends or influenced by the things you see..

It's obvious you're a good person but you're beginning to feel entitled which isn't good. It's his Money, if he decides to give u fine, if he doesn't still fine.. that's how it should be till he marries you..

If he's loving you right, treating you right and your only problem is you not gaining financially from him then just know you're the problem.

My Advice:
take your eyes off his money..
Love him right,
develop yourself,
dress well,
look good,
Smell good
Respect him,
(If you already started having sex). give him very good sex when it's necessary.
Give him good reasons respectfully if you're not ready for sex.
Don't ever tell him you'll not give him sex because he's not attending to your needs..

Do these things and this man will never be able to breathe without you... If you end up marrying him he'll have no choice than to lavish on you.. cheers

Foxyfox:
Yes, I know I am not yet his responsibility. But sincerely even if I have my money self, I can't imagine a marrying a man that can't spend on me. It just make we women happy and love more sincerely. I can't even imagine me marrying someone who can't even gift me things, I can't ... The problem is, this thing is hurting me and it's killing the relationship, I expect he should know what to do. I can't even mention it to him.

If you have a future with him, you should bring the topic up it's for your good, as I said he might not even be aware and if he truly loves you he would make changes for the good of you and him.

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum. I will go straight to the point. I and my man started dating since like October last year, I am a student, and my man is a government worker, who earns well and he even the boss at his place of work.

But the issue I gave is, yes this man wants to marry me, but he doesn't give me good money, even despite him knowing some of my situation. He only me 1k or at times, 500, once in a very while. Sincerely I love this man,and he does too. But the not giving me money is the part that is really hurting me.

I haven't discussed it with him, cuz I am a shy type and I don't even know how to open my mouth concerning an issue like that, cuz I believe Its not my money. Whenever I seek for help in his DM, he wont reply the message.

And I don't intend discussing it with him cuz I don't know how. This thing is killing me and I don't just know what to do, we have been together for like 6months now.

What can it mean, pls I need a sincere answer.

Why do most girls see dating or relationship as poverty alleviation programe? If you are broke and need money why not look for work than relationship. Don't be a leeche

Foxyfox:
Yes, I know I am not yet his responsibility. But sincerely even if I have my money self, I can't imagine a marrying a man that can't spend on me. It just make we women happy and love more sincerely. I can't even imagine me marrying someone who can't even gift me things, I can't ... The problem is, this thing is hurting me and it's killing the relationship, I expect he should know what to do. I can't even mention it to him.

Can thunder just fire this ur mouth. U can't marry someone who can't gift you things, how many hv u gifted him. True True simps dey suffer

He doesn't love u one bit. I'm sure u re just dating urself..

I will advise u move on.

Nonywendy:

Why do most girls see dating or relationship as poverty alleviation programe? If you are broke and need money why not look for work than relationship. Don't be a leeche

Its greed....and thats what makes them blind to redflags, easy to use by adultrous men, and easy to hurt.......

U are dating oga in goverment civil service, how many less than 40 year old oga has she seen in goverment's civil service... there is a very huge chance the guy is married and just playing her.....

polite2:
He doesn't love u one bit. I'm sure u re just dating urself..

I will advise u move on.

If the man decides to give her N2500 tomorrow, will you declare then that he loves her?

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum. I will go straight to the point. I and my man started dating since like October last year, I am a student, and my man is a government worker, who earns well and he even the boss at his place of work.

But the issue I gave is, yes this man wants to marry me, but he doesn't give me good money, even despite him knowing some of my situation. He only me 1k or at times, 500, once in a very while. Sincerely I love this man,and he does too. But the not giving me money is the part that is really hurting me.

I haven't discussed it with him, cuz I am a shy type and I don't even know how to open my mouth concerning an issue like that, cuz I believe Its not my money. Whenever I seek for help in his DM, he wont reply the message.

And I don't intend discussing it with him cuz I don't know how. This thing is killing me and I don't just know what to do, we have been together for like 6months now.

What can it mean, pls I need a sincere answer.

There's something you girls have to understand when asking men for money...the fact is not all of them actually have that money.

You said he's a government worker. The question here is how much do government workers earn? Most don't even earn up to 100k on net (boss or not). Especially state government workers.

And if that's his case, it means he doesn't have money. A salary of less than 100k in Nigeria today is just peanuts. And as a man, he'll definitely have parents, siblings and other personal expenses he'll be taking care of.

For now, you're still his girlfriend and not his wife, if he keeps sending money to you and you abscond tomorrow with a much wealthier guy, what next?

He told you he wants to marry you, if you what you want isn't marriage but free money, just end whatever it is you have with him and look for a Yahoo boy or sugar daddy and date and stop mounting unnecessary pressure on him.

Kobojunkie:
If the man decides to give her N2500 tomorrow, will you declare then that he loves her?

Bro I don't kn if u re a man or a woman..but if u re a man you kn wat it is. If u truely love a woman u sure will take care of her. I'm not SIMP.

Because you have been sleeping with him and you now feel you're entitle to his money. If he doesn't give you, ask him when you have need and if he still not give you then you're not okay with that you leave him. No be everything you go dey need advice. No be everything them dey teach person for school.

polite2:
Bro I don't kn if u re a man or a woman..but if u re a man you kn wat it is. If u truely love a woman u sure will take care of her. I'm not SIMP.

Take care of her by giving her money? Does the woman also love the man by giving him money?