Insultme:


Thanks.
The reasons am not saying anything now is that the guy is here and if I should agree or disagree with any advice here is that, she might be informed before I can execute my plans.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Harsh treatment, they should settle and if that is not in sight then they can separate and he can still help her whenever the need arises. They shouldn’t part on a sour note. You don’t pay evil with evil. Some women sha

Insultme:
When she arrived, did all necessary things, bank account, NI, contract sim, DBS, and some trainings like Mandatorys, Moving and handling so that she can be prepared for the care worker role and we started applying for a Healthcare assistant role. She also started working with some agencies so that she won't be idle at home.

Eventually, she got a job as HCA and she started making money and I told her this. Although, you're supposed to assist me in paying my tuition fees since you're the dependant and you're allowed to work unlimited. BUT, I have paid all my tuition fees (£13,500) upfront before stepping into UK at all. So all I requested from her is to save all her money so that by the end of year, she would have gathered something for herself. She said okay. And after first month, she started ordering Wigs, Human hair, Clothes and bags. I complained how can you be spending money like this that you just entered the country? Just because you saw me buying a single winter jacket for £200 doesn't mean you have to emulate me na. She refused and said, how can I ask her to buy clothe at PRIMARK when am ordering mine from HOODRICH. 😂😁😁😄. So I kept quiet and was looking, after all shebi na she get the money and ná her sweat, let me allow her to please herself.

Insultme:


Are you the guy?😂🤣.
Even if he is not on this thread at the moment, someone is going to narrate the story to him one way or the other, that is the reason I tweaked some things in the story, although I gave out lots of information already but still, it can be anyone.

Insultme:


Lol. Go on vacation.
Las Las, you go dey alright.
That is abroad for you.

Zonefree:

Please don't respond to that guy again, his head is not correct.

A woman you called your wife went to a guy's house to collect gbola cos of three handbags and the morón is proud and defending her. Na so the woman go bring another man's child heap for the man head. Foolish horseband of a whoré! E better make person born bandit than to born a headless Simp.

I've failed as a father if i have a son like the OP. Tueh!

*Spits on his empty head!

Insultme:


She is not aware I know anything yet.
She only complains that I feel reluctant to touch her even if she is stark naked beside me.
This is not a case of being suspicious, she planned everything before leaving the house that very day. I know the guy sef might be on this forum reading this. 😉😉

Insultme:


I have all the chat, that is why I could narrate all this stories. So no way she can lie about it.

Insultme:


I Don see the guy in question.
For you to know the club. 😂😂😂😂.
Talk true, náà you àbi?

Insultme:
This is a true life story and it's really a long epistle, so take your time to read it. Insults and advice are welcomed as well.

There is this girl we're dating in Nigeria, which I intend to Marry though eventually. It started that I got my student visa in Nov 2021, so instead of me coming alone and leaving her alone back home, I decided to get Married to her same Nov 2021 and same year I did my house warming, that was in December. So she moved in to my house and I traveled for my Masters in January 2022.

So I came in alone to put everything in place, renting apartment and starting my studies. It was really an heculeous task, my eyes see shege as I was unable to pass through verification / affordability check, so I had to offer 6 month upfront before I was later considered. By end of January, she started with she is feeling lonely and can't stay alone in the house, so I started processing her visa February and I went back to Nigeria during Easter to bring her myself, just to avoid unnecessary wàhálà at the POE.

Insultme:


Nothing major back home.
More or less I do everything.

Insultme:


Do you expect her to say she doesn't want to stay married? Of course she go claim náà Devils work and I should forgive. But do you think she can repent? No I don't think so

Insultme:


Fvck till you die 😂😂
No be every time you go dey jogo.
Focus. Make money, go on vacation.
No be everything be woman woman.

ChybuzzDD:


This marriage won't work out. Find a way to come out of it with little or no further loss.

winner37:
Brother, is a rain that falls everywhere..since morning I have nothing eaten because of a girl whom I Love . Things didn't work out and money didn't flow as I expected to pay her school fee this, girl change all of a sudden no calls no chats .

I really wish it would be possible for a man to live his life without involving a woman.
Sorry I have no advice for you even me am not on the right state of mind .........
Women are evil ...

Ceaser90:
I painstakingly chose to read through all the chats.
I am in the UK and I know what is obtainable. I brought my wife in January and I know what started happening just 3wks she came in. Hiw I saw the chats from her own sister of how they will teach me a lesson.
In all, be calm. Speak to her, Share the bills and plan yourself.
Take your time and decide if you want a child with her (pray more about this) because it will increase your sorrows. Take care of your mental health brother.
Thanks for this thread. Atleast I am consoled. I nearly ran mad here.

luminouz:
How low can a married woman sink to fuq another guy for 3 bags?

JUST 3 MUDAFUCKING BAGS!!!

she lied to her husband, went to meet a random guy in his apartment and got fuqed!! Nobody go tell me say to that guy no touch am and freely gave her 3 bags!!!


I mean, how lower can a woman sink for fuq sakes?

Insultme:


😂😂😄
Well, Las las she go dey alright.
All the bags sef no reach £200
I for snap am but the guy go know na him I dey talk about. He is around the corner. 😔😔

luminouz:


You keep repeating that the guy is on NL. How do you know? Unless your story is just cruise and banter.

Insultme:
This is a true life story and it's really a long epistle, so take your time to read it. Insults and advice are welcomed as well.

There is this girl we're dating in Nigeria, which I intend to Marry though eventually. It started that I got my student visa in Nov 2021, so instead of me coming alone and leaving her alone back home, I decided to get Married to her same Nov 2021 and same year I did my house warming, that was in December. So she moved in to my house and I traveled for my Masters in January 2022.

So I came in alone to put everything in place, renting apartment and starting my studies. It was really an heculeous task, my eyes see shege as I was unable to pass through verification / affordability check, so I had to offer 6 month upfront before I was later considered. By end of January, she started with she is feeling lonely and can't stay alone in the house, so I started processing her visa February and I went back to Nigeria during Easter to bring her myself, just to avoid unnecessary wàhálà at the POE.

Insultme:


Is he not in UK?
Are we not all getting help on NL?
Àbi someone mentioned the exactly club up there and you're spitting trash that is it all cruise.
Mr or Mrs. Face front, no push me to the edge of doing what am not supposed to do. Like I said I gave out too much info already. So help me God.

luminouz:


You are angry at me?

I'm the last person in the world you need to even bother with bro. Channel that anger to the woman who disrespected her marital vows and fuqed another dude for 3 BAGS!!!

N.B: Your premise that all naija guys in the UK are on NL is not true.