tpia@:

^beauty is subjective.

not everyone places value on the same things.

most men do not think like women. That's why they're men and not women.

Mrs, Chima:

Comprehension is important. Let me repeat.  An honest man will tell you that he prefer a beautiful woman over an ugly woman with perfect manners until it becomes unbearable that he will get another woman (beautiful woman) to replace the first one. 

I mention nothing about replacing because of looks but whatever it is that unbearable to him. 

Mrs, Chima:

Comprehension is important. Let me repeat.  An honest man will tell you that he prefer a beautiful woman over an ugly woman with perfect manners until it becomes unbearable that he will get another woman (beautiful woman) to replace the first one. 

I mention nothing about replacing because of looks but whatever it is that unbearable to him. 

Shy-One:

To add to the thread

I have noticed that men seem to like women who have good etiquette for wives

As a girlfriend - they seem to love women who look a certain way but that doesn't necessarily mean that she will be taken as their wife - especially if she doesn't know how to act.

Shy-One:

I cannot really comment on this from a man's point of view - because men definitely think different from women as I am finding out ALL THE TIME.

But I can say from a woman's point of view - that I want a man who knows how to act, who has etiquette - his looks come second to that.  But I also know that looks are definitely subjective.

What turns me on in a man FIRST is his behavior, his views and his voice and how he smells.

I have seen some men that would be considered "not so attractive" by others - and he was a HUGE turn on to me.  Also - as I am starting to get older - I am noticing that what I thought was attractive when I was in my teens and early 20s - now I don't value as attractive anymore.

I just love very masculine, deep voice, serious acting men.  I am not turned on by men with high voices unless they sing in a very high voice - I like to hear that on a song but I don't want to sleep with it or date it.

promire2004:

Mrs Chima, sorry i got it twisted earlier on. But you don't have to sound like you know all.

Mrs, Chima:

Okay and that why men keep chasing beautiful women and putting up with them until they are tired of them.

tpia@:

beauty doesnt keep a man.

and beautiful women are a dime a dozen actually.

its not like they're rare or anything.

Shy-One:

The handsome, arrogant guy can be revised enough to appreciate me and withhold much of his arrogance for the sake of the relationship.

faakay:

No one is perfect.

I will rather go for the beautiful lady and ignore her bad characters   with time I will make I crop it and refine it to my own taste of character

daywatcher:

If desperate, whichever one comes first
If not, depends on the miracles emanating from the kitchen
Na my opinion be dat o

joe4christ:

God forbid, God forbid, God forbid me Joe to marry an ugly woman, what am i gonna tell my children for God's sake if they should come of age and discover i'm the source of thier pain of being classified unattractive.
Why should i consider marrying an ugly lady knowing fully well it's effect on my unborn children, i cant even immagine waking up every morning and the first person i would set my eyes on is an ugly woman laying on my bed, that alone would spoil my mood and eventually spoil my whole day (That meant i might just have to spend the rest of my life unhappy)
I'd rather remain single than marry or even date an ugly gurl,
So help me God!

kristen211:

i wuld sure go for ugly wit nice character,cos u know beautity is'nt evrythin nd u knw,if the money is there i wuld definitely bring her up to a high standard in terms of her looks.