Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend. I'm an introvert and prefer to stay by myself, but I'm starting to feel like I need to make female friends.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that?
Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

Funny how y'all are ignoring this thread after viewing it.

Let it flow

UniversalGee:
■ Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that? Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
■ By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

1. I am sorry, just trying to wrap my mind around why a supposedly intelligent engineering student would think what he asks here makes sense of some sort?

2. In what rule book of life is it written that if you don't make feminine girls your friends in university, you are doomed never to encounter them ever in life? Or are you just here to post your brain farts for kicks?

Focus on your studies because that is what your parents use their hard earned money to send you to school to do. You're in Engineering, you think it is beans and garri that they're chopping there ba? Better keep that having female friends ideas You're nurturing in your head away and focus on how to make your family proud.

Don't listen to that bros up there asking you to focus on your studies alone.

You should make female friends because they are very important. You will also be working with them when you graduate, if you can't maintain a relationship with them while in school you'd find it hard when you graduate.

Do your best to thrash your social anxiety while in school. Please do.

Human relations is an important part of education.

Friends are friends irrespective of their gender. I had no male friend during my school days, it was only females. They are highly reliable and easy to work with. I never regretted it for ones. Just make sure you're patient enough to tolerate them especially when they have issues with their boyfriends

UniversalGee:
Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that?
Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

You never talk wetin dey hungry you @the bold. Instead of you to make friends with the non feminine ones in your circle to avoid the distractions that comes with the feminine ones, you're there looking for what will bring about your downfall.
Look at Samson in the bible.
Look at David
Look at Abacha and ask yourself if you really need a girl at this time and stage of your life.

You better face what you went there to do before you regret.

Karleb:
Don't listen to that bros up there asking you to focus on your studies alone.

You should make female friends because they are very important. You will also be working with them when you graduate, if you can't maintain a relationship with them while in school you'd find it hard when you graduate.

Do your best to thrash your social anxiety while in school. Please do.

Human relations is an important part of education.

Okay. But then how do I go about? I'm an introvert, and I don't like the idea of approaching girls on the road to woo them. What are your suggestions?

Snitch24:
Let it flow

How? Explain

EriMma1:


You never talk wetin dey hungry you @the bold. Instead of you to make friends with the non feminine ones in your circle to avoid the distractions that comes with the feminine ones, you're there looking for what will bring about your downfall.
Look at Samson in the bible.
Look at David
Look at Abacha and ask yourself if you really need a girl at this time and stage of your life.

You better face what you went there to do before you regret.

If you see the girls in my department, you will vex sef. They look like men.

fyzaila:
Focus on your studies because that is what your parents use their hard earned money to send you to school to do. You're in Engineering, you think it is beans and garri that they're chopping there ba? Better keep that having female friends ideas You're nurturing in your head away and focus on how to make your family proud.

Since Day 1, I have been focusing on my books.

UniversalGee:
If you see the girls in my department, you will vex sef. They look like men.

That is why I said you Neva talk wetin you dey look for. If is just friends you want, why are you bothered about their looks? You can be friends with anyone regardless but you want the sweet and sexy looking ones you can have intimacy with and I am telling you, you don't need such for now.

Go for those "ugly" looking ones who I'm sure are intelligent enough to be in that department. Those types are always focused and would not distract you from your studies but would rather help you stay focused and excel in your studies. That is where their beauty lies and every man should strive to have such ladies as friends. Not the overly dressed and makeup fashionistas with empty brains who have nothing upstairs to offer than their overused bodies.

Those ones you see as ugly, their beauty always come out after Uni education when they start working and polish their skin, by then, coupled with their brilliance the kind of level they'll be pulling, you no go fit approach them. I know what I'm saying.

I'm advising you like a mother. So listen before it's too late. Face your studies.

UniversalGee:
Okay. But then how do I go about? I'm an introvert, and I don't like the idea of approaching girls on the road to woo them. What are your suggestions?

Join a group in the church where you will make impact. The easiest one is the usher. If you can sing or play instrument then choir but if you can't, please don't go near choir department. If you are Muslim, I don't have advice here.

Join a group in your university where you can meet a lot of girls. You can join more than one here.

Make friends with those masculine girls too. They have feminine friends you can easily befriend through them.

Join departmental and faculty politics. Even if you don't win, you are going to meet a lot fresh babes while campaigning.

Don't be in haste to go home after lecture. Make it your duty to hang around like 30 minutes.

Make friends with guys too.

UniversalGee:
Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend. I'm an introvert and prefer to stay by myself, but I'm starting to feel like I need to make female friends.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that?
Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

Where you told about female friends and it's negative side

Have anyone told you anything bad about having a female friend or friends

So how will you study the life of women and their crazy behavior before getting married

UniversalGee:
Since Day 1, I have been focusing on my books.

Then keep focusing on it and don't allow women to distract with their shenanigans

Most times i ask myself whats the point? Friends you can't even count on in this selfish world.


But still try and be relating with people [in your case girls] sha; no man's an island you know.

UniversalGee:
How? Explain

If you have to force it
It will cost you money
Try answering more questions in class
Dress and smell good
Keep Ur haircut clean

Karleb:
Don't listen to that bros up there asking you to focus on your studies alone.

You should make female friends because they are very important. You will also be working with them when you graduate, if you can't maintain a relationship with them while in school you'd find it hard when you graduate.

Do your best to thrash your social anxiety while in school. Please do.

Human relations is an important part of education.

Is he not studying with female students now?

It's not compulsory to have female friends just the way some guys have adviced him.

Fiscus105:



Is he not studying with female students now?

It's not compulsory to have female friends just the way some guys have adviced him.

Why do you think so?

Why are you guys so scared of women?

U can have famale friends, but never and never and i repeat, never and never have a girlfriend because that will be begining of ur downfall, financially nd mentally wise

Love800:
U can have famale friends, but never and never and i repeat, never and never have a girlfriend because that will be begining of ur downfall, financially nd mentally wise

Thanks for the advice